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Posted: 9 years ago
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I have always liked Anita for the fact that she is the man of her house. She is independent working woman who has a brain of her own and Vibhu struggles a lot to convince her most of the times. I have justified her behavior whenever she has been rude to VIbhu because at the end of the day Vibhu is deliberately out of work. She doesn't want her husband to do the household chores but its Vibhu's choice .

But during this recent track when the Kanpur city was boiling and suddenly Air coolers and ACs were out of market her behaviour made no sense. I agree heat does make you cranky but why was she blaming Vibhu for that ? Is it the first summer of Kanpur ? Or did he knew that coolers and Acs will have such huge demand ?

I found Anita very unreasonable in this particular track. She cannot sleep so she will not let VIbhu sleep either. Kya logic hai !!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you. I think it was the red irritation on her face that was making her unreasonable. And of course the presence of David Mishra in the house did not help
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anita is mean ! Many times she comes across as a jerk. Like when vibhu was doing a juice bar business she deliberately spoiled it. I felt really bad for Vibhu then.

May be she has seen Vibhu as a charmer and topper in college, so she can't settle for such low business.

Many a times she encourages Tiwari to act against vibhu. Although she does kachra of Tiwari too.




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Posted: 9 years ago
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Anita has big issue with Vibhu doing anything against her wish. She asks him to take a peon's job in office but has problem with the juice bar.
In another scene she used Vibhu's phone because hers was discharged. WHen he resisted she reminded him that she has bought that phone for him. I mean how mean can you be. Only because you gifted him that phone doesn't means he cannot say NO. By that logic Tiwari can wear Angoori's ghagra cholis because after all he bought them.😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Women will never stop putting their man down if he's financially dependent on them. So much for equality.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: ibnbattuta

Women will never stop putting their man down if he's financially dependent on them. So much for equality.

Hmmm.. I would say don't generalize. it varies from people to people. Traditionally in our culture men are supposed to earn and run the house but many a times their egos also get wounded if a women is earning more than men.

Also have seen too many cases where woman have no say in spending money or investing money even though it may be their own hard earned money. And this happens with most educated well to do men.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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^^ I was talking about Anita and some other women as well. Not all women are like this, sure. And a lot of men have big egos too and cannot cope if their wife is more successful than them. I mean look at ABJr. Aishwarya makes so many efforts to make him feel comfortable and yet he has issues.
But in this show, Anita keeps chiding Vibhu about his unemployed status and yet she ruins whatever business of his becomes successful. Anita needs to make up her mind first.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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^sorry for being off topic but Abhishek has issues ? I always thought of him as a sorted man. I would like to give him benefit of doubt still, sometimes media can ask such annoying questions to instigate purposely and anyone can loose cool. Also media can project anyone in any way they want.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I don't have much problem after wat we all saw in other shows. In other shows, d heroes torture, insult n manhandle heroines. They even don't let them wear western clothes n do jobs as it will hurt their egos n they think dat their wives will have affairs behind their back. At least, Anita wants Vibhu to work. If both do jobs then Anita will share d household chores wid Vibhu. At least Anita is better than so-called heroes 4m many shows especially d shows of dis show channel only. I hope I don't need to tell d names of those shows. I get irritated wid Anita sometimes especially during dat juice thing but still she is not really very bad. I think Anita's character is a compensation for all d jerk heroes who r shown to demean d heroines in d most horrible ways where they luk like villains.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: angel_juhi04

I don't have much problem after wat we all saw in other shows. In other shows, d heroes torture, insult n manhandle heroines. They even don't let them wear western clothes n do jobs as it will hurt their egos n they think dat their wives will have affairs behind their back. At least, Anita wants Vibhu to work. If both do jobs then Anita will share d household chores wid Vibhu. At least Anita is better than so-called heroes 4m many shows especially d shows of dis show channel only. I hope I don't need to tell d names of those shows. I get irritated wid Anita sometimes especially during dat juice thing but still she is not really very bad. I think Anita's character is a compensation for all d jerk heroes who r shown to demean d heroines in d most horrible ways where they luk like villains.

That wasn't the point Juhi. Two wrong doesn't make a right.
Also, I like the character of Anita otherwise. I said I justify her attitude . I am talkig about one particualar track only. . Vibhu is responsible for hell lot of things but he doesn't control the heat.

@ Ibntuta, We have no idea about Aishwariya- Abhishek's marital life. Lets not discuss it here.

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