Listening to Understand - Sonakshi Bose

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Was it only me or the Episode ended way too quickly?

Or maybe it was the expectations with the DevAkshi scene.. which left me wanting more from the 21 minutes we are alloted.😆

The shows begins with Ishwari listing the things for Satyanarayan pooja, and Sona being her curious and caring self, asks her about it..which Ishwari decides to blatantly ignore.🥱

"Sabko sabkuch pata hota hai, bas aankhein band krke rakhte hai."

Ishwari, you need some serious introspection dear, because this exactly applies to you and not Sonakshi.

There is something very intriguing about Sona-Ishwari's relationship, the way writers have woven their interactions. . It has prospects of being the most cordial DIL-MIL jodi ever.

Ishwari is not bad at heart, just overpowered by her emotions. When she snaps at Sonakshi, it almost brought tears to Sona's eyes. .She starts walking away just then Ishwari stops her. She felt guilt of hurting her and she knew it was her own emotions triggering her behaviour.

No doubt, Ishwari still has that affection for Sonakshi. It keeps going up and down though.


You know what the best thing about Sonakshi is? Apart from her maturity? It is her ability to listen.

"Most people listen do not listen with an intent to understand, but to reply."

She listens to everyone so patiently, whether Dev or Ishwari. . Or even be Rhea,Nikki . . Sonakshi always listens them venting their feelings out,without judging them. She actually tries to understand them. Dev feels relaxed after a long day..after a casual chat with her..because she listens. To understand.

Everyone needs acceptance and approval of their thoughts.

This was the reason when Ishwari,inspite of being cold with Sonakshi, unintentionally shares her sadness regarding Dev not sitting for the hawan.

I was wondering why Ishwari was not convincing Dev enough for the pooja, and why Dev was not obeying her orders here. Got the answer today. She believes she is responsible for distancing him from his beliefs and God..and she herself doesn't want him to convince him,maybe?

Did you notice the pride in her eyes when Sona said, "Wo apko poojte hai"😕

Sona's reply was so good, but Ishwari maate deviated again when she realised that She was taking Dev's side.

About Mami, the less said..the better.

Sona knows how to knead the dough? 😲Didn't know that..😆She is genuinely trying to gel with Ishwari. Felt bad for her there.

Dev came home only to find Sona home. That little bit where he comes and Sona is waiting him, gave me hubby-wifey vibes literally.

The most awaited Head-champi. .it was way tooo sweet and Short.😆

Dev is amazed to know that Sonakshi reads his articles and keeps a track of his achievements and steps as well. That she is so interested in him. Loved that bit. As if they are still getting to know new things about each other every day. It is very necessary to avoid being stagnant.😳

When Dev said,

"Mai sirf baatein nahi karna chahta, mai to. . "

What was he trying to say there?😕 Could not register it😆.

He changed the topic there.

Then Sona convincing Dev to sit for the pooja. Don't you find this very relatable? I am a religious person myself, and quite come across atheists regularly. . It is actually quite difficult to debate on the topic whether God exists or not. Glad that Sona just wanted him to sit there and wasn't trying to change his beliefs, which is quite impossible in a day.

Answers one or two posts in the forum about the apprehension of changing Dev's beliefs.

Oh yes, we also saw a Ranveer snapping at Neha today, Neha was no where wrong. . poor girl can't even word what she feels?

It is just RV 's own guilt of not being capable enough to keep Neha happy..that is speaking there. Not his love. Hope things wont turn worse.


So we will get a Hug tomorrow, 😳and Dev coming for pooja. (Dev Sonakshi really complete each other, hope Ishwari sees that.)

Nothing else , right?

P.S. still can't get over the sbs segment.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ..BhUvaNa

Beautiful post 👍🏼 .

Thank you dear😊
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Lovely post! You have mentioned all my feelings... GKB Ka Interrogation got my heart pumping fast fast!
Chumpy too short for my liking... I hope their hug tmrw is longer!
Also me too can't get over the SBS segment :-D

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Originally posted by: EJF_FAN

Lovely post! You have mentioned all my feelings... GKB Ka Interrogation got my heart pumping fast fast!
Chumpy too short for my liking... I hope their hug tmrw is longer!
Also me too can't get over the SBS segment :-D

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Thank you dear😊
I can't wait to see that GKB's face when she knows that Dev loves Sona and Ishwari has approved. That will be the best response to her insults..What will be her reaction, imagine😆

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Awesome post

I've noticed Ishwari whenever she comes down on Sona she tries very quickly to make make up too and one can see that Ishwari is not a mean person and I'm really looking forward to seeing their relationship their bond in the future
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jade0001

Awesome post


I've noticed Ishwari whenever she comes down on Sona she tries very quickly to make make up too and one can see that Ishwari is not a mean person and I'm really looking forward to seeing their relationship their bond in the future

Thanks😊
Agree, I am very eager too. . Ishwari is a lady highly dominatd by Impulsive emotions.
Her character is such that even during her superrude attitude there will be inner turmoil questioning her own actions.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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beautiful post good analysis👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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👏 well put thoughts!!! 👏
"Dev came home only to find Sona home. That little bit where he comes and Sona is waiting him, gave me hubby-wifey vibes literally."

Sona's this silent waiting said many of her unsaid things that she might have wanted to tell.. Dev must have understood it.. He sat there to listen to her.. Seeing him tired she didn't want to bombard immediately.. Sometimes on seeing your loved ones many issues/confusions that you wanted to share would just vanish.. Being there with them at that moment makes it all go away... Just like that the past is forgotten leaving you live in the present... Be in the moment!!!!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Well written!! Lovely post ...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Very well said.. I agree with everything you've written.. the entire Ishwari Sonakshi convo was a reflection of everything Ishwari needs to do herself instead of advising others..
I feel constantly bad for Sonakshi in almost all the scenes except the RR one.. RR crossed a line today, and Dev's gf or not, she shouldn't have taken it lying down.. I don't want Dev or Ishwari to defend sona's honour.. she can do it very well on her own.. at least that's what we thought from the intial episodes.. I hope this type of scene is not repeated in the future by the CVs..
Coming to your doubt about the Devakshi convo, I posted this on some other thread as there was the same doubt there as well, copying it here..
Even I was confused for a moment.. But my guess would be that he was gonna say sirf aap se baat hi nai.. aapki advice/approval lena chahta tha.. like he said in yesterday's episode.. that he wants to take her approval in all matters but then stopped because he remembered his mother's words.. I think Ishwari's words have really unsettled him more than he lets on.. and he's in a dilemma coz he can't share this with Sonakshi as well, the one person with whom he can share anything, for the fear that she might get hurt by Ishwari's words..
Let's wait.. I guess the CVs might clear it up for us in the coming episodes..
Lovely post dear.. keep continuing your analysis!

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