The Breaking Point.... Script changed- Yeh Shaadi cancel karwado!

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Its not like we have a choice really.

So let us look at it realistically. Do we want a girl who has just been delivered a big blow, be blackmailed into a relationship that makes her want to tear herself apart just now? Nope. 🤔

Firstly, the lawyer's judgement:

Don't throw your chappals at me, but again I missed the first 3 or 4 minutes of the outburst. 😒 Caught from the bit where he was talking about how she refused to take it from his father and then him...felt bad for him when he repeated what he had offered her again the previous day.😭

Oh! But when he started throwing around the dishes...and threw the halwa..💔..it was not anger I felt, but a deep sense of betrayal and sadness along with Sumo..

Why, Shravan why? Why did you have to be so heartless? Why did you turn into such a monster?😲

Sumo was shaking like a leaf...It left such an impact, even I was shaken as a viewer! (Great job, Namik and Niki! 👏)


Chhotti Sumo comes visiting Badi Sumo...these are the worst of times...and Chhotti Sumo reminds Suman how lonely she is in this big bad world...She has only one person she can bank on- Her Nanu.

I welcomed this thinking by Suman..High time she left her Sacrificing, Understanding Devi Roop! 👍🏼 I hope the sentiment stays for some time.👏

This is the BREAKING POINT..
And what was so striking about it was the way it affected both the protagonists.

Shravan has been dilly dallying for quite a while, so he didn't need a Chhotta Shravan to convince himself...also signifies how much lesser he was affected as compared to Suman. For Suman it was a trust that was broken...something she had held on to, her entire life...

Shravan aayega...Shravan aayegaa..Despite everything, Shravan would come.
No more. She doesn't believe it anymore. The last ten years she had felt secure even if he had not been there...There was always the hope and belief that he would come. Now...she has to go back to that Sumo who seemed to know back then she was on her own in this world...Why did she foolishly lead herself to believe otherwise these ten years? Why did she start weaving dreams that would only remain nightmares? I sincerely wish the CVs had added one more dialogue..'Woh tab bhi bhaaga tha. Kabhi tere liye nahi rukegaa...'

'Aur main yahaan soch rehi thi'.. She was expecting validation...when she got disappointment. (Not forgetting the fact Shravan was provoked into this situation by her own actions, but the magnitude of his actions blind Suman to an extreme...Understandable.


So now, questions such as whether Suman would accept Adi's proposal become pointless...Given the extent to which she has been shaken, what would make Suman start believing in Shravan again? Can that be a long road to redemption?😃😆

I sincerely appreciate the fact that Suman is not angry, she is just disillusioned...it would take a lot to gain back that trust, given how selfless she is.

Unlike Shravan who has taken so long to realise he cannot hate her no matter what (may be he is yet to learn that), Suman knows she will rush to him when the need arises...That would still happen..She wouldn't be someone who'd look the other way when he hurts himself...But it is going to be on her own terms...

As for the shaadi, I saw that snap of Adi and Suman driving Preekar...If the writer doesn't want to bulldoze Suman into an 'abusive' relationship (writing that with a heavy heart...knowing Shravan is not like that...But this is a relationship where she'd have to constantly prove herself, considering he continues to stay blind to many things...), I am all with him. 👍🏼

So...If there is no shaadi, what can we expect from the future track?

I think Suman will prove once again how dear Shravan is to her...but she will stay within the limits she has set for herself... and Adi will have to battle this out with the man he knows Suman seems to care for...he would slowly learn who her heart belongs to. 😉

As for Preekar- If Kamini cannot get her revenge, I hope she takes it out on Preeti.
Let her prove to the world, how Pretty Preeti has never had to adjust for anyone and has her little head filled with nonsense and how Pushkar's calm and composed wife can get a little too much for him to tackle at the slightest hint of disturbance. Looking forward to some realistic saas bahu battles here! 👍🏼

After all, Shravan needs to know how his idols (Kamini and Preeti) come crashing down one by one...and start seeing how different his Sumo is from the rest! 👍🏼

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chicksoup

😆

Its not like we have a choice really.

So let us look at it realistically. Do we want a girl who has just been delivered a big blow, be blackmailed into a relationship that makes her want to tear herself apart just now? Nope. 🤔

Firstly, the lawyer's judgement:

Don't throw your chappals at me, but again I missed the first 3 or 4 minutes of the outburst. 😒 Caught from the bit where he was talking about how she refused to take it from his father and then him...felt bad for him when he repeated what he had offered her again the previous day.😭

Oh! But when he started throwing around the dishes...and threw the halwa..💔..it was not anger I felt, but a deep sense of betrayal and sadness along with Sumo..

