Posting my comment from another thread
Mommy needs therapy..it's not about dev hiding from her anymore..it's more than that..and always have been ..she wants to be reason for each and everything of Dev..I try to understand her but again and again she gives me chills and make me sacred nothing else..as a mother of boy i know what I need not to be..so thank you for this show.snapping at sona has become hobby of dikhsits..they snap at her then get back to normal.
Mommy knows everything and still not talking about it to Dev.and she does it what she does best..emotionally manipulating her son and making him feel guilty..mommy dear if you want to listen what suits you..then nobody can share personal feelings with you..If you want to be confidant of your children...you need to be leave your judgemental part of personality aside..I don't blame Dev now for hiding things..I feel subconsciously he has feeling that mommy has issues about him talking about any thing she is not comfortable with..you get upset that your fav kid is hiding such a important thing from you..ok fine..I get it..but you bless your son with sadbuddhi and tell him that he needs to differentiate between right and wrong?? If I got it right.it was for sona...then it was real mean and rude..you feel sona is wrong for you son...even though you witnessed all goodness of hers on first hand and even she and your son talking about keeping your happiness above all..still you can think like that...you might feel guilty about behaviour tomorrow..but as we say words can not take a u turn...you said it..ans it can never be undone..ans about precap..you want your son to hold your finger throughout your life as he used to in childhood..?? Ok fine ...I have 2 year old son and he does not even let me use loo for two minutes in peace..shower,kitxhen every single place he accompanies me..so does it mean I will ask him to be clingy to me throghout his life?? I get chills when I see her. I get scared that what if I end up being like heryou need to understand ishwari that if you want childhood wala your son back..then he might also want his childhood back..?? You want your son to be same as he used to be in childhood .but you need father like brother for your daughter's .a prime male member for your family who earn for them ..so it's all about your convenience right?? You need to understand ..that holding someone else hands for companionship does not mean he will leave your hand..but there will be two hands who will hold you from both sides and support you through out life..get out of your insecurity ishwari before it gets too late..you feel you made your son go away from his belief...this time you are unknowingly making him go away from his happiness..his own self..you are not enough for himm..you need to get it..you are parent and God to him..he is not looking someone for those positions in his life.sona has taken place what was empty and nothing related or even close to you..she is his companion..his soulmate..he has come out of you ishwari
...but he has come in this world for someone else too..remember..you need to use your that sanity what you used for neha and ranbir case..you had no clue about ranbir bit neither you felt bad nor you judged ranbir..here you know sona in and out and still feel she is wrong for Dev..you tell me who is right for Dev?his loneliness ?? You will not have any answer..because there is no answer..simply because there is no question...it's all your assumptions nothing more than that..remember ..it's assumption..and only you can get over those
Edited by GoodyTwoShoes - 9 years ago
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