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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: Roshni2015

Chick,

My basic issue here is... Shravan whatever he says.. Can't bring on such a reaction right? What can a man possibly say to warrant a rape attempt from another man??
Even if Shravan said Sumo n him have done it...he wont but let's assume.. Then chomu would be hell angry. He can shout n break te marriage... That is justified on his part ...and the blame would lie on Shravan...
But here, this is unacceptable behavior... And no matter what chomu says about Shravan instigating him... U can't go n molest a girl.. And I don't know what Sumo believes...

Thats right. ..shouting like hell nd calling off the wedding is all considerable on adi's behalf but molesting a girl can never be justified
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42
good question and no answers- its all so very warped now
first of all we have a Sumo who is obviously being pushed into a marriage she doesnt want. its written on her face, her body language and her behaviour but everyones turning a bind eye and deaf ear or maybe can see it but dont want to. And it doesnt help matters if annoying aditya continues to egg her on and push his way around her plus there is also shravan who she has to contend with being around for the remainder of the wedding

Annoying Aditya is being what he knows the best, a pest and now a psycho. Is he grey (or black considering what he does on d day with Suman) or is he doing it to bring Shraman together. If it is the latter, then it would be the most disgusting way that CVs could show.

However if he is indeed shown to be a possessive guy who turns obsessive then thats the way he is and no-one actually could figure since it was hidden beneath the over-chirpiness. Everything that he observes between ShraMan or Shravan says to him will add to his obsessiveness and ultimately result in him doing what hes shown to do on D day which is absolutely heinous and he deserves to be punished stringently for it. What kind of a man does that make him.

Shravan, who looks like he himself doesnt know what he is going to achieve by arranging the wedding. If he is trying to expunge suman from his system then he is certainly not succeeding. I think being provoked by aditya at the upcoming bachelors party and whether after a few drinks down or otherwise, he is going to say something which results in the wedding day fiasco.

Since the MUs have to continue and new ones new to get added, for whatever reasons best known to the Cvs as of now, suman may think it was shravans who was responsible since he wanted to destroy her happiness and stop her wedding

Hence we will have a fresh MU and fresh distrust stemming before the supposed ShraMan marriage which may take eons to resolve.

Wait and watch with a sense of foreboding is the only choice😕




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Posted: 9 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

All Sumo has to ever do is choosing herself over everyone else which is indirectly she choosing again both Shravan and Nanu as these two are the only persons who can influence her and vice-versa...


Nope. She is choosing what others want. Nanu and sgra want her to get married. But she does not... She is too hurt. But that's not an excuse to spoil adis life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: --Amulya--


If a girl has been forced into marriage when she has set her dreams on her studies, she may not want to roam around and hug and kiss..It is not a family thing..Just not her priority then. Suman was not mentally prepared or a marriage..so she is not interested in hugs, kisses and ILUs...

Point is, she likes being that way with Aditya..and is not going to change herself for him...If he has a problem, he can back out...

If he wants her to adjust, he should adjust too..not demanding of her the things she doesn't want to do..he can back off a bit and give her space and she'd give him respect.

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Posted: 9 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: spshastr


whether we like it or not CVS have played this wonderfull how all three are wrong here


I still wouldn't say Suman is wrong...

She waited patiently for Shravan..until he himself destroyed friendship...and even after that he continues to taunt her, so she has no more hopes from him...she can see he is upset about her wedding, but she thinks it is because of Nirmala...not because he feels for her...

Shravan's actions have blinded her.
Shravan's anger has blinded him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46

Originally posted by: an_chau

Ok so by now the entire forum knows that I don't want a ShraMan wedding under the current circumstances 😆 I'm the easiest read, I tell you, Chick!
But tell me this: can Sumo not tell Naanu that given what has just happened between her and Aditya, she is traumatized and needs time and space. She is in no emotional state ready for a marriage, and naanu (for all his boundless love for his naatin) should see the truth and sincerity in that. Why can she not ask for, and be given, that time to heal herself?


😆 Where can nanu give the time when he is busy getting one heart attack after the other.

Marriage- may or may not happen...It is just a reason to have them together...in the same frame...

Problem with Suman is..when it comes to her family..and nanu especially, Suman Tiwari is a non entity. It is an issue she needs to tackle.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: spshastr


I have issues with Sumo not telling Aditya she loved someone as well. She need nnot tell te name but someone is ok right


For that, Aditya should ask her directly..insaaed of the ghuma phirake route...

Have you ever had any feelings for anyone, unreciprocated?- It is a simple Q.

Instead of that..anything beyond friendship with Shravan..Have U kissed him etc..The guy is OBSESSED with Shravan!😆
Edited by chicksoup - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48

Originally posted by: an_chau



Chick, it might not have been rape but sexual assault for sure. He didn't have her consent. And didn't care.


Physical assault..Had two girls been fighting, we'd see thie plus pulling each others' hair..so Aditya acted like a girl..Identity crisis! 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

@poppins,

I'm too expressing that Suman is the one who is more wrong here... she wants a win-win in both Nanu's case and herself... she couldn't reject the proposal and also isn't ready yet to give herself in... Adi must be the one to be pitied here, he has expected a marriage with love and he's so doubtful now... he's been enquiring constantly but no use and then finally on the D-day just before the rituals he gets to know something disgusting... ,Maybe any guy wouldn't be sane when it has then come to his prestige issue


Not once did Adi ask her if she loved him..

He never to spoke to her about it..He went with the proposal straight away..so he will get an arranged marriage.😉

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