Is only Nahar at fault?

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Like the title says;
Is only Nahar at fault?

I'm sure you all know why im taking his side 😆
butbutbut.. ; i mean..

was it his fault that Saloni acted so weird?
was it his fault that Saloni vachan pe vachan thorti gayi?
was it his fault that he tried to save his relationship with Saloni?

i don't think so, that actually was Saloni's goal;
to let him hate her.

and it was obvious that Nahar was mad when Neel came to his house.
i mean.. look how Neels track ended; he tried to snatch Saloni from Nahar.

so i don't really blame Nahar that he's everytime drunk and that he hates Saloni.

Ofcourse i also feel bad for Saloni, but this time i'm really mad at her, i mean.. how could she believe jiji?

love, Manisha ❤️

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Posted: 18 years ago
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manisha I have one thing to say under the cirmstances i would have been taken by jiji like person too.
Saloni knows jiji is capable of hurting any one after what she tried to do to tara.

Yes It is saloni's fault not to let them know the truth and acted by herself and foolishly. But she was scared for the baby as jiji has threatened to hurt the baby and saloni knew how much they wanted this baby back.
saloni did all this for good cause. Look what happened to her. staying away from the person you love most and hurt him that is worst then death.
So we can not say it is saloni's fault or nahar's fault.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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she can't see tara..jiji has a promise her to give back brijesh son..jiji only defends is saloni..she want her to out of the house then she can revenge for them..Devi salino has no choice to believer her..that's good saloni kept her child..
same time neel went to nahar..aditi died..all incident happen same time..he can't forget wht neel did to them..even neel is positive this time..nahar need time to believe in neel..first nahar has to know saloni is pregent..she didn't done abortion.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ramas

manisha I have one thing to say under the cirmstances i would have been taken by jiji like person too.
Saloni knows jiji is capable of hurting any one after what she tried to do to tara. jiji s capable of hurting anyone, i know that.. and how did Saloni believe jiji?
after these things.. i wouldnt believe jiji.
she tried to kill tara soo many times 😕


Yes It is saloni's fault not to let them know the truth and acted by herself and foolishly. But she was scared for the baby as jiji has threatened to hurt the baby and saloni knew how much they wanted this baby back. wasn't it better if saloni gave her child to tara & brijesh?
saloni did all this for good cause. she made her life horrible Look what happened to her. staying away from the person you love most and hurt him that is worst then death.
So we can not say it is saloni's fault or nahar's fault.no.. i saw some posts, thats why i posted this topic 😳😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: aksn

she can't see tara..jiji has a promise her to give back brijesh son..jiji only defends is saloni..she want her to out of the house then she can revenge for them..Devi salino has no choice to believer her..that's good saloni kept her child.. yup same here.
same time neel went to nahar..aditi died..all incident happen same time..he can't forget wht neel did to them..even neel is positive this time..nahar need time to believe in neel..thats the point i was looking for 👏first nahar has to know saloni is pregent..she didn't done abortion. thats what nahar needs to know first, he also needs to know that saloni is a child now 😕

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Nahar is not the only one at fault but he is partly to blame for not even stopping and thinking why his wife behaved the way she did. The ONLY person who suspcted something was wrong is Shubhra. Of course Shubhra isa blood relaive and knows her for a longer time than Nahar did but Nahar has obviously not understood her at all. Also as I have said time and again, the whole situation was so hypocrytical - can't forget the way Nahar chucked Saloni out of the house without even listening to her in the Mandir when he suspected that she was having an affair. Why should only the girl be so forgiving and the guy behaves anyway he wants? OK, this is the past but goes to prove time and again that Nahar has not understood Saloni - though he is a good son-in-law.

About giving away her child to tara and Brijesh I don't know - Nahar had NO business making that promise to his brother without consulting Saloni. If we try to put ourselves in Saloni's shoes not sure I can be so mahaan. Silly of Nahar to do that. Brijesh and Tara could always adopt a child or something - no need to accept Saloni's child (that too her first, come on what guarantee is there that Saloni CAN get pregnant again!). Get real.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Manu, I agree with you. Nahar is not the only one at fault. He really loves Saloni thats why he became a devdas. Saloni hurt him so much, i can't blame him. I think its all saloni's fault...she should have atleast taken someone in confidence. Shibu didn't come to live in the house from the begining so she did have ample of time to tell someone. What about her secretary and the guy from the office. She should have asked them to tell something.

I am so dissappointed at all this and sad to see our Nahar like this.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: ~Simran~

Manu, I agree with you. Nahar is not the only one at fault. He really loves Saloni thats why he became a devdas. Saloni hurt him so much, i can't blame him. I think its all saloni's fault...she should have atleast taken someone in confidence. Shibu didn't come to live in the house from the begining so she did have ample of time to tell someone. What about her secretary and the guy from the office. She should have asked them to tell something.

I am so dissappointed at all this and sad to see our Nahar like this.

simran i agree with you in last statement I do not like our poor Nahar this way he should be happy and charming looking not devdas looking. bechara
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Posted: 18 years ago
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i think it is both of them's fault.because saloni should to tell to nahar the truth in her room and also i think nahar also has to find the truth before salap her and throw hrt out why he not go to hospital to find if saloni really abourt her child or.
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: xmanisha

Like the title says;Is only Nahar at fault?I'm sure you all know why im taking his side 😆
butbutbut.. ; i mean..

Only Nahar's well no but then not Saloni's too.


was it his fault that Saloni acted so weird?

No not Nahar's but you cant blame Saloni too she was after all sacrificing for his family only.


was it his fault that Saloni vachan pe vachan thorti gayi?
was it his fault that he tried to save his relationship with Saloni?

Nahar over the time has known Saloni and her behr but still he still never tried to any find out the reason behind it. He shd infact suspected it and tried to find out the truth but he prefers to scream, yell and

i don't think so, that actually was Saloni's goal;
to let him hate her.

Urvashi had asked Saloni to make Nahar and fly hate her.

and it was obvious that Nahar was mad when Neel came to his house.i mean.. look how Neels track ended; he tried to snatch Saloni from Nahar.

Now whatever may be the reason Nahar was wrong here he shd have allowed the man to speak, see if he wishes to hit him he can do that after hearing him too naaa😃 He retains that choice. It was an irresponsible reason to a very mature act by Neel who didnt react adversaly. Worse even Brijesh didnt bother to find out why the man returned.


so i don't really blame Nahar that he's everytime drunk and that he hates Saloni.

Drinking is only for pleasure or addiction. Wallowing in self pity never solves any problem but only makes one feel satisfied by the attention showered by others and feel consoled.

Ofcourse i also feel bad for Saloni, but this time i'm really mad at her, i mean.. how could she believe jiji?

From Saloni's view she had no option but to trust but sadly Urvashi deceived her own words and broke the promise. So Urvashi is to be blamed for stooping so low.

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