Hello Everyone,
Finally caught up with all the episodes from weekend.
DT/KP/Aditi/Abhischeck/Neelu/Raj were fab.👏
If not for this talented acting this show would have shut shop long way back. I am blown away by their acting as KP/DT but they have failed me big time to connect as IshRa for me I can only appreciate them for the acting as KP/DT
This is not going to be a review but going to be a rant.
Custody case: What the heck was the custody case it is ridiculous to the core not because Shagun was a surrogate mother Vs IshRa as a biological parent but Shagun as a mother Vs Raman as a father was so stupid.
I personally agree the name written as Shagun Bhalla in birth certificate is also valid because some ladies don't change their surname after divorce so it is a legal document so for the sake of it forget the surrogate angle just think it like a regular divorce and parents are fighting for child custody.
1. Where the heck is Raman lawyer?
2. What about talking to Adi and Ruhi?
3. What about talking to neighbors and school?
4. What about counselor who is counselling the kid which happens in regular divorce cases and giving her/his statement as who would be the best parent for the kid?
Okay come to the case of Surrogate baby
1. Where the heck are IshRa lawyer?
2. Agreed the kid doesn't want to live with biological parents then the custody should go to relatives not just random surrogate mother
3. Where are the surrogate papers they signed?
4.Where is the doctor who did the procedure?
5. How come IshRa came to the court without a single document or even a lawyer and hoping the custody could be given to them?
Once the custody is gone I don't understand the need to hide Ishita identity from the kid what worse can happen than this. The kid already hates Ishita she cannot hate her more. The custody is with Shagun they cannot think if the kid know if they lied to her then she will chose Shagun that is alone done and dusted so it looks ridiculous for me to show that even after all this they are still hiding the real truth of Ishita/Ruhi to Pihu. I can never understand its importance now nor they have given proper reasoning as to why they hid the truth about Ishita/Ruhi to Pihu in the first place
Raman:
As a husband: What the heck I accept you are not going to accept your mistake in separation but for god sake stop blaming Ishita for going away from you when it was your cruel words which made her leave you. I was so mad when the issues of the birth certificate came it was not a mistake it was down right cruelty to wipe out Ishita existence from their life just because she is dead agreed you were angry with her so could not put her name on it you could have left it with just your name and mother name as blank stating you are single parent what was the need to even include Shagun name in the birth certificate this is also a betrayal of marriage vows. Betrayal of a marriage is not only sleeping with others but also breaking the trust/not honoring your dead spouse so Raman as a husband failed a big time and betrayed his partner I don't wish even for my enemies to get a husband like this.
As a father: He did not deserve this when he did all he could for his child he even left his work to take care of Pihu. He does everything for the kids and he puts the kids first. He loves his kids very much and can go to any extent for them every kid should have a father like this one too but Pihu never understood his love she just threw it on his face.
As a person: He needs to control his anger he cannot just lash out on anyone just because he is hurt he is at fault for lashing out at Aliya when she did not do anything
Mani:
As a husband: He even failed as a husband for me initially when I saw the segments I thought he supported Shagun because of his marriage vows but looking at the episode he clearly had no intention of going to court but as soon as Aliya wanted to meet Adi he wanted to take revenge so he came there only for revenge from Ishita so he even failed as husband.
As a friend: He back stabbed her so there is no redemption for him from my side. His question was right when I believed that Adi is the culprit you did not support me but he forgot that there is no give and take in friendship that is why it is called as friendship otherwise it will be called as something else. I don't even wish my enemies to get a friend like this all his goods deed have vanished down the drain with his one betrayal
As a father: He even failed as a father when his kid can show this maturity he is acting like a fool. It looks like whenever Aliya is going to go against his wish he is going to trouble Ishita just like today joining hands with Singhal he is going to lose his respect Aliya had for him.
Ishita:
As a Person: Learn to identify people first whoever comes into you life always betrays you Subbu,Raman and Mani. Once can be a mistake if the same thing happens again and again it is not their fault but yours. Try to stand up for yourself stop taking everyone blame upon yourself. Grow some self-respect. I am so fed up with I'm door mat so everyone can treat me like shit crap. When a person is owning up to his mistake let him own up fully don't stop in between then the person can never learn his mistakes. Fight for your rights there is nothing you have to lose go tell to Pihu that you are her mother she cannot hate you more than she does now at least you can be peaceful knowing your kids at least know you.
As a mother: Adi thoughts about IshRa conveyed what Pihu is going to miss in childhood. She can go to any extent for the kids sadly Pihu could not even recognize it as she has been portrayed as the other woman by the family.
As a wife: She needs to let out her pain for her husband to see and not hide behind a smile. She should learn to trust the relationship.
Pihu:
On one side the show the kid smart on the other side they show her dumb. They showed her smart by making her understand all the manipulation Shagun is doing like acting against Adi day before yesterday but today she never had a problem to hug him but showing her dumb when she cannot understand Shagun face when it is right in front of her to see as to how Shagun behaved with the family. I don't like this trait of what is more important than me or even saying dadi cut the call there are many number of reason why a call can be cut just to put the blame on some one is disgusting to me. Pihu is so smart she can sees her mamma happiness but is so dumb she cannot see her family crying for her it is so stupid.
For the makers, Many people cannot connect with Pihu because of the surrogate baby, With what you are showing she is even losing the sympathy , don't make the audience hate her it a request. RD as Ruhi emoted very well but as Pihu she is very bland it looks like some one is forcing her to do the scene.
Mihir/Neelu
It gives a good feeling to see people who are still loyal who value relationship. Yesterday it was Neelu day when she pleaded with Ishita and Shagun. Today it was Mihir day when he sorted out the difference between Adi/Aliya/Mihir and as well as took care of the business.
Adi:
I felt for the poor little boy when Adi thought how much Papa loves Pihu and thinking how he could not get that love and now Pihu is also going to miss it. Adi seeing Ishita hid the toy for her to hug. He is feeling so guilty because of him that everything is happening to his parents I am hoping he comes out of the guilt sooner.
Ruhi:
It is good to see she is supporting her parents as well as her brother in tough times but I would like the makers to concentrate on her to show she is fighting her demons too. They don't have to do a separate track for it but one line here and there saying she is going to school or going to counselling would help.
Parents:
I am fed up of them where were amma/appa fighting for their rights on Pihu when Ishita rights were denied as mother. Why did not the Bhalla think about their sherni when they were writing the birth certificate with Shagun name. Is Ishita there problem solver doesn't she has any value of her own.
Aliya:
Aliya now looks sorted. I guess it was crush which she had for Mihir which is not wrong but thankfully she is out of it. I don't want Adi/Aliya to be paired it will look ridiculous now.
Shagun:
Whatever said and done I will hold her only responsible for ruining the show I once loved to the core. Every relation is butchered or as shows as dumb for Shagun to emerge as a winner.
How many mistakes she makes she is forgiven because she can bear children. She goes from men to men but everyone of them falls for her and not once question what is there in her. Bhalla keeps forgiving and not file any case against her because she is the birth mother so she has a clean sheet legally when she comes for the next custody battle.
I am sorry for this long rant but I am fed with this woman empowerment they are showing that a woman needs to take all crap with a smile to emerge as a winner for the last minute when the show is going to end and all the men are betrayer be it a father, husband or a friend.
Edited by mayasundar - 9 years ago
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