What rubbish are they showing???

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I'm so angry after watching tonight's episode that I can barely gather my thoughts together or know where to start. What are they showing? Sona has barely stepped into her husband's house and she has to listen to insult after insult! (yes it's her husband's house, Ishwari, not yours!! It may have your name on it but Dev paid for it and I find it hilarious that you yelled about how you won't tolerate fish in "YOUR' house)
Anyway, has Sona entered this house for the express purpose of being insulted? Insults are being flung not only at her, but at her family too. And Dev just sits there looking mildly perturbed while RR and Dadi are saving intolerable, unforgivable things to her. For God's sake, give the poor girl a break already. She has left her home and everything and everyone dear to her and this is how you treat her?

Dev telling Sona - "Everyone in this house loves you" - Now that's a joke ! So he is so dense and stupid that he thinks Ishwari and RR love Sona?? Really Dev - you are supposed to be an astute businessman but you can't read between the lines and see what these 2 women really think about Sona? Your mother is insecure as hell about her and your Mamiji hates Sona for what reason, God alone knows. Maybe her beauty, her qualifications, the fact that she puts her wretched son Vicky in his place??

The look exchanged between Sona and Ishwari as Sona turns to leave - what was that? Has Sona just realised she's been had? That it was all a facade put up by Ishwari? It felt like Ishwari was telling her, 'You see, I always win. You are no match for me.'

I am so glad Sona confronted Dev and expressed all that has been on many of our minds. I am glad she questioned the Dixit family eating in restaurants (where non veg may be made), but Dev says Ishwari doesn't eat out ever. Umm..at the award function where Sona accompanies Ishwari as her nutritionist, I distinctly remember a lady talking to Ishwari and congratulating her on how well Sona was taking care of Ishwari, including bringing salad for her. So she does eat outside, doesn't she ??

But Sona, I doubt you are going to get any answers from Dev. Dev, like many men, simply wants to push the unpleasantness away and get on with life. In this case, his first night. Yes, Dev you don't want Sona to spoil the first night by bringing up controversial subjects but you are quite ok with the night being spoiled by your drama queen mother's antics and your aunt's and dadi's constant taunts and insults.

Ishwari is so so clever. She didn't hesitate to let Sona know - on the very first night of marriage - that Sona was in this house only because Ishwari gave in to Dev's 'zidd'. She is the master of getting her point across in subtle jabs and pricks. Only dense Dev is oblivious to these tactics of hers.

Muh dikhayi rasam - I don't know much about this but it seems to me like a highly regressive and archaic practice. I could never tolerate being paraded in front of a bunch of women like a doll on display. Wish this serial had done away with showing such outdated and I feel, irrelevant things. And even here, Sona will not be spared. Because she stumbled and her pallu fell off her face. So what? Is the world going to end because of that?

Its now confirmed that the makers simply want to manufacture drama through trumped up situations. Why the hell doesn't mamiji ever lift a hand in the kitchen or anywhere else? When she sees Ishwari reeling all over the place why doesn't she help her or better stil,l insist she sits down while she takes over?? Because then there would be no drama. So this is the way this serial is going now. Forced drama, kitchen politics and saas bahu struggles.

Such a huge, huge pity.




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Posted: 8 years ago
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dont want this serial to be a typical saas bahu show in a modern setting. wedding is over, time for dadi bua to leave and sona to get back to work.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kar08

I'm so angry after watching tonight's episode that I can barely gather my thoughts together or know where to start. What are they showing? Sona has barely stepped into her husband's house and she has to listen to insult after insult! (yes it's her husband's house, Ishwari, not yours!! It may have your name on it but Dev paid for it and I find it hilarious that you yelled about how you won't tolerate fish in "YOUR' house)

Anyway, has Sona entered this house for the express purpose of being insulted? Insults are being flung not only at her, but at her family too. And Dev just sits there looking mildly perturbed while RR and Dadi are saving intolerable, unforgivable things to her. For God's sake, give the poor girl a break already. She has left her home and everything and everyone dear to her and this is how you treat her?

Dev telling Sona - "Everyone in this house loves you" - Now that's a joke ! So he is so dense and stupid that he thinks Ishwari and RR love Sona?? Really Dev - you are supposed to be an astute businessman but you can't read between the lines and see what these 2 women really think about Sona? Your mother is insecure as hell about her and your Mamiji hates Sona for what reason, God alone knows. Maybe her beauty, her qualifications, the fact that she puts her wretched son Vicky in his place??

The look exchanged between Sona and Ishwari as Sona turns to leave - what was that? Has Sona just realised she's been had? That it was all a facade put up by Ishwari? It felt like Ishwari was telling her, 'You see, I always win. You are no match for me.'

I am so glad Sona confronted Dev and expressed all that has been on many of our minds. I am glad she questioned the Dixit family eating in restaurants (where non veg may be made), but Dev says Ishwari doesn't eat out ever. Umm..at the award function where Sona accompanies Ishwari as her nutritionist, I distinctly remember a lady talking to Ishwari and congratulating her on how well Sona was taking care of Ishwari, including bringing salad for her. So she does eat outside, doesn't she ??

