Sona has lied before ! - Page 2

Originally posted by: tia.o

<font color="#990033" size="3">There is a difference between lying and cheating. Yes, she lied before for Dev but that's because she was asked question which is no one's business but hers.</font>

<font color="#990033" size="3">Here the lie is to cheat. She could have refused to give any exam. She could have protested against unfairly rigged exam. But passing off someone else's work as your own is cheating, not lying.</font>

<font color="#990033" size="3">That is not an acceptable behaviour.</font>

<font color="#990033" size="3">I will feel equally bad, if Sona does all the work and Ishwari takes the credit regardless whose idea it was.</font>

Who cares! Ishwari has nothing but kitchen politics and one upmanship in her life. Sona shouldnt get in that muck with her. She has a lotmore going..first kiss, first night, her job, dixit girls.. just have fun!

Sona is not a compulsive liar without any conscience. A lot of people lie for self preservation sometimes when they are cornered. But I don't feel that Sona would be so stressed about her first rasoi that she would resort to cheating people by taking credit for someone else's work. When she is brave enough to tell Radharani and dadibua just a few minutes ago, that she didn't bother about petty stuff as she was busy making a career, wouldn't she be brave enough to tell them that she is not good at cooking? I felt that this is out of character for a girl like Sona who is a very righteous person. The only flimsy reason I see in this for Sona to lie is that Eeshwari kept on chanting Dev's izzat all the while and Sona genuinely cares for Dev. But I still don't like insults heaped upon the DIL by a group of old women, as it stinks of Saas-bahu drama. I don't mind drama as long as it is drama between Dev-Sona-Eeshwari with the flavor of a love story, but this dadibua-Eeshwari-Radharani trio insulting Sona while Dev conveniently goes missing from the scene, is unbearable.

Oh ! I think I was not very clear about POV when I wrote it ..

Originally posted by: baijubavra

Oh ! I think I was not very clear about POV when I wrote it ..

1. I think she should have avoided dadi bua as Ishwari suggested. She could have come up with some execuse. If she did not like being with those obnoxious people ( mami and bua dadi) , she could have politely refused to come downstairs and spend any more time with them. She made Ishwari look bad when she did not listen to her advice and came down.

2. I am not saying that she should have taken credit for Ishwari's work but when Bua dadi was suggesting the menu, she could have said that she did not know how to make everything and should have asked herMIL to help her out and teach her while praising her cooking. ishwari herself accepted in t he previous episode that she learnt most of her cooking from dadi bua. She could have invited dadi bua to teach her some tricks as well. I sometimes feel that sona is confrontational then feels sad when the things snowball into an unfavorable outcome.

All I am saying is that there is a way ti get out of unpleasant situations without being confrontational. She has lied before to do it and I did not see any harm in coming up with a polite execuse to not come downstairs.

Ps:I am totally against taking credit for someone elese work. So Its good that Sona came clean about who cooked.