why is it always about dev and his mum? - Page 2

I mean i realize dev doesnt has a proper family and all,but still,it doesnt mean that if u have a happy family no one would care about their wishes🥱

That's a very thoughtful post!!!👏

It's been at the back of my mind almost all the time.. And using this post to let it loose.. Hope you dn't mind! 😉

The positive ambience, the feel-good vibes, the peaceful aura... This has a very silent effect on the mind and life 😃... It's the negative environment which creates a lot of noise and disturbance in one's life 😆.. And thats where anyone can bring in more turbulence or a calming effect, depending upon what that person brings in or intends to bring in...😉

Dixit family is that of lots of negative vibes causing lot of drama to their own lives... And Ishwari is made to be the extra drama queen with her own state of mind and flow of thoughts😆.. Even during Natasha time, she consciously did not involve in helping Dev make the decision.. Because she very knows her own decision - Not to have her son shared! And she was scared that she might come out in open influencing Dev with a decision which he may not like. This is where Radharani kinda characters can bring in more confusions and make a mess out her already messed up emotions 😆! And Sona kinda characters can bring in peace and good mood to be echoed from her own...😳

Bose family is that of positive life😊... No turbulence in it because they are the satisfied souls with simple things of life... And they don't take any complications of life because they know how to deal with it 👏... Possible concerns - Daada not being responsible and not sticking to a routine of job?! They could still make a complication and worry at length about the same😆... But is that the kinda parents one would like to have - Put pressure on the kids to be someone that they are not! Sona can put herself into the stressed mode of having him follow a diet to keep him healthy and fit... Is that kinda sister that one would want to have such that on seeing her home, one would run away for the love of their life?!😆

And the effect of negativity is very much impactful than the positive that one brings in😉... Just on a lighter note, I always have seen a negative/dramatic post getting more responses in the forum than a positive/peaceful one!!! I think that's how our system is made of!!! Tuned to react to such emotions than to relish in peace!!! Giving one's piece of mind is more dearer than their own peace of mind!!!😆

Ok coming back to the post... I wouldn't want to see any forced drama put into the Bose family... And if the flow goes all right, then I already sense of pressure at the Bose family with Sona's mother wanting to get her married soon... She's worried what if something happens to them... She wants to see her dear daughter settled well in life.. That's where their peace lies in... Though Sona's father doesn't accept that his daughter is of marriageable age, he will also be in the same boat to see her happily married to someone who deserves her well... And Daada can't see his dear sister hurt any more... Elena can go charge at Dev anytime if he makes Sona upset! Daadi is all capable of doing any positive drama to get her loving granddaughter married... She can even do an emotional blackmail that she doesn't have much more days left in her side.. And wants to see Sona get married😆.. And in all this we know Sona wants to do anything to keep her family happy... In Kushal's case though she wasn't hurt much in getting that rishta broken she worried a lot for her family and their emotions...

Not sure what and how Dev is gonna react to his own mother's insecurities, but if he has second thoughts about marrying Sona or for that matter any girl, then I wouldn't want the Bose family to be very understanding for him.. Sona can be all understanding about his situation and wanting to give him the time to get things settled with Ishwari.. But I would love to see Sona's mom not encouraging him seeing her daughter until he has a proper thing about settling down with her... And Sona's father sure is capable of raging at him in his own capacity... Daada can meet him to give his own gyaan of being the big brother and making Dev understand from their side... Daadi can say things in her own dramatic and cute way.. Yet sending the message real strong to him... Dev sure should know that he can't have everything in his own way enjoying both the sides of the worlds... He has to take that extra step to do something about his mom... He just can't just ask Sona to understand his situation without he understanding her situation...😃

And thanks for your positive post... Glad to post my thoughts here... 😃