But Sona, I doubt you are going to get any answers from Dev. Dev, like many men, simply wants to push the unpleasantness away and get on with life. In this case, his first night. Yes, Dev you don't want Sona to spoil the first night by bringing up controversial subjects but you are quite ok with the night being spoiled by your drama queen mother's antics and your aunt's and dadi's constant taunts and insults.

Ishwari is so so clever. She didn't hesitate to let Sona know - on the very first night of marriage - that Sona was in this house only because Ishwari gave in to Dev's 'zidd'. She is the master of getting her point across in subtle jabs and pricks. Only dense Dev is oblivious to these tactics of hers.

Muh dikhayi rasam - I don't know much about this but it seems to me like a highly regressive and archaic practice. I could never tolerate being paraded in front of a bunch of women like a doll on display. Wish this serial had done away with showing such outdated and I feel, irrelevant things. And even here, Sona will not be spared. Because she stumbled and her pallu fell off her face. So what? Is the world going to end because of that?

Its now confirmed that the makers simply want to manufacture drama through trumped up situations. Why the hell doesn't mamiji ever lift a hand in the kitchen or anywhere else? When she sees Ishwari reeling all over the place why doesn't she help her or better stil,l insist she sits down while she takes over?? Because then there would be no drama. So this is the way this serial is going now. Forced drama, kitchen politics and saas bahu struggles.

Such a huge, huge pity.




Today's episode was a reality check for all the 3 leads Dev is still spineless,Ishwari is clueless and Sona well the only mature one has to handle everything 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: captkirk

dont want this serial to be a typical saas bahu show in a modern setting. wedding is over, time for dadi bua to leave and sona to get back to work.

Dadibua needs to be thrown out 😡
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I have not watched the episode and don't think I want to watch it. I haven't either for a while cos I was really surprised that Sona would capitulate so quickly and agree to get married... how did the Boses' ever think that someone like Ishwari would change overnight...

Ishwari has done what a smart mother- in-law would do. She has Dev where she wanted him by agreeing to his zid. And now can flex muscle cos Dev will never say anything against her.

Though I think the fish issue is being made a big thing of...Lots of veg households don't like non veg being cooked and the daughter in law or son in law eat out.. I don't think that is such a big thing... even the mooh dikhai rasam is usually a whole load f fun in most households with the bride being praised and the poor son usually being teased no end.. it is usually a great way for the daughter-in-law to bond with her new family... though this is TV of course!

The big b thing is Dev not being able to or not willing to look at anything that might be amiss...exp when it comes to his darling mom!
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Edited by DMGFan-2b-not2b - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: kar08

I'm so angry after watching tonight's episode that I can barely gather my thoughts together or know where to start. What are they showing? Sona has barely stepped into her husband's house and she has to listen to insult after insult! (yes it's her husband's house, Ishwari, not yours!! It may have your name on it but Dev paid for it and I find it hilarious that you yelled about how you won't tolerate fish in "YOUR' house)

Anyway, has Sona entered this house for the express purpose of being insulted? Insults are being flung not only at her, but at her family too. And Dev just sits there looking mildly perturbed while RR and Dadi are saving intolerable, unforgivable things to her. For God's sake, give the poor girl a break already. She has left her home and everything and everyone dear to her and this is how you treat her?
@bold: Exactly! Speak up Dev.This is your wife they are insulting.But oops he is busy as usual in mommy land.

Dev telling Sona - "Everyone in this house loves you" - Now that's a joke ! So he is so dense and stupid that he thinks Ishwari and RR love Sona?? Really Dev - you are supposed to be an astute businessman but you can't read between the lines and see what these 2 women really think about Sona? Your mother is insecure as hell about her and your Mamiji hates Sona for what reason, God alone knows. Maybe her beauty, her qualifications, the fact that she puts her wretched son Vicky in his place??
@bold:He cannot even see what is right in front of him(GKB& Bua),reading between lines (Ishwari)is far from possible.

The look exchanged between Sona and Ishwari as Sona turns to leave - what was that? Has Sona just realised she's been had? That it was all a facade put up by Ishwari? It felt like Ishwari was telling her, 'You see, I always win. You are no match for me.'
Oh that just meant one thing-The "Dev kiska zada hai"game is ON for Ishwari again.

I am so glad Sona confronted Dev and expressed all that has been on many of our minds. I am glad she questioned the Dixit family eating in restaurants (where non veg may be made), but Dev says Ishwari doesn't eat out ever. Umm..at the award function where Sona accompanies Ishwari as her nutritionist, I distinctly remember a lady talking to Ishwari and congratulating her on how well Sona was taking care of Ishwari, including bringing salad for her. So she does eat outside, doesn't she ??
@bold:Then what was he thinking while agreeing to serve non-veg?Why did he not ensure that his mother faces no problem?That's not balance,that's stupidity.

