Moving on or being PUSHED to move on???

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Courtesy of the segments and spoilers that are being dumped on us on an hourly basis these days, and the last couple of episodes, I think I can guess the sequence of events that are going to take place in the next few episodes.

Our Dev Babu and his Sonakshi have quite literally crossed each other last night. He, because he wanted to have his daily dose glimpse of her. She, because she has this gut feeling that she is not able to ignore that all is NOT well with him. While I feel like smacking her head for stepping into that house on that lame pretext...(I mean think about it, she could have gotten more information had she called Tina. Not to mention a far warmer response), the makers brought in this scene for a reason.

Sonakshi will go to Ishwari Mansion. As per precap + one of the spoilers, Ishwari and Sona will have a confrontation wherein RR will add her own brand of fuel to the fire by mentioning they are looking out of rishta for Dev. Sona, will assume that Dev is ready to move on, get married to the girl his Devi Maa has chosen for him. She doesn't know Ishwari's problem, right? And the last of her hopes dashed and crashed to the ground she comes back home and cries on Ritwik's shoulder. Which is justified. And the guy did offer to help her out.

After that she would be all the more determined to overcome her pain. She will make more effort to move on with Ritwik. And when she sees Dev following her and arranging dinner date for her, she will be royally pi...oops...sorry...furious. And justifiably so. He is moving on but refusing to let her do the same, according to her POV.

Dev, unknown of the visit and the confrontation, is unable to let her go. The more she tries to push him away, the more hurt he is and the more he tries to come closer. This guy is an addict and Sona is the drug. He is not an idiot. He knows he was the one who'd pushed her out of his life. But now he himself is not able to stay out of hers...not able to stay away from her. He doesn't understand how HIS Sona is able to stay away from HIM. He is neither alive nor dead. Stuck, he takes refuge in the bottle, scribbles her name along with his (come to think of it, he has always had a thing for clubbing their names / stamping his name on her).

Tina calls up Sona and Sona comes running. After all, her instinct is still screaming that there was something wrong. Seeing his state of despair, she again takes a step towards him. Asks him to marry her. He can't. As far as he knows, his maa doesn't like Sonakshi. And if he does take Sona back into his life, neither woman would be happy. He can't hurt his maa that way. He can't hurt his Sona that way. He can't choose. So he says no.

That brings her crashing down again. How many times would she go out on the limb and end up getting hurt?? Tired, she demands a promise from him. Don't try to meet me or even see me ever again. Justifiable from her POV. Whether he would stay on THIS promise is another topic entirely.

He thinks she is moving on. She thinks he is all set to move on. Neither realizes that neither is moving or going anywhere. They are being PUSHED by Ishwari. Only Ishwari is not realizing that while she might be succeeding in shoving Sona, her son is down on his knees. Crashed to the floor. Struggling to breathe with the impact of her thrust. And the saddest part is her son doesn't know who has shoved him to the ground and now making sure he stays down.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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awesome prediction...hope it goes like that...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Simply awesome post!! 👏

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Going through your post I just recollected the quote:
Yes, you're exactly my brand of heroin. -Edward Cullen

Problem is for some reason I never liked Jake. I always thought he never understood Bella's unconditional love for Edward. I hope Ritwick doesn't go into that category.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Amazing, amazing, amazing👏
You've managed to capture the essence of what's going on, Suvi. Dev is literally down on his knees, he doesn't know which way's up. He is going to make some very bad decisions in the coming episodes, I have a feeling. But then, he has never really been the best decision maker, has he?
My heart broke for Sonakshi when she entered the Dixit mansion again, and was flooded with the memories of the past. It must've taken a great deal deal of courage to come back, only to be insulted again. But she needed that reassurance that he is doing okay. This is so relate-able. Probably should've called tina though
Dev, what do I even say about him. I don't know what he's gonna do, how he is going to deal with everything, especially when he finds out that his mom was the one behind Sonakshi's alliance.
If the spoilers are anything to go by, he is going to continue to make one bad decision after another. Sigh!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome...👏I really hope it goes this way.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I might be the only one here but I feel apart from sona being impulsive ..her family is too ignoring her mental state now and they feel marriage can be healer to her..all her hell bent on making her understand about forgetting dev and bringing ritwik in that place its not easy you want her to move on..very good..you want her to not to go back to dev.very nice..but this is not the time..you are making her to behave impulsive.just because she is trusting you people for her life decisions...I have no hopes form dixits but atleast bose family should understand..time heals everything.. give her some time..and moreover bose family sona should realize..forcing never helps...she needs to get rid of painful past memories first if she wants to move on..till then better she wait before entering into any kind of lifelong commitment
Edited by GoodyTwoShoes - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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So well written Vandita👏...
Struggling to breathe with the impact of her thrust...


This...loved it😃...talking about the impact of pressures...

1. In yest epi...the way...he immersed in his thoughts ...forgot to do charansparsh of Ish and how the bubble of guilt overcame even his disturbed mind as if he has actually erred his own self...his soul...the devoted son in him does not allow him to move on to the desirable lover ..all due to the thrust of guilt in his mind...this scene was a continuation of where the guilt was floored by him on Sona in the form of break up...the consequences of break up made him move away from guilt for a bit of time...but the overshadowing of his desires over guilt pushed him back... ...

