Did Sultan embarrassed Aarfa on National TV?

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Did anyone else felt Sultan guilt shame and tried to emotional black mail Aarfa infront of an entire audience? Was it really his place or time to put her under the spotlight? Clearly they had an issue between a personal matter between them and were living seperately and not even on talking terms. Is it fair for any husband to put his wife under the spotlight in front of random nobodies so that she is guilt shame or emotional blackmailed while asking their help to get them together?
He also mentioned "Hamare yaha divorces nahi hote". My question is are divorces really bad? Should people be made to suffer to avoid social stigma? If a relationship is not working out between two people isn't it much better to say your peace and take a divorce? Was he out of bounds by speaking about her on national TV?

People don't see that this is a small sample of a much widespread issue. Where a girl is not allowed to move on with her life. A divorce is stigmatised and made to feel like a piece of shit or a used goods. She let him be and walked out without much drama. He should have afforded her some decency. But aisa real life mein bhi hota hai. Divorce wali ladkiyon ko uske ex sasural wale hamesha character assasinate karte hai. Khud ka beta to shadi kar lega lekin wo ladki ka jeena hamesha haram karenge fir keede dalenge.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Athletes make bold statements to loved ones on National TV all the time

I mean what was "Yo Adrian I did it" 😆😆
Edited by Maroon5.0 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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dimag sathiya gaya hai kya 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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If Aarfa wanted divorce, she would have filed it anyways. She did not, as she always loved him, as she said in the ending hospital scene where she said, she used to go the darga to see him.So if Aarfa herself believed in "hamara yeha divorce nahi hoti", who are we to blame Sultan only. anyways divorce is a bitter cure, a necessary evil. So divorce is not bad as an act itself , but the circumstances and end product is not always favourable for all. As divorce even if a personal act between two, influences everybody around them.




Also Sultan talking about her in media may have been uncomfortable for her, but it was also necessary as it conveyed a message to her that, he still loves her.


congratulations on 15k posts.
Edited by Love_Katty_24-7 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Haven't watched it, did it come on TV?
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Posted: 8 years ago
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rinse n repeat har hafte prdp n sultan k lye topics 🤣
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Love_Katty_24-7

If Aarfa wanted divorce, she would have filed it anyways. She did not, as she always loved him, as she said in the ending hospital scene where she said, she used to go the darga to see him. So if Aarfa herself believed in "hamara yeha divorce nahi hoti", who are we to blame Sultan only. anyways divorce is a bitter cure, a necessary evil. So divorce is not bad as an act itself , but the circumstances and end product is not always favourable for all. As divorce even if a personal act between two, influences everybody around them.


Yes. But would you appeal to random nobodies to help you score with your wife and put her on the blast? I don't know how common this is but I felt this a bit odd that he did this to some girl on National TV and discussing their personal matter. All he had to do was say No comment, or this is my personal matter and lets talk about my match. If she was going on minding her business, trying to live through personal struggles she was made to feel bad like some monster once she was put on the TV, even her local wrestlers saw that on the news.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: I_M_SultaN

rinse n repeat har hafte prdp n sultan k lye topics 🤣


Yaar abhi jail yaatra ko time hai to tab tak kuch time pass kar raha hoon.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: I_M_SultaN

rinse n repeat har hafte prdp n sultan k lye topics🤣


😆 😆
Same essays will make their way here soon too 😲 😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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aarfa and sultan love each other deeply but their ego is stopping them to say after their separation & tragedy of their son and some one has to break the ice hence sultan said it openly ..he didnt demean her in any way !! baath khatam !!!

but for haters its a mountain out of a mole...😃

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