Having son is very lucky in india

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Yes those who have son are very lucky in India cuz their is no need to give dowry for son's marriage, their son's will lifelong bear their parent's expenses ,their son will lifelong will be with them what more benefit is son's wife become a servent to them and their is no need to give salary to her instead she will bring dowry so that having son will be so much advantage but if we have daughter's we don't get anything so son parent's in India r so lucky

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Dowry in this day and age shouldn't happen. So many girls are held to ransom for it. It shouldn't be condoned.
Edited by Xarina - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Xarina

Dowry in this day and age shouldn't happen. So many girls are held to ransom for it. It shouldn't be condoned.

not only dowry should banned but also this culture where daughter in-laws should come to her husband's parent's house should also be banned see most men's say ohh we won't come and stay at wife parent's house blah blah but girl's should do it cuz of our culture ...in all countries girls will stay saparatly with her husband but husband have to look over his parent's and she should look her parent's but in India girls should complusary stay in her in-laws house and she should be like a servent to in laws and bring half property from her parent's but should not have responsibility towards her parent's. .. like men's girls should also stay away from her in-laws so that she will have her individuality,freedom,hapiness, respect,not a free maid ,indentity
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Posted: 9 years ago
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D - Donkeys
O - Of The First Order
W - Who Cannot Stand On Their Feet
R - Rely On Wives Riches
Y - Yet Shameless.

It is illegal & the girls side can always file a dowry case. These days even guys stay separately from their parents whether or not they marry.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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😃 Not Always 😃 😃
😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 😃 😃 The Plight Of Sons Is Equally Bad ! ! 😉 😆 😳 😆 To Be Born In Matriarchal Family Is An Experience, Few Sons Have To Undergo ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 He Has To Take Dowry And Give That Cash As Dowry To His Sister's Would Be Hubby ; In The End Gets Nothing 😳 😳 😳 😃 😃 😃 😉 😆 😆 😉 😆 😆 😆
😃 😳 😃 😃 😃
Edited by Manzz - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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According to me one should neither give dowry nor take dowry. If they want money. let them work for it. There's no shortcut to success. If you give dowry, the in-laws will not be satisfied. They will ask for more.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Manzz

😃 Not Always 😃 😃
😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 😃 😃 The Plight Of Sons Is Equally Bad ! ! 😉 😆 😳 😆 To Be Born In Matriarchal Family Is An Experience, Few Sons Hav To Unsergo ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 He Has To Take Dowry And Give That Cash As Dowry To His Sister's Would Be Hubby ; In The End Gets Nothing 😳 😳 😳 😃 😃 😃 😉 😆 😆 😉 😆 😆 😆
😃 😳 😃 😃 😃

that is totally bad ,actually why should men's demand dowry,marriage is equally important to both men's and women's so why women's should give dowry and yeah men's will bear wife expenses but for that wife is doing all his works and many wife's are doing equal job and earning equally with husband but then too demanding dowry ... so as per you if a daughter's father will give his only house to his daughter as a dowry so that house should be given to her sister in law and that same house will be given to her sister in law so A GIRL'S FATHER HARD EARNED MONEY WILL BE SHARED BY HIS DAUGHTER'S IN LAWS WOW 😡
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: katrinasalman

According to me one should neither give dowry nor take dowry. If they want money. let them work for it. There's no shortcut to success. If you give dowry, the in-laws will not be satisfied. They will ask for more.

I agree with you👏 we should not ask money from girl's old parent's from where they will bring money ,son will say i should bear my old parent's expenses cuz they r old which is 100% justice but same men will order wife to bring dowry from her old parent's, if men want money he should earn it,he should satisfy whatever money he has ,he should ask wife to do job(if he want wife to do job then he should share household works too) but asking dowry from girl parents is crime
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ktiluvu

I agree with you👏 we should not ask money from girl's old parent's from where they will bring money ,son will say i should bear my old parent's expenses cuz they r old which is 100% justice but same men will order wife to bring dowry from her old parent's, if men want money he should earn it,he should satisfy whatever money he has ,he should ask wife to do job(if he want wife to do job then he should share household works too) but asking dowry from girl parents is crime


Whether girls parents are old or not, asking for dowry itself is bad. Such people are nothing less than beggars in my perspective. For a man, it is mandatory that he has to work & provide his wife. But a woman works for her financial freedom. That is her wish. When they are educated, they would not like to be a housewife for the full time.
Edited by katrinasalman - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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😃 For Ktiluvu 😃 😃
😃 😃 😃 😳 😳 Actually Yes, Now A Days It Is Getting Lesser 😃 😃 But Sons Do Have To Bear Certain Demands 😉 😆 😳 😆 If, At All, His Girl Is From Lesser Group, Then It Gets Difficult ! ! 😃! ! 😉 😳 😳 😳 Also Till Recent Years, Boys Did Marry Within The Family Circles 😳 😳 😃 😃 Now Marry Outside The Community Is Very Common 😃 😉 😆 😆 😳 😳 😃 😳 😃
😃 😳 😃 😃 😃

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