Ishu - posssesive mum , Dev - parentified child

I am so disturbed with ishu's behviour that I set on to google the logic behind it and found something very close to what we are seeing in krp today . With all credits to the Author read on

http://lovelifelearningcenter.com/my-possessive-mother/

This says how a possessive mum always only thinks of her needs of being the most important person in her son's life and is not ready to let him build new relationships and does not care how old the son is or how his personal relationship is suffering or even breaks ! That's our ish isn't it!!

Now second part id parentified child-hope it's not Dev ! Parentified child is the parent figure for a possessive mum and has a blind spot towards the effect of possessive mum on his personal life.

I am just hoping dev does not turn to be a parentified child because if he does then Sona has an uphill task and a very difficult one .

I am still shocked at this concept but for me it is very important that I know the science behind this else I will moan whole day :)

But guys please remember as much as we love dev Sona and want them to make love but please remember this is just a TV show and don't let it take away the peace of your mind !

Enjoy your weekend with your lovely friends and families !!

Ciao

oho bichara Dev kar bhi kya sakta hai afterall Ishwari is her mother...poor Dev

no no Dev is not a parentified child ..

Nice points. I agree about both Eeshwari and Dev.

Exactly my point ! Ishu is possessive and she has seen a victory in the past when dev ditched Sona for her and somewhere she wants to try that again or is confident that when she twitches her fingers Dev will do it again :/

My only hope is Sona and Dev. Both need to behave differently this time . If dev is pushed to ditch Sona again he must take a lesson from pre marriage break up and act differently and not just break up and If he does Sona should refuse to take that break up because she should know this is coming from his mummy not him.

The good news is this is not about Sona but just about any girl who would have married Dev ( unless she was a timid one like dadi bua's bahu)

But I have a feeling the way Sona observes ishu she is surely studying her behaviour and will take steps to fix it !! Hope she does and this time with dev 😊

Originally posted by: JyotiBThakur

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">I don't think Dev will turn out to be a parentified child. He'll definitely try to balance all the relationships.</font>

Yea I believe so odds are towards him not being a parentified child ! Which is great .. Fingers crossed!

Originally posted by: easyandbusy

Exactly my point ! Ishu is possessive and she has seen a victory in the past when dev ditched Sona for her and somewhere she wants to try that again or is confident that when she twitches her fingers Dev will do it again :/

My only hope is Sona and Dev. Both need to behave differently this time . If dev is pushed to ditch Sona again he must take a lesson from pre marriage break up and act differently and not just break up and If he does Sona should refuse to take that break up because she should know this is coming from his mummy not him.

The good news is this is not about Sona but just about any girl who would have married Dev ( unless she was a timid one like dadi bua's bahu)

But I have a feeling the way Sona observes ishu she is surely studying her behaviour and will take steps to fix it !! Hope she does and this time with dev 😊

In all this dev-eeshwari thing we forget that neha was also the parentified daughter. She was thrust upon the responsibility of taking care of her younger sisters for the whole day! While eeshwari concentrated on making dev the bread winner like her deceased husband, she chose neha to fill in for her as the mother to her other kids. I want Neha's story to be explored properly too, instead of bringing in stupid characters every other day.