Originally posted by: tia.o
That's fine. You can certainly disagree with me. But could you elaborate what I did not mention regarding Dev's condition? As I understand his condition is fine. No one is making his life hell except his own decisions and actions. Whatever happens to his life is completely in his control. Being honest with his mother about his feelings, asking for forgiveness and getting Sonakshi back, living life at his own will are ALL in his control. But then he will have to man up which he refuses to do. Sorry my dear. Beyond having his cake and eat it too, I don't know what to see in Dev's condition.
Sorry but can't agree on ur post... U have focused on only sona condition but u didn't focus on dev conditions
No offend but can't agree on ur post
Even I dnt agree..
Every individual is different and no one is perfect. Its very important too see the kind of background and earlier life a person has seen and been into. How we are today has a lot to do with our life's experiences and thats why I feel the makers here gave us a proper background of Dev's and his family's past. Yes he's got his own life into trouble bt who dsnt??
I have never met a person who's always right or has dealt with things just the right way. Also, Mind you, right way here cAn b right for me bt wrong for u or vice versa. This is wat u gotta see in his condition. I dnt want to justify what he's done is right bt at the same time I understand the reasons behind why he's done what he's done. I can empathise with him and so I dnt agree with most of wat u hv written.
I dnt knw how things wil progress in the show bt in life or in show, people commit mistakes, misunderstandings happen bt its easy to move away bt to realise and correct it is wat matters more to me. There r lotta lessons to be learnt frm every stupid stuff you do..
For me, none of the character is all black or white... Everyone has a shade of grey..even Sonakshi for that matter..I dnt agree with her stand too bt again I do understand where its coming from.
And as life has taught me, its very easy to leave something or someone..cry over for few days and den move to something next bt it takes a lot to commit, to correct and to stick there thru thick and thin...and it dsnt come in a day or at once..u fall, u become a mess and den slowly the fallen peices get back together where u discover many things Bt urself shich h wnt have if situations didnt go wrong n u didnt react the way u did.
Todna asaan hai..bt nibhana mushkil...thats wat I have been listening frm my elders and wat I have seen and experienced. And just by ignoring the issues, problems dnt end. u gotta do something abt them. So mayb right now dev isnt doing much abt these problems coz he's not figured out the problem yet..he's stil in ignore mode.. Bt once he does, it wil b important to see wat he does den.
It was imp for both to have some patience and maturity in d situation bt jst like normal humans dey acted impulsively. Sonakshi also knew how attached dev is to his mom, so wen in the situation whre his mom was in hospital and he askd Sona to leave and never come back, she cud hv Thought maturely and jst d way she told him we wil talk abt this later at that moment, she cud hv done dat wen conditions wud hv improved. In such a situation, it was bound to happen that dev wud not hv listened.
Infact My expectation from a sensible woman like Sonakshi is that if she really dsnt want to go back to a person like dev, instead of bashing him frm left to right, outside her house, in his ofc, its better if she meets him and explains him calmly why he shud stop doin wat he is as she loved him bt aftr seeing dat he left her once, even if he wants her back she dsnt want to go coz if hez done it once he can do it again and so she actually is interested in moving on. Bt here she is not..wat she is doin is making him do more stupid stuff..cnt she block in on fb? Cnt she blacklist his no? Why does she need to go to his house to find abt him? Dats coz even she smwhre has a ray of hope of him cming bak..if nt hope atleast she wishes so.
Jst like he thot the only way was to break off, she also didnt not think abt any other way than moving ahead wid groom search.
There is love between the two bt dats not enuf coz dat much love cud sustain only in d good times..the current situations will define if their love and things apart from love dat are required to make it a relationship of a lifetime wil b understood or realized by dem..if they do dey'll b togethr ..if not fall apart
Edited by dikshat - 8 years ago
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