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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: Manzz

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😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Actually Yes, Now A Days It Is Getting Lesser 😃 😃 But Sons Do Have To Bear Certain Demands 😉 😆 😳 😆 If, At All, His Girl Is From Lesser Group, Then It Gets Difficult ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 Also Till Recent Years, Boys Did Marry Within The Family Circles 😳 😳 😃 😃 Now Marry Outside The Community Is Very Common 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 😳 😃

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shame on you to tell like that so a girl's father hard earned money will be shared and enjoyed by daughter's husband's 😡family, people like you are the reason for dowry demands then ok if dowry is not a crime then killing girl child in stomach is also not a crime, so that for 100 men's only one girl will be left so that automatically this demands from son parent's during marriage will be vanished

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ErisedWitch45

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Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: ktiluvu
not only dowry should banned but also this culture where daughter in-laws should come to her husband's parent's house should also be banned see most men's say ohh we won't come and stay at wife parent's house blah blah but girl's should do it cuz of our culture ...in all countries girls will stay saparatly with her husband but husband have to look over his parent's and she should look her parent's but in India girls should complusary stay in her in-laws house and she should be like a servent to in laws and bring half property from her parent's but should not have responsibility towards her parent's. .. like men's girls should also stay away from her in-laws so that she will have her individuality,freedom,hapiness, respect,not a free maid ,indentity

Very well put. Even if no dowry is demanded, many dils are treated like that; intentionally and unintentionally. Some people are not aware of how much responsibility they suddenly put on a girl's shoulder when she is married. Plus they form high expectations and expect her to fulfill them. Girl's identity is lost in the process.

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ktiluvu

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Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: ErisedWitch45

Very well put. Even if no dowry is demanded, many dils are treated like that; intentionally and unintentionally. Some people are not aware of how much responsibility they suddenly put on a girl's shoulder when she is married. Plus they form high expectations and expect her to fulfill them. Girl's identity is lost in the process.

yeah true i agree with you in-laws will think daughter in-laws are their property and forget she is also a human being ,in-laws will think daughter in-laws r slave to them it is very injustice to daughter in-laws to do all her in-laws work's we hope in future daughter in-laws should get respect and love from her inlaws and allow to leave separately from in-laws with her husband (but son should have responsibility towards his parent's but not in same house please)

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kavita

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Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: Manzz

😃 For Ktiluvu 😃 😃

😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Actually Yes, Now A Days It Is Getting Lesser 😃 😃 But Sons Do Have To Bear Certain Demands 😉 😆 😳 😆 If, At All, His Girl Is From Lesser Group, Then It Gets Difficult ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 Also Till Recent Years, Boys Did Marry Within The Family Circles 😳 😳 😃 😃 Now Marry Outside The Community Is Very Common 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 😳 😃

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Yes sons have to bear. It is their responsibility which has to be fulfilled at any cost. But it is wrong to ask for dowry from a girl. A woman can support her family out of her own earnings but not from her dad's hard earned money. Whatever girls parents give to their daughter is plainly for her. Husband & in-laws don't have any right on it. It is mandatory for a man to work, earn & provide his immediate family but a woman works for her freedom. It is not necessary that she has to give her money to her husband & in-laws. She has every right to be financially secure.

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Man

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Posted: 9 years ago

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😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Ha, Ha 😃 😃 You Don't Seem To Gat The Point 😉 😆 😳 😆 What Is Meant If The Boy's Wife Is From Lesser Group, Meaning, Differently, The Boy / Man Faces Difficulty, I Don't Mean He Has Taken Dowry ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 I Have Only Stated What Was Prevailent In Those Times ; Am Not Going To Judge What Happenned Before My Times 😳 😳 😃 😃 My Outlook, Perception Is Very Different And Do Not Support Any Such Practise 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 Understanding A By Gone Culture And Justice Done Is Interesting 😃 Those, If At All, Were Property Based Customs, To Avoid Division Of Properies Few Customs Were Prevalent 😃 Does Not Mean That I Practise Or Advocate Those Custom Or Practise 😃 I Have Only Stated The Practises That Were Prevalent And The Male's Sad Condition 😳 😃

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Man

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Posted: 9 years ago

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😃 For Ktiluvu 😃 😃

😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Also, No Need To Get Personal 😃 😃 I Have Experienced These Injustice, Unjust Practise And Customs 😉 😆 😳 😆When I Said Bear, I Meant Endure Hardships Of Injustice, As Son I Did, t ! ! 😃No, Not About Dowry, But Some Other Practise! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 😳 😳 😃 😃 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 😳 😃

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Man

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Posted: 9 years ago

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😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Ahh, Yes, Agreed, 😃 😃 Whatever It Is, We Are Equal Among Equals 😃 I Always Though And Feel This Way 😃 😆 😳 😆Be It A Girl Or Boy 😃 Thinking Ought To Be In Equal Terms ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 Whatever Practises Were Prevailent, Has To Fine Tuned With Passed Of Time s 😳 😳 😃 😃 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 😳 😃

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ktiluvu

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Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: Manzz

😃 For Kaitrinasalman 😃 😃

😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Ahh, Yes, Agreed, 😃 😃 Whatever It Is, We Are Equal Among Equals 😃 I Always Though And Feel This Way 😃 😆 😳 😆Be It A Girl Or Boy 😃 Thinking Ought To Be In Equal Terms ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 Whatever Practises Were Prevailent, Has To Fine Tuned With Passed Of Time s 😳 😳 😃 😃 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 😳 😃

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actually i misunderstood you ,sorry I thought ur encouraging dowry ...some people will think asking dowry from girl parent's is not a crime cuz they r giving earning son to their daughter in-laws but it is wrong cuz actually son parent's are benifiting by their son's cuz their sons will lifelong bear their expenses then why to demand dowry from girl's, if son parent's are giving earning son's to daughter in laws then girl parent's r giving working(household works) daughters to son in-laws so both r benifiting so taking dowry is a crime

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