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Posted: 9 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: simran1303

beautifully written...I absolutely agree to it...👏👏👏
And one more thing he never said that she sleeps around that would have called spoiling her character... And the way he said was that yes they love and they have shared physical intimacy also...
If u ask me out of 100 people who are in relationship at any age 95%are physically involved...and I find nothing wrong in it..it's individual choice and their way of having love but that doesn't mean that they are charactersless...


Now, if what you are saying is right...Shravan should not feel an ounce of guilt even..and Suman shouldn't feel bad either..If they both do, then they are lesser humans..

It si not about premarital sex..wish people wouldn't confuse it..

Nor si it about a woman's honour alone...

It is akin to accusing someone of stealing something..And if such a thing was normal, we wouldn't have DEFAMATION LAWS!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: KatilanaMirchi

Namik saturday ko reply karega!😆

Rushali @rushali1605

@namik_paul @SurochitaDutta don't u think that the PRETEXT itself was no less than an assault?!? bcoz it need not be always physical.

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Namik Paul @namik_paul
@rushali1605 @SurochitaDutta don't worry, I'll answer this on Saturday. Please remind me if I don't.


There U go! 🤗

I HOPE HE MAKES US PROUD! 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: niara12

When I was watching yesterday, my reaction Oh my God! Too bad... RIP EDKV... But then I applaud CV to touch on such super sensitive issue. On all stands Shravan was wrong...his already existing misgyony has reached highest peak.

I am like all shades of grey... Mental and Emotional harassment is equally depressing then going through molestation. Since EDKV has been unpredictable and positive show, I have faith in them.

I hope social awareness issue to be handled very sensitively...I'll wait and have enough patiience.
Being a finite and positive show, I am sure that CV won't disappoint us... They won't glorify the act as morally correct...😃


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Posted: 9 years ago
#54
@chick - Defamation is a more befitting word than character assassination. "Fame/Image" is the society's version of you while "character" is who you really are. Shravan went for the former's assassination last night. And that atleast leaves some little scope of repentance for him. Else it would be a dark tunnel.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Malika

@chick - Defamation is a more befitting word than character assassination. "Fame/Image" is the society's version of you while "character" is who you really are. Shravan went for the former's assassination last night. And that atleast leaves some little scope of repentance for him. Else it would be a dark tunnel.


True...

I am seeing that dark tunnel and that is what upsets me the most..As much as what he has done to Sumo..it is what he is going to think of himself when the nashaa is out...

I agree - Defamation is his way out...there is scope for redemption there. 🤔
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Posted: 9 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: spnfan

I don't think shravan s**t shamed sumo... For him being.physical in a relation is not.a.big deal abd he lied to aditya saying that shraman were in a very serious relation.. He didnt.say.sumo is the.kind of girl who will sleep eith anyone or i had fun.with her noe its your turn... I guess thats s**t.shaming... For shravan its not a bad.thing but he.knows aditya wont.like it so.he told him... He is gonna realise what he said once he sees its consequences... Aditya is a guy from.high.class society.who was brought up in big.cities like.mumbai and delhi and.i guess did his higher studiea in abroad.. Brought up by a decent guy like ahuja and a working.woman like nirmala.. He never.had bad experiences with women unlike shravan. So assaulting a girl just coz she had a past cannot be justified at all no.matter what.shravan says.. He himself said to shravan.he had his.fun in.life and now he wantsto.settle in.pushkar's bachelors party...
I don't think shravan.had.to say that much to instigate.aditya... Just.simplify saying shraman were in a.relation was more tgan enough.. The rest he would have imagined by himself...

What shravan did was wrong but it cannot be.compared to what aditya did... Shravan lied and broke sumo's trust and their.friendship big.time but didnt bad mouth sumo... It is aditya's pov.and the societies thinking that make it look so bad... If this was an.american show and.shravan said what he.sid wont have.been.as bad as it looks now coz there the.only fault of sumo would be lieing about her relation with shravan to aditya.. Her having a.sexual relation wont be a problem at all..



I compltely agree with you. I have mentioned several times that ADITYA'S ASSAULT IS NOT JUSTIFIED NO MATTER WHAT THE CIRCUMSTANCES and I feel that having sexual relationships prior to marriage is absolutely fine as well ( as long as it's consensual obv) , however , proclaiming that you slept with a girl WITHOUT her consent and LYING about it , when you know she'll be really upset about it , seems very sadistic to me. I NEVER said that Shravan saying shit about Sumo is a "KALANK" on her character , that ideology is very regressive and is absolute bullcrap , rather this particular incident , tarnishes Shravan's character. I still feel Shravan loves Sumo a lot but it was SO SO STUPID of him to say this when he knew it would ultimately lead to trouble for Sumo.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#57

Originally posted by: LeenaRG

Thank you for this post. It warms my heart to see so many young ones take umbrage to a beloved hero's actions❤️. Not a common occurrence on these forums where many such acts are excused under a wide umbrella of twisted love. Hurrah for womankind 👏

Yes, I so agree, what Shravan did is no less abhorrent than what Aditya did. I won't go into Aditya's wrong doings, enough has been said on the subject. To me he is a mere prop in Shraman's story, soon to fade away.
Since the chosen word for the day is PRETEXT😉 let us remind ourselves that this is the same pretext that Ramnath had used to keep his wife away from their young impressionable son. Character assassination. Ramnath used it as a threat, Shravan used it as a misplaced form of vengeance. Both have used it as a means to an end. Nirmala was weak and became a victim of it, Sumo is stronger and will hopefully not succumb to it.

No, I am not saying that Shravan is like his father. What I am saying is that Shravan is reaping what his father sowed. The sins of his father (proverbially speaking) will continue to haunt the son until he can rise out of the shadow of the father and expunge his system of his deep, poisonous conditioning.

On a side note, Shravan when it comes to Sumo has always been quick to judge, lash out, retaliate and walk away only to regret later, while Suman tends to internalize the pain, puts on a brave front and marches ahead.
Its been a pattern they have followed since childhood. Extreme this time but not different😆😕

As for the Tweet, I eagerly await Saturday. Undoubtedly, as is the habit with cvs, Shravan's vile words will be explained away with the flimsiest of excuses. Shravan will be redeemed, I hope Namik can do the same for himself.


Thank U...

Actually Ramnath is even more redeemable wrt Nirmala because he believed what he said..It was not jealousy or revenge...He had his reasons to believe she was sleeping around..so he can even justify himself for keeping such a woman away from his son...Shravan doesn't have that excuse..He is of a sound mind as of now...

And Saturday...I hope Namik redeems himself too...😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#58

Originally posted by: chicksoup


Nobody is saying the honour is only on the woman..It was only a woman who was dragged into a street fight here...Had it been two girls fighting., dragging Shravan unnecssarily in, we would support him..


For eg, if Suman said Shravan raped her, we'd support Shravan...It is his honour too..


To each his own opinion. 😊🤗
Anyways I just think we'll have to wait and watch. Because Namik and the CVs seem pretty confident. As if something is up their sleeves 😆
I feel they know that Shravan's too precious to us to be just butchered in any way they like.
Hopeful. And in pleasant anticipation! 😃

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