Why, Shravan why? Why did you have to be so heartless? Why did you turn into such a monster?😲

Sumo was shaking like a leaf...It left such an impact, even I was shaken as a viewer! (Great job, Namik and Niki! 👏)


Chhotti Sumo comes visiting Badi Sumo...these are the worst of times...and Chhotti Sumo reminds Suman how lonely she is in this big bad world...She has only one person she can bank on- Her Nanu.

I welcomed this thinking by Suman..High time she left her Sacrificing, Understanding Devi Roop! 👍🏼 I hope the sentiment stays for some time.👏

This is the BREAKING POINT..
And what was so striking about it was the way it affected both the protagonists.

Shravan has been dilly dallying for quite a while, so he didn't need a Chhotta Shravan to convince himself...also signifies how much lesser he was affected as compared to Suman. For Suman it was a trust that was broken...something she had held on to, her entire life...

Shravan aayega...Shravan aayegaa..Despite everything, Shravan would come.
No more. She doesn't believe it anymore. The last ten years she had felt secure even if he had not been there...There was always the hope and belief that he would come. Now...she has to go back to that Sumo who seemed to know back then she was on her own in this world...Why did she foolishly lead herself to believe otherwise these ten years? Why did she start weaving dreams that would only remain nightmares? I sincerely wish the CVs had added one more dialogue..'Woh tab bhi bhaaga tha. Kabhi tere liye nahi rukegaa...'

'Aur main yahaan soch rehi thi'.. She was expecting validation...when she got disappointment. (Not forgetting the fact Shravan was provoked into this situation by her own actions, but the magnitude of his actions blind Suman to an extreme...Understandable.


So now, questions such as whether Suman would accept Adi's proposal become pointless...Given the extent to which she has been shaken, what would make Suman start believing in Shravan again? Can that be a long road to redemption?😃😆

I sincerely appreciate the fact that Suman is not angry, she is just disillusioned...it would take a lot to gain back that trust, given how selfless she is.

Unlike Shravan who has taken so long to realise he cannot hate her no matter what (may be he is yet to learn that), Suman knows she will rush to him when the need arises...That would still happen..She wouldn't be someone who'd look the other way when he hurts himself...But it is going to be on her own terms...

As for the shaadi, I saw that snap of Adi and Suman driving Preekar...If the writer doesn't want to bulldoze Suman into an 'abusive' relationship (writing that with a heavy heart...knowing Shravan is not like that...But this is a relationship where she'd have to constantly prove herself, considering he continues to stay blind to many things...), I am all with him. 👍🏼

So...If there is no shaadi, what can we expect from the future track?

I think Suman will prove once again how dear Shravan is to her...but she will stay within the limits she has set for herself... and Adi will have to battle this out with the man he knows Suman seems to care for...he would slowly learn who her heart belongs to. 😉

As for Preekar- If Kamini cannot get her revenge, I hope she takes it out on Preeti.
Let her prove to the world, how Pretty Preeti has never had to adjust for anyone and has her little head filled with nonsense and how Pushkar's calm and composed wife can get a little too much for him to tackle at the slightest hint of disturbance. Looking forward to some realistic saas bahu battles here! 👍🏼

After all, Shravan needs to know how his idols (Kamini and Preeti) come crashing down one by one...and start seeing how different his Sumo is from the rest! 👍🏼


Choti sunmo says think of nanu and not shravan.. that was a wierd advise I thought
Sumos breaking point was this. Both have lost the trust in each other.
Lets see how this goes forward.I hope she does not accept Adityas proposal but will wait and watch

Nanu sumo scenes were heartbreaking
So for Sumo its nanu first and for Shrav it will be his dad..
Lets see how this plays out
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: spshastr


Choti sunmo says think of nanu and not shravan.. that was a wierd advise I thought
Sumos breaking point was this. Both have lost the trust in each other.
Lets see how this goes forward.I hope she does not accept Adityas proposal but will wait and watch

Nanu sumo scenes were heartbreaking
So for Sumo its nanu first and for Shrav it will be his dad..
Lets see how this plays out


She had also told Ramnath that no matter what the situation is, she'd always come running when Shravan needs her...That is never going to change...

I liked the advice actually...because the young Sumo had been bindass...she had created an air about her to convince herself SHE DIDN'T NEED ANYONE...that sentiment was brought out.

She had only Nanu. Only Nanu cared for her.

