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Posted: 9 years ago
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Disclaimer: Guys I had made this post during pregnancy track when Suraj decided to donate one of his twin kid to Bulbul (precisely on 17.03.2015). Now that Vansh is back with this hurt feeling, I just thought os re posting the same as that old post is locked. If it is not permissible to repost, then please let me know, so that I will remove this post.
Dear Papa,

I don't know whether I will get the option to address you as papa once I come out of my mother's womb (sorry your wife's womb as I am not sure whether she will stay as my mom after that or not). I have some questions bothering me ever since you told my mom that you are planning to handover one of your child to satisfy the need of a crying child.😕 But papa why did you not realize that by diving us, no idea whom you are going to retain and whom you are going to spare to the other, so as of now we treat ourselves as one and writing this letter to you. Hope you realize our pain and find some solution to heal our wounds which you have scratched deep on our delicate minds.

Papa, it is good to wipe the tears of a crying child by giving it what is need but is it really right that you make another one cry due to your act. You are concerned about Bulbul didi's pain and her need to have a sibling and are ready to give her one of us, so that she has a sibling to share her joy and sorrow. But while doing that you are depriving one of us the company of sibling and even though we are born together to live together with an invisible bond, with your one act of goodness, you are axing our bond and make us 2 strangers. What will you do if the child whom you retain cries for a sibling? Will you go and ask someone else to give one of their child to you to give company to your child? Do you even realize that with that you are depriving one of us the love of our Dada, Dadi, aunts & uncles and most of all, the warmth of our mothers hug, the sweet whispers of my mother? Won't you think I will be crying for my mom while my brother or sister is enjoying the sole attention of my mother? Will you be able to control your urge to pick me up while I fall? Will you be able to stay away and watch me calling my uncle as papa? Wont you shed silent tears at that moment. Wont my mother feel the stab when I call her aunt and someone else as mom? Wont I feel unwanted while you people pamper my twin with all your love while I will be watching that from away? Why do you want to do this to me papa?

And you have called us as Jai and Veeru? Whom are you going to send away from you? And why do you choose him alone? If you end away Jai, will Veeru bear the void created or if you send Veeru, how will Jai stay alone and happy? When god wanted us to be the companions and siblings, why do you want to go against gods wish and want to rewrite our fate?

Forget about that, what if we are Deepak & jyothi? Whom will you choose to retain and whom will you shell away? Why do you plan to have Deepak with you? Is it because he will be the heir to Rati's? and what crime did Jyothi did to go away from her own parents immediately after her birth? Do you think the girl any way will have to go away to someone's place, so let her go now only? Don't you ever want to love your daughter? When you worship your mother and adore your wife, why not love your daughter? And if you want to send away Deepak and hold Jyothi to her heart, what is the mistake I did by being a boy? Don't I have to right to stay with my parents and grandparents? Don't my grandparents have the right on their grandchildren as we are the once who continue their lineage?

Have you even saw mom directly in her eyes? She can neither agree with you nor oppose you on your stand but after bearing both the kids for 9 months in her womb, the moment they are out, you are ready to snatch away one from her and hand it to someone else in the name of humanity? Why don't you think in the same line for us, your unborn kids and our mother who is crying within herself.

Eagerly looking forward to know your decision about us (may not be us after a while)😭

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Thank you so much di for sharing it again. It is really touching. Poor Vansh. Feel pity for him.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: LuvSurYa

Thank you so much di for sharing it again. It is really touching. Poor Vansh. Feel pity for him.

Now atleast he is in flesh and blood and Suraj took that decision as if one kid is bonus which he can share it with anyone of his choice. As a mother it was difficult for me to digest his words, so I just felt I would pen down my pain to ease my burden.
I so much want the kids to revolt against their parents now that they know the truth.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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thanks Vmaa. I am waiting for Surya's answer not just to Vansh but also to Ved as Ved also knows that Vansh is not his Mama, Mami's biological son. Just thinking of making a post in this regard. let me see if I can
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Posted: 9 years ago
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😭 dee
sometimes i think
its similar to child marriage ( offense)
the child is not aware of whats happening
the decision is imposed on the kid

it would be very difficult for the newborn to adapt to its new mother
if it comes to know the truth after some years
it would be devastating
neither the kid can forget the past nor accept the present

poor vansh
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Posted: 9 years ago
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thala, it will be too difficult for vansh as he was so eager to be with kids (Rathi kids) as he loved to be with the group and to be pampered though he got enough love from Ankur & Ankita and also his Bulbul didi. the moment he realizes the fact that he had been deprived of the love and company of his siblings for no fault of him, do you think Suraj's explanation will lighten his burden and pain.
But still it is a mystery to me, why did AA talking about Vansh being adopted after so many years? Are they facing some financial problem and don't want the burden of Vansh as they have settle their daughter? Or will they show (CVs) that vansh has some chronical issue and his sibling is required on emergency basis to save Vansha nd so they are talking about that? Or is it that they are too happy about their prosperity after adopting Vansh?
But whatever it is, they are in for a serious shock and Rathis for a serious breakdown
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Feeling so sad for the baby Vansh! Very touchy Jaya

Giving away Vansh was so illogical at that time.
It was not like AA had no child and they cannot get one!

I remember we had so many discussion on this donation.

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