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Having seen so many Ishita-Ruhi vs Shagun-Pihu posts, my thoughts also started swirling...
If we focus on what the upcoming track could be, lots of people seem to think that Ruhi-Ishita and Pihu-Shagun situation is the same, however, there are a few very obvious differences that are either so obvious that we aren't paying attention to them, or the are just being simply ignored.
When Ishita met Ruhi, Ruhi knew that Ishita wasn't her real mum and that her biological mum was somewhere out there. Ruhi wanted to meet her mother but Shagun was not interested in Ruhi at all. She remembered that Ruhi was her daughter when there was another chance of hurting Raman, when AshGun saw it as an opportunity to torture Raman. Even after gaining Ruhi (for the short period of time before Ishra's Marriage) she was all prepared to put little Ruh into boarding school, like her Adi Bhaiya.
Pihu, on the other hand, believes that Shagun is her biological mum, married to her dad, like any normal family is. She has no idea, even in her wildest thoughts that the "Haar Wali Aunty", whose name she doesnt know as yet, is her relative, and that too such a close one... her Mother. And we all will agree that, given the chance that Pihu comes with Ishu, there is no chance that Ishu wont treat her like a chunk of her heart. In my opinion, Pihu and Ruhi do not travel in the same boat, so deciding which mother does/doesn't deserve which daughter would be unfair...
OK, I agree Ishita leaving Pihu was a wrong step.. the only wrong Ishu did in this whole fiasco, tbh, but Ishu leaving Pihu and Shagun leaving Ruhi were two extremely different scenarios! One left her daughter due to heartbreak of losing another daughter, while one left her daughter as she was blinded by the love of another man.
As far as Shagun is concerned, she doesnt need to be married to Raman to be Pihu's mother. Even she is well aware of the fact that Ishita is not like her, and if she were to return to the house, She would never ever try to seperate Pihu and Shagun... unlike Shagun, keeping in mind the uncountable and unforgivable things Shagun has done to seperate IshRu, ranging from fraud to emotionally blackmailing Adi to kidnapping!
And I personally think, somewhere or the other that Shagun actually does deserve it too... Now I might face a lot of hate with people disagreeing with me here, but hey, you dont have to agree with me..!
Retracing the steps of YHM, Shagun was shown to be horribly evil, use her son against firstly Raman and then Ishita (when she wanted to return into Raman's life), to losing her son's trust, moving to Mumbai, away from everything... No doubt, she turned a new leaf, and changed, but she was never actually shown making it up to all those she wronged, for making their lives a living her... She was shown feeling guilty and apologising, and then that was it... Shagun's cleared...!
She realised her mistakes, but not her faults... which is why she's now retracing her old habits, using Pihu to "keep Raman and Ishita apart" (her own words) and not to keep her daughter with her...
Well, anyway, this was all just my point... And just to add, that I've been a silent participant of this forum for quite a while and must say, it is a very light-hearted and humourous place! So many posts her make me laugh out and its a pleasure to be a spectator! SO Good Job people!! ❤️