It was not about choosing between Nanu and Shravan.

Shravan had taken himself out of the choice...he is the one who had broken the relationship...with such a finality!

She never had a choice!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@chiksoup - I really like your different take on choti sumo's advice.
I thought that was too jarring - particularly after the scary intense breakdown of shravan and their relationship - but as you said - may be it was deliberately placed to show sumo snap out of her secret world of hope where shravan understands her.

having said that - it should not have been difficult for her to understand where part of shravan's anger is coming from - the fact that he has no clue as why suman has been categorically keeping him at bay. so it should not come to her as a big surprise - being a friend with this guy for over more than a decade, she out of all people should know how sensitive shravan is and how possessive he is too, when it comes to her. was that not the same streak she was trying to stroke this time around?

but she goes ahead and takes shravan's words verbatim and decides he is not worth it? i honestly did not get it at all - felt like a huge emotional disconnect. and if that is the case then as of now, they are not meant to be together.

it should not only be a road to realization of shravan - but for suman as well. hope the show reflects on that.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank U. 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I was waiting for your take on today's episode, and honestly I am a bit taken aback that your sympathies lie with Suman, but thats the beauty of being on this forum. Sabke points of view... Actually both these characters are imperfect and have kinks in their armour. Both have battles to win, egos to fight and demons to overcome. Suman is extremely "impression conscious", whether it is in a good or bad way and the only real person who she has seemed to show her real side was Shravan. He loved her as is, so in a way she took his love, or his being there for her granted, and she never grew up. Shravan on the other hand did the same. Whatever Nirmala did, and Ramnath too, has had a deep impact on his psyche and everything is just plain messed up. It's just weird how Aditya has all of a sudden become so important that he is driving PreeKar, and not Varun or Shravan. CVs do suffer from inconsistency and short term lets make it convenient syndrome. But PreeKar shadi done, and Nanu (can't die) blackmailing done, how are ShraMan even going to get in one frame? Matlab common ground kya hai?
Since everything is happy and gungo ho during baraat (from IG pics posted), kuchh to hoga between now and then (shravan may be missing but he will be back, and suicide spoilers are false) but kya?

Kaise niklenge is daldal se bahar? Jannne ke liye dekhiye, Sony TV pe raat 10 baje :D
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree it should be a road of realisation for both not just him. I still dont understand how she did not get that and was stunned at the aditya thing.

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Originally posted by: QUIRKY333

@chiksoup - I really like your different take on choti sumo's advice.

I thought that was too jarring - particularly after the scary intense breakdown of shravan and their relationship - but as you said - may be it was deliberately placed to show sumo snap out of her secret world of hope where shravan understands her.

having said that - it should not have been difficult for her to understand where part of shravan's anger is coming from - the fact that he has no clue as why suman has been categorically keeping him at bay. so it should not come to her as a big surprise - being a friend with this guy for over more than a decade, she out of all people should know how sensitive shravan is and how possessive he is too, when it comes to her. was that not the same streak she was trying to stroke this time around?

but she goes ahead and takes shravan's words verbatim and decides he is not worth it? i honestly did not get it at all - felt like a huge emotional disconnect. and if that is the case then as of now, they are not meant to be together.

it should not only be a road to realization of shravan - but for suman as well. hope the show reflects on that.


I agree that Suman should have known what led to all this. Sensitive and possessive Shravan...

But Suman is focussing only on her attempts...

She had only tried to evoke that possessive guy because Shravan had seemingly been going away from her...So as far as she is concerned she misread Shravan's actions...It is not that she has given up on him...she has given up on herself...Huge difference there...

Why did sh try to play on the jealousy? Because he had been upset over the arrangements she had made and had constantly supported his aunt over her...

Also she had missed the initial part of the discussion on the venue change and had not heard Kamini refusing Mamaji...according to her Shravan was asked first and he denied outright...

The balance is a little favourably tilted towards Suman.😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Monaco & sp,

Need to go now. Will get back later with my views.. Thanx for replying. 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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@chick - its more like the balance has toppled 😆
because - what you are saying about is what she thought to herself - albeit out on parts of the whole - is identical to shravan's dilemma - he has heard parts of the whole (deliberately or not) and has made up his own story and gone ahead with a verdict

so - both don; know how to communicate - and if they can't communicate with each other, given such a close decade long bonding - they should not try for any other relationship and should definitely stay away from each other.

also, going forward - i have my hopes pinned on shravan to unearth the WHOLE story using his currently dormant lawyer brain. Suman, i guess, will continue to score low on the introspection quotient.

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