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As Sona's first rasoi is getting on the way and everyone is saying that Sona has never lied in her life etc., here are some situations where she has lied before... Please note that I am not saying that if she should have lied about the first rasoi or not because that is a separate debate but just presenting some evidence of her past lies here ..
1. The whole Niel as her boyfriend was a complete lie to get out of a situation. She lied about Neil to Dev, Natasha, Eshwari and Dev's sisters

2. She lied to both Eshwari and Nikki when Dev was going to pick her up on the first day post confession
3. She lied several time infront of several people when their relationship was not open including her parents when she lied about the pink saree that Dev gave her

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Posted: 8 years ago
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What we meant was that she's not good at lying ...and it came from the examples u shared.
Its not that she has never lied...just that she cannot cover it and people get to know its a lie.
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Originally posted by: dikshat

What we meant was that she's not good at lying ...and it came from the examples u shared.

Its not that she has never lied...just that she cannot cover it and people get to know its a lie.


Her parents believed her drycleaner story and also all the other lies never got caught either! The only that ever got caught was Neil and that too was because Dev started to ask many probing questions after believing her first.
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Her parents believed her drycleaner story and also all the other lies never got caught either! The only that ever got caught was Neil and that too was because Dev started to ask many probing questions after believing her first.



Its not just abt lying dear..its also what ur lying abt.

In our lives too, there are some kinda lie we jst say coz they are harmless or mayb do not do any damage
While some lie do
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Also its abt ur conscience
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Its not just abt lying dear..its also what ur lying abt.

In our lives too, there are some kinda lie we jst say coz they are harmless or mayb do not do any damage
While some lie do


Thats what I was thinking as well! All Sona had to do was to say that she was too tired to come down and could have easily avoided all the drama by Bua Dadi but no satyavadi harishchandra had to come down. I believe that some of the obnoxious people in every wedding are there just to create drama and the best policy is to avoide them and not confront them. Eshwari shoould have kept it simple and shoukd have said that she cooked all the things but taught Sona to add garnishings at at the end to get her touch on the dishes. My MIL knew that I did not know any cooking but when the old great grand ma asked me to make kheer, she made it and let me garnish it with almonds at tne end. Everyone was happy and we did not even have to lie or fight.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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She lied in the past ut she is not good at it...she gets caughtvery easily ..

All the lies in the past, she did not lie infront of someone who knows that she is lying -- it really makes it uncomfortable when you have to lie to a person infront of so many ppl who actual know that she is lying... You know what i mean?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Good observation. But in the past she lied on her own. Now her mother in law asked her to lie. Both are different. Isn't it?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: baijubavra

As Sona's first rasoi is getting on the way and everyone is saying that Sona has never lied in her life etc., here are some situations where she has lied before... Please note that I am not saying that if she should have lied about the first rasoi or not because that is a separate debate but just presenting some evidence of her past lies here ..

1. The whole Niel as her boyfriend was a complete lie to get out of a situation. She lied about Neil to Dev, Natasha, Eshwari and Dev's sisters

2. She lied to both Eshwari and Nikki when Dev was going to pick her up on the first day post confession
3. She lied several time infront of several people when their relationship was not open including her parents when she lied about the pink saree that Dev gave her



That lieing and this kind of liening.. HuGe difference!!!! She is a new bride and doing all this looks horrible. Plus, Ishwari as always railroading and bullying and emotionally manipulating with Dev Dev Dev.. not right!

If Ishwari was true in support.. she would have said.. Sona meetha banaayegi..thats it! And help her with it. Ishwari first kep quiet theninserted herself then manipulated... it'll backfire and sona again willlook bad.
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Originally posted by: baijubavra


Thats what I was thinking as well! All Sona had to do was to say that she was too tired to come down and could have easily avoided all the drama by Bua Dadi but no satyavadi harishchandra had to come down. I believe that some of the obnoxious people in every wedding are there just to create drama and the best policy is to avoide them and not confront them. Eshwari shoould have kept it simple and shoukd have said that she cooked all the things but taught Sona to add garnishings at at the end to get her touch on the dishes. My MIL knew that I did not know any cooking but when the old great grand ma asked me to make kheer, she made it and let me garnish it with almonds at tne end. Everyone was happy and we did not even have to lie or fight.


All I can say is Your MIL didnt do it for the sake of her son but she genuinely felt for u..😳

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