Isn't it obvious Shravan said such nasty stuff to make Sumo retract

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I wonder whats there in him that he says such nasty stuff to her, without a wince on his face.
As Sumo said. its strange he can beat the shit out of a man who tries to molest her but himself puts her down. Why he does so?? Is it just hatred?? Or is there still some crushed hope in his dead heart. This is such a normal reaction Don't we all do it? If someone we really love has been too cold with us, we shower them with the sharpest of taunts so as to make them feel hurt. To provoke them to speak the truth...to show their anger. Though I agree that Shravan not for once being soft on her atleast for the trauma she has been through makes it pretty unrealistic but I do understand the reason of CVs there. They just dont want any sympathy to peep in from Shravan's end. Having said that I feel if we keep the molestation and bachelors party thing aside and treat this issue in a disjoint manner from those two events, Shravan's anger does make a lot of sense. And the biggest problem here is that he isn't getting what he expects from Sumo. He is probably dying for her to oppose. To retract and ask in his face that why the hell is he so pissed??? He provokes her to confess the truth about her feelings and when she doesnt he tries to hurt her by saying that she is an opportunist and a gold digger. He wants to answer the questions but she is not ready to ask. Because probably she has been too curbed in the past few months. Under Ramnath Malhotra's blackmail, under her family's so called debt and her own sense of responsibility and now under the debt of this man who saved her from getting molested. Somehow from her attitude it feels this Sumo is so indebted to everyone out there she has lost her own voice. And my heart breaks at the thought. 😭 May be even Shravan is missing that...His Sumo who would have caught him by collar and asked him the reason for his sentimental drama. The Sumo would have fought and told her pov to him. The way she did during the Nirmala track. He thinks she will question, she will confess, she will fight back. But she does nothing 💔 Thereby making him all the more hurt. And the same is gonna happen during the court marriage.


And hence I feel however it happens this marriage is the best thing to happen to them. Sumo needs to come out of her "I am indebted to you Shravan" mode and give him back. She needs to confront him and make him realize his mistakes. And for that they need to stay under one roof - However it be! Cant say if its just the guru dakshina thing or anything else but somehow the reason doesnt hold that much significance now. What holds the most significance is whether these two will be able to resolve their MUs?Whether they will be able to see beyond each other's words? Whether they will be able to understand each others feelings? And then why they got married wont hold any significance.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I'm not sure. If this guy has anything else going on in his mind. He has been so unpredictable of late.

It seems to me Shravan has not yet understood the grown up Sumo.
He expects the teen sumo who pretty much used to dictate terms and would not take nonsense.

Here Suman is in a phase of her life where she feels heavily indebted to people around her...and that is clouding her decisions

This is where am getting a bit impatient with Shravan. When suman is so different from the "SUmo" he was used to/likes... why is he not going the extra length to find out "WHY".
Why is taking things at face value and quick to pass judgements? Why is he jumping to conclusions and making a public display of his anger time and again.




Anyway am glad Kamini is playing a role and for whatsoever reason they are getting married soon.
That would atleast seal a bond between them as II dont really see them clearing out MU's anytime soon.
Edited by slumberqueen - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I am not sure what Cv wants to show Shravan as. But your explaination makes more sense to look at Shravan's and Sumo's POV. Well written Malika!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post..agree Shravan is wanting a reaction from Suman...what bugs him she has stopped sharing things with him, why she is going through etc...she has stopped asking him for help without any hesitation like she used to...for him this is what friendship meant for him...
What human wants from him is for him to understand her thoughts without her admitting it to him...but he wants to hear it from her...all this is leading to MUs
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing post and I agree with each and every word...

That is what I said in my last topic, I think the way he is behaving is how any of would have if someone so close to her suddenly stops behaving the way the have been behaving with us. We have seen how his reaction to her silence has first confused him, and then came the phase of hurt and then anger, now it has gone past that. That is how any of us behaves if we sudden are deprived of our most cherished person and relationship.

