having a child leads to fruitful marital life?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I believe a child after marriage strengthens marital relationship. It is not the solution for happy marriage. Children are the fruits of love.

Marriage is between two people and two families.

Today's episode was only talking about kids.

Look at saira banu and dilip kumar. They are a couple who dont have kids. But they are still happy.

What do you think?

I don't think children is the ultimate solution for happy married life.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: telly_buff

I believe a child after marriage strengthens marital relationship. It is not the solution for happy marriage. Children are the fruits of love.

Marriage is between two people and two families.

Today's episode was only talking about kids.

Look at saira banu and dilip kumar. They are a couple who dont have kids. But they are still happy.

What do you think?

I don't think children is the ultimate solution for happy married life.

This is all just for the infertility track that they are mentioning it again and again.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Here is a couple who havent even kissed yet and talking about babies already!
CV'S and their logic go figure
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Posted: 8 years ago
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First sensible post among so many posts fussing over how infertility is a bad track and how it's great that there's lil possibility etc.

I think if two people truly love each-other, than for them each-other's companionship is all that would matter. Dev doesn't become 'mahaan' or redeem himself in anyway if he stands by the person he claims to love even though she cannot conceive. He loved the person first, not the child.
Edited by ..Khushi.. - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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The Great Indian Irony..
1. Marry so that you have license to have kids

2. Have problems in married life? Solution: have a kid

3. Save Save and Save for your kids for you can enjoy when your one leg is in grave.

4. Teach you child how to earn money but don't teach him how to live life.

Next generation
1. 2. 3. 4. on Repeat mode pls!!

Expectations + No Logic = Zindagi Ek "Suffer"


Edited by dikshat - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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No but infertility tracks lead to fruitful TRPs so...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Dilip Kumar humiliated Saira Banu years back. He tried to marry Aasma ,a married woman secretly citing the reason he wanted kids but problem is with Saira Banu. But later it did not materialise with Saira fighting hard to get her husband back to her and becoming successful.

Generally when problem lies with Gents Women accept that heartfully without complain. But if the lady has a problem to conceive very rarely man will stand by her. With the advanced techniques and Surrogacy option now such marriages are somehow surviving but otherwise not having children is really an issue in married life.
Not many in our society stand firm and live for their love irrespective of the presence of children in their life. Then the family also plays an important role here. If the in laws are generous they will be fine with adoption or surrogacy. If not a traumatic family life will make the person shattered and depressed.

So it is easy on paper but hard in real life to lead a childless life
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..Khushi..

First sensible post among so many posts fussing over how infertility is a bad track and how it's great that there's lil possibility etc.


I think if two people truly love each-other, than for them each-other's companionship is all that would matter. Dev doesn't become 'mahaan' or redeem himself in anyway if he stands by the person he claims to love even though she cannot conceive. He loved the person first, not the child.


As much as your post is true..its also a fact that with regards to this issue.. sadly Dev do not exist or are very few in our society...can be counted.

And for this reason, not the primary reason, but only this reason..they can redeem him.😲

My POV
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: dikshat

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">The Great Indian Irony..</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">1. Marry so that you have license to have kids</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">2. Have problems in married life? Solution: have a kid</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">3. Save Save and Save for your kids for you can enjoy when your one leg is in grave.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">4. Teach you child how to earn money but don't teach him how to live life.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">Next generation</font>
<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">1. 2. 3. 4. on Repeat mode pls!!</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2" color="#ff0033">Expectations + No Logic = Zindagi Ek "Suffer"</font>






Hahahahaha
This pretty much sums up everything that happens after marriage..
Nice post Dikshat,,,specially the kids part
Any problems in marriage..have a kid ..lol ROFL 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shilky88




Hahahahaha
This pretty much sums up everything that happens after marriage..
Nice post Dikshat,,,specially the kids part
Any problems in marriage..have a kid ..lol ROFL 😆


Thank you ..😊
The kid part part is the most sick thought I find..😡
The worst of all is ...No Logic...I feel choked when people do anything and everything in the name of tradition, culture...All they have to say is pehle se chala aa raha hai ...is this a reason??
The society lacks reasoning big time man!!

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