I fell in love with Omkara đłall over again! He's absolutely a gem of a character! I was touched by Rudra's acting today! It's amazing that we got to see the other side of him again, the one where he isn't a goofball, and shows concerns about REAL life problems. I had an awww moment when he said that there are real problems in the world and he's just concerned about push-ups. I think to a certain extent all of them were more or less correct from their point of view.
Although, I disagree with most of what Shivaay said, I agree that a lot of girls look for well settled/rich husbands. I know a lot of girls, who have categorically said that they wouldn't marry someone who earns less than them, and I have also seen a lot of girls (almost forced to ) give up their careers, by moving to a different city/country for a guy just because he is well settled. But I don't think it's limited to just India, although maybe not in the same proportion, but there are a lot of women even in the west who look for a rich husband.
But like Omkara said, not all women are like that. I don't know if you guys have watched/remember Dil Dhadakne Do(Farhan Akthar raises the issues of 'allowing a woman' to work, I had a I love you moment for Farhan!),đI had the same moment with Omkara!âşď¸. As a feminist, it irks me when people say that things have changed for women and that a lot of people allowđĄ their DILs to work nowadays.
Rudra was amazing when he points out that, it wouldn't affect him personally if his mum was CEO. But again, I have seen my friends(mostly girls) complain that they kind of dislike the fact that their mothers, who were working couldn't spend enough time with them, but there is absolutely no complaint against the dad, which drives me nuts. I understand that maybe when a child is born the first few days(even months) it's important for the mother to be around longer for nuturing(milk ect) purposes, but after that , both can put in efforts.
I have also heard girls say that when they have kid they will give up their career because it's the only practical thing to do as a mother. Although I have nothing against that, I think they shouldn't give u their career because they are mothers, but because they are parents. I mean why should only mothers give up their dreams/careers? The kids are born to both the parents right?