Raman will never realise his mistake he's still blaming ishita huh

Originally posted by: DivianTanz_Divz

Copy pasting my comment from other thread.

And, what about his promises? He broke all the promises he made to Ishita with dhamaka.. Whenever he makes promise, seems like he intends to break those only. So, promise thing and his expectations regarding Ishita coming from his mouth seemed only like cruel joke, nothing else.

And, his POV.. I know, many will melt down as I have seen in this forum all feeling his assumed pain by their own assumptions, but does his POV really justify the pain he is giving to Ishita??? Love is not really about hurting the loved ones just because you are hurt, love is about taking even the pains of your loves ones in yourself.. and from that angle, Raman doesn't seem to have any ounce of love for Ishita at this moment.

Originally posted by: -Anku-

I am an IshRa fan so will speak for both and not one. The thing is I don't like Ishita not telling Raman that his words were also instrumental in pushing her away, I also don't like that Raman blamed Ishita and said words he shouldn't have said.

But I am not going to blame him for being hurt about losing his people, his family. The thing is that Ishita was herself guilty that day too and she doesn't speak back and tell him she left because of him because somewhere she holds herself responsible too. She shouldn't but she does. Because that is how a parent is. Coming to Raman, he in his drunken state and even when alert has made it obvious that he has been living with the guilt of pushing her to her death, but Raman had come to believe that no matter what Ishita would stay with him, and history wouldn't repeat for him, but it did and THAT fact clouds his better judgement and although he knows better he doesn't acknowledge.

So as unhappy I am with things these two do and don't I am not going to blame them for having feelings that aren't totally black or totally white. Because grey does exist. And they both have been shown to keep promises and sacrifice and love with a passion.

A lot of times they put the leads charcaters at stake to justify their tracks, be the bhoot track or surrogacy or then this leap. So some or the other character will always come in the line of fire and we can't help it. That doesn't take away the better times they showed.

Originally posted by: -Anku-

I am an IshRa fan so will speak for both and not one. The thing is I don't like Ishita not telling Raman that his words were also instrumental in pushing her away, I also don't like that Raman blamed Ishita and said words he shouldn't have said.

But I am not going to blame him for being hurt about losing his people, his family. The thing is that Ishita was herself guilty that day too and she doesn't speak back and tell him she left because of him because somewhere she holds herself responsible too. She shouldn't but she does. Because that is how a parent is. Coming to Raman, he in his drunken state and even when alert has made it obvious that he has been living with the guilt of pushing her to her death, but Raman had come to believe that no matter what Ishita would stay with him, and history wouldn't repeat for him, but it did and THAT fact clouds his better judgement and although he knows better he doesn't acknowledge.

So as unhappy I am with things these two do and don't I am not going to blame them for having feelings that aren't totally black or totally white. Because grey does exist. And they both have been shown to keep promises and sacrifice and love with a passion.

A lot of times they put the leads charcaters at stake to justify their tracks, be the bhoot track or surrogacy or then this leap. So some or the other character will always come in the line of fire and we can't help it. That doesn't take away the better times they showed.

Originally posted by: DivianTanz_Divz

@bold.. Ishita clearly said her reasons of leaving him, committing suicide and not returning to him in the hpspital scene when Pihu fell sick. Still, if he doesn't remember or understand why she left.. nothing can be hoped from this insensitive person😆.

Originally posted by: -Anku-

She did and that was one of my favourite scenes. She said and he heard, but Raman is always someone who lives in denials, which is what he is doing now. Shouts so much that the saner voice in his mind that points out his mistakes can't be heard. He isn't right, I hope you don't think that's what I am saying.

On the same day she spoke about Pihu, saying that she could file for the custody if she wanted. And the man whose lost a kid already and also a family didn't look beyond that. He was in a fear of losing Pihu if you see that entire episode. That's all that there was in his mind. But whatever I say is going to look like me covering up for him or siding him which isn't the case. I don't reason Raman because I love him more and Ishita any less, but because I root for IshRa and anyone who does will like to look at both point of views. Ishita's are loud and clear, Raman's will only come over a lot of time. So people try and reason and find positive.