Why Divorce is given more importance in KKB..?

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Marriage-Divorce-2nd marriage-Divorce- Remarriage? Hmmm... Kulsum, doesn't this sound just too much to wrap our head around?

Marriage is a promise we make to ourselves and our life partner in front of our loved ones. Marriage is cherished as a relationship above others because this is a relationship which has several other relationships rolled into one. Often we have a friend who listens and advises us, a sibling who supports and protects us, a parent who loves us and a soulmate who gives us immense comfort, ALL rolled into one. It is not about symbols, kumkum, ms, toe rings etc, etc...

Coming to the show, Abhi-Pragya are deeply in love with each other, protect/support each other and cannot let go of each other. If they have fallen out of love or have irrevocable differences,and THEY want out then, there simply is no point in staying married. Doesn't matter whether she wears kumkum, ms or performs rituals . The last two times ( sorry guys, I am losing count ) their marriage went down this path is NOT because either Abhi-Pragya wanted to separate but because someone else didn't want them to stay married 🤢. I do not care what the someone elses' intentions are. Either one of them didn't initiate the divorce proceedings. I think this is one of the reasons why some of us oppose this divorce deal.

Another reason is that the show has handled Abhi's signing of divorce papers immaturely. The reason he signed is because he is mad/hurt because he received signed divorce papers and Pragya won't talk to him🤢?Imagine if we are in Abhi's place, won't we first get hold of the spouse, give them a few whacks for sending us signed papers without discussion, talk and then decide what to do? Sorry guys, I do not condone domestic abuse😉, just speaking figuratively. Will we not invest that much of our energy into the relationship before we give up? This is highly offensive from my stand point.

Unfortunately, as with most cultural practices, when applied to large masses, the true meaning of marriage is buried deeply and the superficial, worthless rituals and customs ( kumkum, ms etc ) come to the fore. This show feeds the masses with this nonsense and somehow makes it sound as if fighting for one's kumkum is an utmost priority. This is why when I first saw the name of the show, I may have made a mental derogatory remark for myself, but what to do the drunken Chashmish-Abhi pulled me in😳

Now coming to 2nd marriage with villain, divorce, remarriage between Abhi-Pragya seems too far fetched. If we are to go with the show's principle that kumkum is the utmost bhagya, how does one go about deciding whose kumkum is more stronger? 😲😲. I don't want a fight between two kumkums, I think now I am talking nonsense. They are showing us how difficult it is to get a divorce from a gentle Pragya, imagine how difficult it would be to get a divorce from the obsessed YKW even if Abhi wants to divorce🤢

I have much more to say, but will stop now. Interesting point to debate, Kulsum. Again strictly my view point, please don't get offended.

Beware girl, you may have some heated discussions on hand😃

Edited by mili9 - 9 years ago