Don't compromise yourself. You are all you've got !!! - Page 2

Hello Joya 😊...good to see you ...thank you for reading and sharing your view...yes dear I did keep in mind of Dhani's present situation and said she needs to give importance to her self respect...yes we humans do need to make some compromises in our lives I agree unless the situation is worst or going completely out of our hand ... I agree we always cant have our way when we involve people in our lives...here the situation is deadly her life is in danger people are ready to kill her and there is no other option but to bring safety for herself and her child...in such polluted environment no way a child can be healthy hence she chose to leave and bring the child by herself...Till then take care.

hi swathi .. haven'tturned in yet dhani ke jane ka ghum uppar se had such a backlog of comments to reply to thought since there was no episode on Sunday I'd best do some work.. fantastic post as usual full of wise sayings that apply to life and attiudes in general.. You point out well the trait of self respect.. its to do with one's mindset and how they lead and deal with life. Self respect is to do with integrity , beilive in one's own strength and abilities , self esteem and self worth..the episode it self a fine example of amother and daughter..dhani draws her strength in such distraughts times from her mother , her grief , her faith value... and self reliance ..and her mother supports her all the way though ,great you dedicated it to mothers who look out for their child.. verymoving post and thanks for your on going committent to give us inspiring thoughts.. waiting for a fesh one..much love hammie

The
quotes... I would rather be alone with dignity than in a relationship that
requires me to sacrifice my self respect. Never beg for a relationship. Be brave
to accept the one who really wants to be with you...and reject the one who just
pretends to be with you. Don't lower your standards for anyone or anything.
Self respect is everything...hold true.

What you think of yourself is much more
important than what people think of you...after all you are the one to lead, live
your life not people. Don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's
pocket. People will come and go in your life, but the person in the mirror will
be there forever...so be good to yourself. If you allow people to make
withdrawals than deposits n your life, you will soon be in the negative. Know
when to close the account.

Always be a first rate version of yourself
and not a second rate version of someone else. Avoid negative people, for they
are the greatest destroyers of self confidence and self esteem. Surround
yourself with people who bring out the best in you.

The quotes ...Respect yourself enough to walk
away for anything that no longer serves you, grows you or makes you happy. They
cannot take away our self respect if we do not give it to them (Mahatma
Gandhi). Without communication there is no relationship. Without respect there
is no love. Without trust, there is no reason to continue.

Don't lose your dignity and self respect
trying to make people love and appreciate you, when they just aren't capable.
Cutting people from your life doesn't mean you hate them, it simply means you
respect yourself, do not tolerate disrespect not even from yourself...Self respect knows no considerations...holds true.

Hi Pearl,
As always, you come up with such pearls of wisdom and right there when we need it the most! Again, can't help but see the resemblance of your empowering words that applies to both Dhani on reel life and more importantly to Eisha on real life. Eisha has earned her respect as an actress through her sheer diligence and when such hard work is not appreciated by the PH, it is best she puts her self respect foremost and has the courage to walk out on something that no longer serves her growth and happiness which you point out beautifully. It must have been a tough decision for her to cut herself from IKRS but the people for whom she worked were no longer capable to give her the dignity she deserved, so she had to close the account with them to put a stop to their unwarranted withdrawal that she no longer could tolerate.I loved this line" People will come and go in your life but the person in the mirror will be there forever..so be good to yourself." We all have to learn to be our own best friend and not be the self critical judge that prevents us from living our life to the max.True, without trust there is no reason to continue and so she didn't compromise herself for such breach of trust from PH, after all as you quite rightly said in your title" You are all you've got". Many thanks for another insightful post that helps me make sense of the recent development.

Hello Hammie 😊...good to see you...thank you for reading and sharing your view...sry for the delay yaar...True dhani gathers her strength from dulari who always stood by her through thick and thin...as a mother neither can dhani let down her nor can dulari ... they have considered their child to be their strength rather than weakness...and situations made dhani to rely on her own strength... and she is there to her best to her child in the future...The episode was beatuiful thanks to Eisha who did a splendid performance..God bless her...Till then take care.

Hello Kaju 😊...good to see you ...thank you for reading and sharing your view...Agree with each and every word of yours...never expected the episode to be ES's last one...she gave in her best ...and her value wasn't known by the PH who resorted to senseless methods...Eisha does deserve much better and she will get much better offers and a much better PH in her future...Her self respect was very important and she did make a very good decision to quit rather than staying...what is the purpose of even staying...nothing...our best wishes are with her and hopefully we will get to see her soon ...Till then take care.

hey swati...was travelling so late entry...thankyou for writing everyday with so much dedication...very apt always be a first rate version of urself and not a second rate version of someone else...afterall self respect is everything...i really liked this version of dhani ...by no means she was going to compromise on her self respect nd dont wants her child to be raised in such environment where they both will never get any respect...let alone face all hardships...this was reel ...talking about real life...good eisha walked away maintaining her self respect and dignity...thankyou for such a insightful post...take care ...😃

one more thing which i wanted to add ...missed aap logon ki baatein...was getting used to it...mujhe bht accha lagta saari baatein padhne mein😆...pr main koi ganda waali stalker nhi hoon...😆

Wow👏...love u...Thanks for the TOTD...KEEP WRITING...MOTHER IS THE SELFLESS PERSON IN THE WORLD...SHE CAN DO ANYTHING FOR HER KIDS ...

Hello Neha 😊...good to see you...thank you for reading and sharing your view...no problem come in when ever you are free...True dear she is very unsafe and shall never recieve any respect in AN ...in fact she will humiliated day and night so with carrying that stress how can she build a healthy environment for her child ...so it was better for her to leave...It in fact applied to Eisha as well unfortunately in such toxic environment in the sets where she had to face so much she made a best decision to leave after all its not the only Ph in the entire world...her self respect is much more valuable and she will find much better Ph's who know how to treat her well...Till then take care.

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