So yes, it is obvious...He was somewhat talking to her in the start and expecting her to contradict him, to say something, anything. And when she kept sitting there without talking to him, without looking at him, he started to utter rubbish...

That has been going on for a long time that Shravan had stopped acting like the way he used to, and we all had noticed it. And we have been bashing him for that ever since he has started to act so stupidly, but we don't even give a thought to how she too has stopped being herself from a time longer than he has...

Her silence, her unwillingness to communicate with him, to be the same Sumo with him disturbed him in the start, confused him and then it hurt him...Now it has gone beyond hurt and has become anger, and the more she sits there giving him zombi looks, the more aggressive he becomes...

Not justifying him. He shouldn't have said what he has been saying all this time, he is an adult and educated, and him acting like a pure MCP is not attractive, at all. But I can't help but point out how her silence and passiveness is messing with Shravan and is pushing him to become more aggressively he will start uttering rubbish. And now it has started to mess with my head...Because Shravan toh karega hi, I also was expecting her to say something, anything, but she just sat there, and as soon as he was done with his rubbish, she stood and walked out...I mean, what was that? Confused

Shravan is used to aggressive Sumo, we all are. We are used to as someone who will beat the hell out of him if he says something wrong. We have seen how she has lectured him and scold him whenever he used to say negative things about women or show his MCP side. And now toh he has started using something more personal and dear to her to attack her to gain a reaction - her self-respect - but she is still not responding to anything he says the way she should have.

Sumo has been missing from a long time and still is, so how can we get Shravan? He is pushing and pulling her to react, and she is letting him without giving him the satisfaction of getting a reaction out of her. I mean, if she isn't going to give him the reaction he wants, at least she can stop him from saying those rubbish things. Do something, anything, just snap out of this zombi mood-abla nari mood of hers...

I mean, what the hell has Cvs done to her? Sumo and Suman both are missing here. She now is just way too passive, way to uninterested and has a 'whatever' expression on her face all the time. I don't know if it's Nikkita or if it is what Cvs want Suman to behave like but damn, this has to end. And SOON.

There is no doubt about it, if she start behaving herself, so will Shravan as then the process of his healing will start and his anger will slowly go missing as it was never there...So, someone, please, snap her out of her passive abla nari mood and make her behave like her real self...Forget Shravan, I myself can't take it anymore...

P.s...AND YES! The marriage is the only thing that could force them to stay in each other's presence and the only thing that can solve the communication problems between them, which in return will clear the MUs...Nahi toh they were running from each other and would have done so till the end of the time...That's why their marriage, no matter what/how/why, is most prefect thing Cvs could do rightnow...The timing is PERFECT...!!! 😳

Edited by A.Hajnal - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: slumberqueen


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This is where am getting a bit impatient with Shravan. When suman is so different from the "SUmo" he was used to/likes... why is he not going the extra length to find out "WHY".
Why is taking things at face value and quick to pass judgements? Why is he jumping to conclusions and making a public display of his anger time and again.

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He had tried to find out why...He had been confused by her actions and reaction and he had asked her what was wrong, why she is behaving such way, but she kept pushing him away. Remember how he had asked, so desperately, had almost begged her during the dance practice

'Hua kiya hai, Sumo? Kahan sab bighargh gaya? Sab kuch theek to tha...'

He has asked her again and again, till the Sangeet/Aditya's entry. The same night she told him he has no right to ask her anything because their relationship doesn't give him any right over her. So, after that he stopped and gave her space, the same space that soon Aditya occupied and we know the rest...

So, let's not forget that he had asked her and he had tried to know the reason, but she kept pushing him away...How can we expect him to keep trying to ask her, beg her and plead her when all she had done was to push him away? Anyone would stop asking/begging/finding the answer if the next person only keeps pusheing one away. Wouldn't you have done the same? I know I would have...That's insulting, it hurt one's ego and self-respect like nothing else can...And we have seen the effects of that in form of the destruction that it has brought within him...The destruction that he is causing now is just an impersonation of what is left within him...
Edited by A.Hajnal - 9 years ago

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