How would u want ishra to mend their relationship?

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Posted: 9 years ago
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To begin with I request not to make this a ishita v/s raman or KP v/dt war.

The cvs have always dealt with even the serious of issues like rape/child abuse/infertility etc with a very casual approach and have given a funny or childish ending to it.

We cannot change much about what they want to show but still
I would like to know in brief what are ur thoughts on how should ishra as mature adults solve the mess they have created.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't want much from the CVs. But it would be nice to get even one decent conversation on where they both went through and clearly speaking out how it's been in the last 7 years for them would be a delight. On top of that if we could get them to handle the subject of taking everything slowly with Pihu and Ruhi's relationships with Ishita and both of them respectively, it would be cherry on the cake and enough for me to catch on up the episodes for their reunion. Oh and if all of this happened without tying anyone up or having the family force them into a conversation, that would be like a whole cherry tree on the cake. 😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with Prabh

They can focus on getting Ruhi back now and even near separation

But one conversation - one honest conversation

Sparked by whatever

But a conversation where Ishita makes her hurt heard

A conversation where Raman explains how he's lived in regret

It won't fix everything as words and actions aren't easily forgotten

But a plan to heal - be it some time apart

A plan to tell Pihu without infringing on Shagun's "rights" (until she snaps)

A plan to love their kids yet focus on each other

It's idealistic and near impossible on a show where bondage for appologizes, repeated OTT crass dialogs, and so on tend to overshadow the honest emotion that is there somewhere deep in the show
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

I agree with Prabh

They can focus on getting Ruhi back now and even near separation

But one conversation - one honest conversation

Sparked by whatever

But a conversation where Ishita makes her hurt heard

A conversation where Raman explains how he's lived in regret

It won't fix everything as words and actions aren't easily forgotten

But a plan to heal - be it some time apart

A plan to tell Pihu without infringing on Shagun's "rights" (until she snaps)

A plan to love their kids yet focus on each other

It's idealistic and near impossible on a show where bondage for appologizes, repeated OTT crass dialogs, and so on tend to overshadow the honest emotion that is there somewhere deep in the show


Thx for the reply.
I agree Krishy...but don't u think the parts in bold have already been visited I agree if not fully but ishita 's outburst in the hospital after the aslimaa thingy and then Raman outside the police station and recently during the safety pin scene he has made it clear what he went through in the 7 yearsđŸ„±

Though I too want a proper conversation between the two minus the Haddis but I doubt if the makers will follow that route.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarsyed



Thx for the reply.
I agree Krishy...but don't u think the parts in bold have already been visited I agree if not fully but ishita 's outburst in the hospital after the aslimaa thingy and then Raman outside the police station and recently during the safety pin scene he has made it clear what he went through in the 7 yearsđŸ„±

Though I too want a proper conversation between the two minus the Haddis but I doubt if the makers will follow that route.



They have been voiced but to me right now both have spoken to an audience that wasn't hearing entirely...they hear bits and pieces that fit in their current mind set. That's why we still have this status quo with little changes
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Prabh.

I don't want much from the CVs. But it would be nice to get even one decent conversation on where they both went through and clearly speaking out how it's been in the last 7 years for them would be a delight. On top of that if we could get them to handle the subject of taking everything slowly with Pihu and Ruhi's relationships with Ishita and both of them respectively, it would be cherry on the cake and enough for me to catch on up the episodes for their reunion. Oh and if all of this happened without tying anyone up or having the family force them into a conversation, that would be like a whole cherry tree on the cake. 😳


Thanks for replying prabh.
Word to what I said but don't u think they firstly need to apologise to each other for the terrible couple they have been and for once think about them and then about pihu and ruhi also in all this the focus on adi is nil ...I agree for now ruhi needs more attention but adi too has been neglected though he is a grown up now for most of the time he has got what was forced upon him by his parents unlike pihu
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sarsyed


Thanks for replying prabh.
Word to what I said but don't u think they firstly need to apologise to each other for the terrible couple they have been and for once think about them and then about pihu and ruhi also in all this the focus on adi is nil ...I agree for now ruhi needs more attention but adi too has been neglected though he is a grown up now for most of the time he has got what was forced upon him by his parents unlike pihu

Hey Sarsyed, hope that's your name. I for sure think that they need to apologize and that will work into that conversation I mentioned because once these two completely open up to each other, there is no way the other won't be apologizing to the other. And the children are for sure important, but I guess I forgot to mention after their conversation and them understanding the other's pain that it would be nice to see them work together for their children. Sorry about that.

And about Adi, I think he has matured a lot before and after the leap & he's turned out to be a great guy, but with their daughters, Pihu doesn't know her real mother which is a huge problem for IshRa and Ruhi is scarred deeply and that's also a priority, so as important as Adi is, I feel like their daughter should be put together as Adi would already be so happy to see parents get back together!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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IshRa & mature adults.. It sounds as oxymoron to my ears...😛

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