Originally posted by: HayemeraSarun
I never hated her from the start of the show...I toh...have seen women treating their nephew and neice as sautele kids...but this is not the case with Suman...she has really a secure childhood...though it may not be emotionally very well supported...but never is Mami shown to be complaining about how she had to raise a child that was not her own...Suman has been given complete freedom for her career and her job timings...We have never seen her seeking permission from Elders for going out ...even at night...Even Preeti has not been given so much freedom...also Mami never complains as to why Rachna is living in their home and doesnot shift elsewhere...She is harsh sometimes but every human has a liking for money and so has she...We have often seen people taunting others even for a few thousnds...and here toh...it is the case of lakhs...And that too...the lended money...After all, noo ne likes to see their money lost...even among relations...
Also, she hardly discriminates or brainwashes her own children against Sumo...she in fact loves the bond of the siblings...And I feel...she is a good house maker and a good D-I-L too...for she nearly obeys Nanu everytime without much complains and that is something good when you have such eldely ppl in home...We normally hear so many wives fighting with their husbands to get sparated and all that crap stuff...So...For me...She is a good HUMAN...with her own shades...Atleast she never plots...Whatever she is, she is out in the open...