Fight or Flight - Page 2

See I feel Sumo claims to be in love with Shravan. But I don't know why she fail to understand him. And whatever you say younger sumo was very mean to shravan and selfish too. As she grows up it appears she has changed become response and caring towards her damily. But again she has a mixed behaviour towards shravan. I feel Shravan was justified in his outburst...in every relationship there is a give and take at emotional level but in shraman relationship they have shown sumo always shunting shravzn under grab of self respect. Younger sumo was a bully plain and simple shravan loved her with all her flaws tgen. Shravan flight to lo London was not running away...but he was very disappointed with his mothers sudden leaving and coupled with sumo rude behaviour. Sumo also never tried to wriye to him during his absence about her remorse remember shravan telling her the same. I strongly feel in this relationship sumo always too shravan for granted without considering his feelings...i feel bad for shravan..don't know how cvs gonna redeem her...saying yes to adi proposal is also shows her superficial involvement with shravan...this what i feel...

Originally posted by: Joyness

See I feel Sumo claims to be in love with Shravan. But I don't know why she fail to understand him. And whatever you say younger sumo was very mean to shravan and selfish too. As she grows up it appears she has changed become response and caring towards her damily. But again she has a mixed behaviour towards shravan. I feel Shravan was justified in his outburst...in every relationship there is a give and take at emotional level but in shraman relationship they have shown sumo always shunting shravzn under grab of self respect. Younger sumo was a bully plain and simple shravan loved her with all her flaws tgen. Shravan flight to lo London was not running away...but he was very disappointed with his mothers sudden leaving and coupled with sumo rude behaviour. Sumo also never tried to wriye to him during his absence about her remorse remember shravan telling her the same. I strongly feel in this relationship sumo always too shravan for granted without considering his feelings...i feel bad for shravan..don't know how cvs gonna redeem her...saying yes to adi proposal is also shows her superficial involvement with shravan...this what i feel...

She hasn't said yes yet . Also we have to wait and see under what circumstances she says yes and if she says it at all. No one may ask for her decision at all as these both gave been playing friendship game for a long time. Let's wait and watch !

Originally posted by: Joyness

See I feel Sumo claims to be in love with Shravan. But I don't know why she fail to understand him. And whatever you say younger sumo was very mean to shravan and selfish too. As she grows up it appears she has changed become response and caring towards her damily. But again she has a mixed behaviour towards shravan. I feel Shravan was justified in his outburst...in every relationship there is a give and take at emotional level but in shraman relationship they have shown sumo always shunting shravzn under grab of self respect. Younger sumo was a bully plain and simple shravan loved her with all her flaws tgen. Shravan flight to lo London was not running away...but he was very disappointed with his mothers sudden leaving and coupled with sumo rude behaviour. Sumo also never tried to wriye to him during his absence about her remorse remember shravan telling her the same. I strongly feel in this relationship sumo always too shravan for granted without considering his feelings...i feel bad for shravan..don't know how cvs gonna redeem her...saying yes to adi proposal is also shows her superficial involvement with shravan...this what i feel...

Originally posted by: mayah

Lovely post...The fact that there are differing opinions on the forum itself shows that neither Suman or Shravan are wrong...Relationships are convoluted and ShraMan's is a whopper with all the past baggage that both of them carry...

+ 100
There is too much emotional baggage and the rain hopefully washed it all away !

@poppinss & Nith- I don't know what mode Sumo is gonna be. She was forced to be the sacrificing beti y'day.

Nanu forces an YES out of her for the proposal and I guess, she might act rude to Shrav, reinforcing the bad image he has of her, so that he can get over her. Being cruel to be kind you know?

Everything is up in the air.😆

Originally posted by: nith125

I know we have all discussed the choti Sumo visit a lot. Honestly I am not disappointed with the younger Sumo because it is consistent with her characterisation and older Sumo because she takes everything at face value. Anyway let me get to the point, I have a different take on this, so feel free to disagree 😉 or agree.

This is a classic example of "Fight or Flight", when faced with the worst in life, something that shakes the core of their being, people have only one of these 2 responses. Shravan choses to flee and Sumo choses to fight.That is why the younger Sumo is here. We have to remember that the younger Sumo was 15 and she was 6 when her parents died. What would a 6 year old do or for that matter what would a 15 year old do ? I think she chose to block the pain and that is the way she fights. We can argue that, that is also fleeing, I agree.Remember when they visit Sumo's house Shravan asks her why she hadn't told him so far, that he hasn't seen this side to Sumo before, she says he never asked. So she had blocked out everything.

I am not taking sides, I am just looking at this objectively. Both the responses are not wrong or right, these are things that keep you sane. Think about the parallel. The scene where Shravan leaves for London. The catch here is that we know Shravan left and Sumo stayed but we don't know how she responded. My assumption is that she blocked the pain, in fact I think she must have blocked out the younger Sumo and hence the reappearance of younger Sumo today when almost the same thing is happening. Shravan is going to come back on his own and he will be fine. He vented out his anger and it might have subsided a little bit.

Till last night I was thinking Shravan suicide, no way. But now I can see how it fits. Once he knows of the Sumo-Adithya rishta he will be broken again and will probably attempt something, if not consciously may be subconsciously he will do something,he is going to be ruthless. And I think Sumo will fight to get him back to his feet (symbolically ) .

I don't even know if I am making sense. So leave in your comments, I am sure a lot of you will disagree with me, bashing welcome 😉