Not the most pleasant post : 'A different show???!!!'

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Dear ..

Since you have mentioned that you are only 14 , so I can understand you can't relate most of the stuff .

But If you watch the launching episode , makers clearly told that it is almost same story with difference .
That difference is implementation , that diffeence is how realistically factors they can put into the story .

So far I can say with my experience they are adding realistic things

Originally posted by: AngelsFlyAlone

What's stinging my brains at the moment is, how is this close to reality? Sonakshi wasn't going to go back initially, they are the ones who begged for her to be back. Like it is utter destruction of the female lead. Where is her strong headedness and her self respect? Why has she turned to a doormat? Where is the gender equality. The man has just been married and in 2 days he's back at work, conveniently avoiding the bullsh*t happening! And if Sonakshi had instead returned to work she would have been the target for all sorts of taunts. Also, what's the point of heavy makeup, silk Saree and that bun dorning woman who is constantly dusked to tears in the corner? Ishwari is a very confusing character too, one day she is being friendly and too polite, another day she is being a cruel and cheap freaking ugliest hearted human on earth. What about the prenuptial thing? She is apologizing for eating in front of presence of non veg food but doesn't regret an ounce of the fact that she stole her son's signature. What a lady! This show is heavy and highly melodramatic. It is heights of anything! I suppose you happen to be one of the few appreciating this track cause 90% of the posts happen to speak against this ridiculous storyline.

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Darling am married for almost 8 years ( hoping this number will increase😆) .. Yes it is close to real but not real .It is fiction serial So they need to add drama elements.. Otherwise who is interested in watching the serial where everyone is only positive ? Even in real life in real family, every one is different 😳

Sona wearing saree, makeup and jewellery - When I got married believe me I was doing the same thing willingly..You definitely wants to look something different😆 and it feels good. Your life has changed. You need to accept big changes with smile on lips and not cribbing about saree, jewellery and makup. Specially doing it for my hubby grandmother. She was very happy to see me wearing saree and in jewellery. That smile I will never forget. I don't regret doing that. Last year as well his grandmother told me to wear saree some occasions (where everyone in my aged group was wearing salwar and not saree). Without a second doubt I wore just for her. It is that bad to compromise for 90 year old lady ? Can't I just compromise for family member? What is saying to me - wear saree ? Shld I take on my self resepct?

AS far as Ishwari part is concern - She is realistic as well- it is quite possible, some MIL does behave like her- sometime polite and sometime rude.. 😕 My MIL does behave like this honestly and very much - she sometimes even check and touched our personal stuff as well- ( Ishwari wants to know what is dev sent to sona was real scenes)

Pls don't be scared after reading my post - Married life is beautiful. Even though it is not necessary that you get along with your inlaws, but end of the day even they are important part of your life.

In marriage everything is not 2+2=4 , sometimes it is 22 as well.

We need to compromise, adjust, sometimes even do something which we don;t like.

Every time you can't think if wife/hubby is compromising , adjusting in new environment she/hebecomes doormat or she/he doesn't have self respect.

Rishte binane ke liye kabhi jhukna pade then hummein jhuk jana chaiye. Because woh rishte bhi toh humare hi hai..

P.S. sorry for long rant dear. I can go on and on .. Thankfully IF is stopping me for writing more 😆

Originally posted by: AngelsFlyAlone

Okay you seem to be much more experienced to those things than I am because, obviously I have never been married before! Also, because I probably will never commit to something like thatbecause I dont believe in love and stuff and I am definitely not jumping into some random person via arranged marriage. If you say some MILs are like her, I am totally avoiding this road because there is more behind this dirty kitchen politics. Personally, I live far from India (I'm Indo-Australian) and I don't live in a joint family, so that rules out my relate-ability with the show. However, I still watched it because it was something new. It was about the dynamics between these people. Now even Shaheer tweeted saying "its gone to a saas bahu drama" n Erica replied back saying "sad but true" so I find it disheartening when a good concept is butchered really. Also, the fact that all these things happen to be realistic does raise a lot of questions on a "misogynistic society" in the country because a lot of the traditions are really unfair and very very sexist.