Women- why can't self-respect and loving a man go hand in hand ? - Page 2

this a very good post and ofcourse you are having your own reasons for what you have written but I disagree particularly what you have written about self respect, shivaay telling anika about not having class on her face should have been enough for anika to understand his character the soft side she has seen is just limited to his family members all those people who live across the great wall of sso mean nothing to him being an oberoi means to shivaay that he is above everyone and even anika and he has arguments over this issue alot of time specially in their initial encounters.Even after all this she was looking at him all teary eyed,telling him that her life revolves around him,and affected all of a sudden when she first hear the news of his marriage is not at all the part of her character her getting emotional about the rest of the family members is quite natural in a short span of time she earned respect from them and they too began to consider her a part of family so that was all natural but these new born and sudden shocking feelings are not making any sense to me.

I agree with everything you said just want to add that Shivaay is in a way in LOVE but anika is more in an attachment turning into LOVE phase. She has never been in s relationship before nor did she had any guidance for it from anyone. Shivaay still has OmRu so he had pondered over this time and time again. And the way I see it, shivaay will make anika realize that she is also in love with him and this is what LOVE does to people (but for that he needs to accept this himself first) 😆

Originally posted by: vivacious_gurl

This time she hasn't heard him call her all those names... So she isnt weak at all... If she had heard those words for her she wud hv been fiery again.. Coz self respect is the only thing she owns...