But Sona, I doubt you are going to get any answers from Dev. Dev, like many men, simply wants to push the unpleasantness away and get on with life. In this case, his first night. Yes, Dev you don't want Sona to spoil the first night by bringing up controversial subjects but you are quite ok with the night being spoiled by your drama queen mother's antics and your aunt's and dadi's constant taunts and insults.
And also by his dumb answers to her." I didn't say anything about fish or maa's insults"Really?😡They were not at fault for the fish drama and Ishwari deserved the insults.And how about reminding him the way he and Ishwari have insulted Sona and Bose family time and again.

Ishwari is so so clever. She didn't hesitate to let Sona know - on the very first night of marriage - that Sona was in this house only because Ishwari gave in to Dev's 'zidd'. She is the master of getting her point across in subtle jabs and pricks. Only dense Dev is oblivious to these tactics of hers.
Well at least Sona is no more living in illusions.Ishwari was as usual successful in her jabs.

Muh dikhayi rasam - I don't know much about this but it seems to me like a highly regressive and archaic practice. I could never tolerate being paraded in front of a bunch of women like a doll on display. Wish this serial had done away with showing such outdated and I feel, irrelevant things. And even here, Sona will not be spared. Because she stumbled and her pallu fell off her face. So what? Is the world going to end because of that?
I don't know much about this rasam but I think it is mainly for meeting the bride and bless her because during the wedding, the family/friends are never really able to interact or meet the bride properly.So this rasam is sort of an introduction and welcome into the the family/friends circle .The CVs have shown it negatively just for the sake of drama. Buaji'c character is from another century🤢

Its now confirmed that the makers simply want to manufacture drama through trumped up situations. Why the hell doesn't mamiji ever lift a hand in the kitchen or anywhere else? When she sees Ishwari reeling all over the place why doesn't she help her or better stil,l insist she sits down while she takes over?? Because then there would be no drama. So this is the way this serial is going now. Forced drama, kitchen politics and saas bahu struggles.

Such a huge, huge pity.
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Edited by rose4ever - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with u guys. That the nonsense junk they r showing. Muh dikhayi utter nonsense, who puts such a big ghungat these days . This dadibua is getting on my nerves now. Please cvs don't show this c**p. Can't tolerate this. I will loose ur loyal viewers. Don't stretch this drama out of proportion. Cut it out!
And yes what was that look that isu gave to sona, OMG. Like seriously made me feel like she is telling sona that see I won again and dev loves me the most. Hey bagwan, tell this brainless woman that she is dev's ma not biwi. Let the two souls meet!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes I guess its too much to expect Dev to read between the lines when he's oblivious to and clueless about what's right in front of him. Or he chooses to turn a blind eye to it to save himself the trouble of having to take a stand.

About the rasam - thanks for clarifying the reason behind it. But in that case, why not sit in your normal clothes and chat with the women who have come to see and bless you? Years ago, perhaps women especially new brides couldn't show their faces, but do we have to continue these customs today, even if they are only for a day?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Guess I hav. A different pov here..today balanced everything that the Maha epi missed out..first and foremost devakshi Convo..secondly dixit s might hav evolved big in term of monitory status but ish still s d same in terms of respecting her elders and her habits..if she respects daadi bua she did d right thing..cooking for gr saas is ishwary ..and if hr health gave up den it s nt hr fault..as she said it was hr sons wedding and d eldest f d family didn't eat..she did one wrong thing by not packing home food in prior. Why Dere was nothing home? It cud hav been thrown out due to fish fiasco..again assumptions
Baba and sona overreact for everything..sonakshi s trying to still see things from her family s perspective ..know dis ll take time to change ..fully acceptable..
Dev s in newly Wed hangover..and he s right in his own terms ..he agrees he tried to strike a balance but failed..and seriously he s avoiding fights ..coz such issues can draw only fights and peace with never v attained.. His thought process wud b fish came maa got angry all sorted ab move on..and believe m it's d vest way to stay happy..

Ishwary wouldn't hsve said a word If sona didn't get d topic if why u agreed to non veg ..ish s always defensive of her son and which mom would see a one day dil arguing with her son in front of her? Our girl has to know this basic etiquette of when to fight and when not? This s also a form of self respect where u don't let ppl point fingers at u and yr values..the big double decker room is dere Na. Go eat his brains Dere...argue in front of ishwary and earn earf from dadi mami was d most ridiculous move by sonakshi..

But dis s what she s .. straight fwd ...how she adjusts s wat d future s all about...I m all ready...poor dev.leave reports ur mom and wife will make sure d doc s right.. No waris atleast for now
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I was like this when Dev said that every one in my family loves you wala dialog 😲 . Sona looked mad AF and rightfully so ! 😆
Dev hasn't changed one bit ! Still the convenient ostrich, me, my mom and my family parrot and devoted blind worshipper and resident of lala mummy land 😆

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