2. In the same way...the promo which aired Ish lost in disturbed thoughts about her insecurity with Sona...her mind was represented by the pressure cooker and her attempts in breaking the coconut was vain till her mind is pressured by Sona's insecurities...the coconut breaks and her pressure relwases in the form of riddance thru another proposal..
...these r the beautiful minute things i love from the creatives...





Edited by -allizwell- - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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First the facts...
When Tina returned Dev's phone she told him she is going on leave as per mother is not well. She has handed over work to Manasi but she will be available on the phone.

Next time we hear of Tina is when Dev is talking to Tina on the phone waiting for pictures.

So Tina is not there. Sona cannot ask Dev directly because he will either hide or push her away further. The only place she can expect is home. Where she sees him with her family, maybe Nikki or the others who can rest her unwarranted thoughts...

So Sona heads out there. The next set of events becomes very logical then, Sona crying over Rit's shoulder, Insisting on getting married early. As much as Dev says it all the time that he cannot see Sona with any one else.

Sona has also shown slight jealously over Dev's closeness to other girls... during Natasha phase and also Tina... ( In humour but she wasn't comfortable for sure)

If RR fuels that they are getting Dev , this is going to reinforce her opinion that Ishwari doesn't like her.

Neither Dev for Sona actually know about Ishwari's reasons.

They communicated so well initially. They lost it along the way.. Till they don't talk it out, they will never be able to solve.

If Sona comes to Dev and asks him to marry her. He says no, she is going to interpret it as " He is getting married to someone else"

Oh what a mess what a mess...


How will the mask get off... The breakup was all on Dev
Ishwari wronged him by proposing another alliance to Sona and wronged Sona by possibly telling her that Dev is also getting married

The only solution to clean their mess is Dev or Sona or Both finding out neither has truely moved on... They are being pushed away.

That's when they will step up and fight for their love.


PS

WOW

You got me rambling when I didn't intend to... Awesome post dude!!
Edited by fanktlk - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Superb... so very well written 👏👏
Absolutely... they are not moving on, they are being pushed to move on by 'Ishwari' 😡😡, who herself doesn't realize the hole she is sinking her son into!! Sona is stronger than Dev and has better people around her,.. but Dev is just a kid at heart, who has lost his only "truly own" person, & just doesn't know how to even live without her any more!!

I wonder how deeply broken Dev would be, when he finds out that his mother whom he considered his god, was the one behind his shattered life... when he realizes that when she claimed that she is happy in his happiness, tht she understands his unspoken - those were mere words.. shallow... nothing deeper!! Coz although, she does love & cares for him... but not really for Dev but much more for her own self... for own selfish reasons she wants him to be close to her.

Wonder what will happen when he realizes that it was not Sonakshi she had problems with, but it was the very fact that he himself chose a girl, whom he loved so much, almost at par with her ownself... & not just now, she may never ever be okay with his marriage, unless it is a girl chosen by her whom she is sure wouldnt ever come that close to Dev!! Her love is so damn toxic... She is ready to make dev feel lonely & alone in the whole world, just coz she wants him all for herself!!

Yes, sona is in too much pain & for no fault of her!! she loves him truly & deeply and didnt deserve this. completely agree with her how she is trying to move on.. she has all the rights. But at least she has such an amazing adorable family, cousins & even ppl like Ritwik who are there to support her, listen to her silences, wipe her tears, with whom she can speak her heart out... but Dev ohh 😭... I feel really so so sad for Dev... he has just no one in his life like that anymore!!

Yes, it was his own doing, but he did what he has been used to of doing till date... Living for his family! He has never lived for himself, except for Sona, & thus when it came to it, he sacrificed his own happiness coz he believes he needs to keep his family & mata happy first... his own happiness doesn't mean much to him in front of theirs!! He also felt guilty of putting his own happiness on priority for the 1st time in life..& did what has always done, let go of his happiness!!
For him Sona was "his own" and thats why he was harsh to her, he cut her off, coz she is the only one who he thought really belongs to him. In real life too, we are generally more tough & hard to those ppl whom we are closer, whom we consider our truly own when we are in turmoil & emotional, coz we know that to them we can do that ( I know a twisted logic, but true) !! He also did that, without realizing its repercussions on him & on sona

But I so feel bad for him having such family... they love him but more for themselves for how he takes care of them... actually they need him more!! They feel proud of the fact that he lives only for his family.. without trying to understand that he is also an individual, a human who has feelings, heart, desires, wishes... & how he must be curbing them to keep them happy ! They come to him (including his sisters) when they need something from him, but without that as far as he is smiling on face... they are okay!! They dont even try to delve into his emotional issues... never one has asked him after break-up that how is he, how is he coping (mamaji an exception).. no one has made one effort to understand him, to be his friend ... He is just tooo alone, only one friend, true friend he had was Sona... which he only pushed away for his family!! & no one sees or wants to see what a sacrifice he has made.. for no credit, for nothing he has just given away everything he held dear in his life 😭😭

I dont want Sona & Dev to come back to each other due to Ishwari or one big incident ( e.g. rumored suicide / engagement etc.), but I want them to come back to each other realizing they cant live without each other... esp Dev!! I want him to see the truth of ishwari's role in sona's rishta, and do something to live for himself, fight for himself for his happiness.. stand up for sona & his own self!!!
Edited by aditi07 - 9 years ago

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