Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got !!!

The quotes... I would rather be alone with dignity than in a relationship that requires me to sacrifice my self respect. Never beg for a relationship. Be brave to accept the one who really wants to be with you...and reject the one who just pretends to be with you. Don't lower your standards for anyone or anything. Self respect is everything...hold true.

What you think of yourself is much more important than what people think of you...after all you are the one to lead, live your life not people. Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket. People will come and go in your life, but the person in the mirror will be there forever...so be good to yourself. If you allow people to make withdrawals than deposits n your life, you will soon be in the negative. Know when to close the account.

Always be a first rate version of yourself and not a second rate version of someone else. Avoid negative people, for they are the greatest destroyers of self confidence and self esteem. Surround yourself with people who bring out the best in you.

The quotes ...Respect yourself enough to walk away for anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy. They cannot take away our self respect if we do not give it to them (Mahatma Gandhi). Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there is no love. Without trust, there is no reason to continue.

Don't lose your dignity and self respect trying to make people love and appreciate you, when they just aren't capable. Cutting people from your life doesn't mean you hate them, it simply means you respect yourself, do not tolerate disrespect not even from yourself...Self respect knows no considerations...holds true.

Dhani was right in saying when people in AN don't respect her be it including Viplav how can she expect her child to be given respect. She has always been humiliated over and over she still kept quite as she had only hope in viplav...but when viplav himself considers her as a mistake ( even if it was misunderstood by Dhani ) then what is the purpose for her to stay in AN.

Day and night she is treated like a doormat and dirt by the people how can she bring up her child in such a pathetic circumstances...there are many such real life cases where the husbands family cause domestic violence be it physical or emotional abuse how can the child be brought up in such an environment and what is the guarantee that child shall be grow up to be healthy be it mentally or physically ??

True that Dhani's situation has become worse day by day due to the misunderstandings created purposefully by Km but her situation is nothing less as well. People wont bring up fingers at the culprit, they will point out at the mother here in this case Dhani ...but it is after all Dhani who has to look after her child and take all the responsibility of a child alone being the child father as well as mother.

Dhani is lucky to have Ashram ladies and more importantly her mother who stands by her through thick and thin...she is ready to go where ever Dhani wishes to go...it is not just the case of self respect for Dhani herself but she will have to be strong to raise a very strong child in the future and for that no mother will sacrifice her child's happiness...same is the case with Dulari Mai as well.

It is better to avoid negative people who are ever ready to destroy your life and won't let you live in peace ...Dhani herself made a good decision, with people like DT, Kanak,TP and km who are hell bent on killing her there is absolutely safety neither for her nor for her child.

The safety for a child is what all that matters for any mother and a mother can fight the world to protect her child, who will her strength not her weakness...that is the strength no power on the earth can snatch it away from a mother.

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I dedicate this TOTD to all the beautiful mothers in the forum who work real hard day and night to just see a smile on their child's face ...the sacrifices they have to make just to keep their children happy and content ...mere tahe dil se pranam aap sab ko 👏

Self respect is the most important for anyone. Any Dhani learned to fight for her self respect from no other than her beloved Viplav.

Hello Captkirk 😊...good to see you...thank you for reading and sharing your view...true self respect is very significant for any person and dhani did learn it from viplav but situations did make her strong and today irrespective of viplav being there by her side or not she is going to respect herself more and she has taken a very much required decision to bring her child on her own...Till then take care.

Wonderful post 👏

I am proud of Dhani..and of every woman who stands for her self ..I felt the same way in a period of my life too. marriage and motherhood aren't easy. There will be new ppl in a woman's life who can make her feel bad. if she wasn't strong enough ..she'll be destroyed.

Hello Awida 😊 ...welcome dear ...good to see you ...thank you for reading and sharing your view...True agree with you, a woman who can stand up for herself is the biggest gift she can gift herself...very much proud of Dhani and DL as well who raised dhani very well...Yes marriages and bringing up children is a very big task in itself...Till then take care.

Swati superb quotes dear.. I agree Dhani made me proud today.. her self respects is her character's great strength frm day1.. n how she stood by today for her child's upbringing n safety concerns. . I loved her to the core n Eisha was brilliant there man.. she was top notch in portraying the motherly concerns in tat scenes yara..
I agree she instantly becme sherni after watching Viplov who was her last hope.. n how she emerged frm that hopelessness like ray of light was absolutely amazing. I want her to do this much earlier bt better late than never..😳
Thanx dear fr ur effort.. u write 2 2 totd with so much affection frsus n fr ikrs.. love u fr tat..😳

Hello Nuss 😊 ...good to see you again...thank you for reading and sharing your view...yes Dhani was at her best today for her child's sake...yes Eisha was outstanding today 👏 ... she was patient before but couldn't take it when she lost all the hope form viplav now...she has always been a sherni from the beginning 😊 me glad to see DL by her side always no matter what DL was at her best as well...this is a social message as well who knows how many cases like this actually exist as well 😲...and the pain those mothers have to go thorough they alone know it...Till then take care.

Swathi,

Sudha will be back in some time...Haan dear mujhe sab amma logon ka naam nahi pata na 😆 isiliye jab mothers ka topic aya toh yaha dedicate karna chahti thi. 😃

Wise pearlji,
Again a beautiful post..
Compromise to karna padta hain.
Cz we dont always live for ourselves.
We just cant walk away when other people r involved.
If dhani had milder issues she wouldn't have left viplab.
She could tolerate d torture of her in laws.
But she had to think, no child can b brought up properly in such poisonous environment.
So she needs to walk away.
But there r certain points of life where someone has to choose, a little touch of compromise brings peace in life. We dont always find peace being us.we need to make choices.