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Posted: 9 years ago
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I feel the need to write this, I'm sure it is not my place given I left this forum months ago due to lack of interest in this show. It's bittersweet... to look back at Kunj and Twinkle whom I adored and realize that they don't make me smile, or giddy like before. Anyways, despite leaving the forum, I always came by to read the posts as a silent reader. I was SHOCKED to see that Sidhant Gupta will be leaving this show...and to see the hostility among members due to differing opinions. It is childish and just unkind.

Sidhant doesn't owe anyone anything. I think it's really immature to ask him to stay in a show, a character merely because you like that character or show. Yes, you are a fan and yes you have a right to be upset but you have NO right to act as if you own a actor's career. Many claim to unconditionally love him...unconditional love does not mean love only when you are in a character or show I like...it means support for all his endeavors. Yes, you may not think his new project is worth it or successful but true support indicates making him aware and supporting him through his decision.

Sidhant believes this next project is big for him. He is clearly distressed, though, at his outlook. Now is NOT the time to add more stress to his life. An actor is an artist, a performer who has the FULL right to experiment and explore with their artist capabilities even if it means changing shows.

With that being said, despite leaving this show, I do have a soft spot for Kunj so I will miss seeing him as Kunj. However, thinking practically, there is only so much that can occur in this show so perhaps it is time for him to move on to different projects.

Of course, this isn't meant to attack anyone but I know many will come at me so...I shall wait for that with a fitting reply in mind.

- Meghana

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Meg! Long time dude, hope you're well.

I have nothing to say on this topic anymore tbh, I'm over the initial shock and hurt and I wish Sid all the best in his life. I'll always love him. The forum is so chaotic, I actually avoid it at the best of times these days. Aah well, all good things come to an end right?

Nice to hear from you, even if it is under these circumstances 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Tranquility123

Hey Meg! Long time dude, hope you're well.

I have nothing to say on this topic anymore tbh, I'm over the initial shock and hurt and I wish Sid all the best in his life. I'll always love him. The forum is so chaotic, I actually avoid it at the best of times these days. Aah well, all good things come to an end right?

Nice to hear from you, even if it is under these circumstances 😆


^^ same pinch nemo!! literally have nothing else to add 😆
and Meg so nice to see you on the forum again (even though it's under such bleh circumstances)! :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Omg dude I missed you! Unfortunate that you returned (for momentary purposes) under such chaotic circumstances but feelings are mutual. It's absolutely astounding to see people I interacted with on a daily basis take such a sharp turn as to be criticizing Sidhant's choices & also calling out others on not being "real fans." TBH I should've expected the divisions in the fandom but the IF fam bam has always been so amazing, it came as a blow.

My opinions remain the same. As a fangirl, no I'm not over it because for me Sidhant brought Kunj Sarna to life & I feel it unfair that we don't get a happy ending with SidMin. BUT that does not mean I blame Sid- he obviously deserves better with his talent and whatever his new project will be, I'll follow it for him. I blame the PH for all the underlying problems. So while the fangirl of Tashan-E-Ishq is still pretty upset like man I'm upset LOL, the practical person in me is very happy for Sid. To see him posting about him being in emotional distress sucks, hope all the confusion is aired out soon so confirmations can make this forum stop being so fighty.

Now whenever I do have the courage to rewatch old Twinj scenes & I come across song sequences, I will read your posts again haha, they were awesome!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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^^^ Wow when I don't add "LOL" or an emoji to every sentence; it doesn't sound like me 😆
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

Omg dude I missed you! Unfortunate that you returned (for momentary purposes) under such chaotic circumstances but feelings are mutual. It's absolutely astounding to see people I interacted with on a daily basis take such a sharp turn as to be criticizing Sidhant's choices & also calling out others on not being "real fans." TBH I should've expected the divisions in the fandom but the IF fam bam has always been so amazing, it came as a blow.

My opinions remain the same. As a fangirl, no I'm not over it because for me Sidhant brought Kunj Sarna to life & I feel it unfair that we don't get a happy ending with SidMin. BUT that does not mean I blame Sid- he obviously deserves better with his talent and whatever his new project will be, I'll follow it for him. I blame the PH for all the underlying problems. So while the fangirl of Tashan-E-Ishq is still pretty upset like man I'm upset LOL, the practical person in me is very happy for Sid. To see him posting about him being in emotional distress sucks, hope all the confusion is aired out soon so confirmations can make this forum stop being so fighty.

Now whenever I do have the courage to rewatch old Twinj scenes & I come across song sequences, I will read your posts again haha, they were awesome!

I'm gonna go with what she said lol cus Teddy gurl, you said it all and i really agree with it all.
I'm upset that we won't get to see Kunj anymore but that doesn't mean i'm not gonna wish him success in his future endeavors and it also does not mean that, I am not a true fan. I just want him to be happy even if that means he has to exit the show
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hey Meghana. Its nice to see you here.

Its actually really surprising to be honest. This was the last place/forum i expected this to be happening. The first time from ages i don't even feel like coming to the forum because before it used to be a couple of posts i used to disagree on now its only a couple on which i agree.
I honestly don't get the fuss on Sidhant leaving for something big or small. It doesn't matter, if he finds it big enough then it is big enough whether or not anyone else agrees on that.
Its his life and he has every right to do what he thinks is best for him.I mean we watch the show in our free time after doing all the necessary work just for entertainment. But i think some people fail to realise he is not acting just for the fun of it. Thats his work not just something to be done for fun (even if he enjoys it immensely).
So why should he not think about moving ahead in his work life just like the rest of us.
I am so disappointed to see this happening especially in this forum.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Hi Meghana
Good to see you here.
Agree with all you said.
Sid has always said it is a one year contract and he will see then what to do.
He is completing his contract, if he wishes he can renew if not it is his decision.Everyone needs to chill.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i echo teddy's sentiments. Personally I believe they should end the show in a month more so the story itself keeps up with its integrity before finishing.

Happy to hear from you. Missed your song analyses and I attempted few on my own but they were never as good as yours.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: teddyyy

Omg dude I missed you! Unfortunate that you returned (for momentary purposes) under such chaotic circumstances but feelings are mutual. It's absolutely astounding to see people I interacted with on a daily basis take such a sharp turn as to be criticizing Sidhant's choices & also calling out others on not being "real fans." TBH I should've expected the divisions in the fandom but the IF fam bam has always been so amazing, it came as a blow.

My opinions remain the same. As a fangirl, no I'm not over it because for me Sidhant brought Kunj Sarna to life & I feel it unfair that we don't get a happy ending with SidMin. BUT that does not mean I blame Sid- he obviously deserves better with his talent and whatever his new project will be, I'll follow it for him. I blame the PH for all the underlying problems. So while the fangirl of Tashan-E-Ishq is still pretty upset like man I'm upset LOL, the practical person in me is very happy for Sid. To see him posting about him being in emotional distress sucks, hope all the confusion is aired out soon so confirmations can make this forum stop being so fighty.

Now whenever I do have the courage to rewatch old Twinj scenes & I come across song sequences, I will read your posts again haha, they were awesome!


Completely agree with Teddy! As a loyal TwiNj fan we deserve the happy ending... TwiNj deserve the happy ending. I dont know about others but Im not ready to see Kunj die or Twinkle romance some random guy or YuviSidhant has breathed life to Kunj... how the hell can they expect us to accept some random guy or YuvLe when they told us its abt TwiNj🤢Dont the makers & Zee know that TEI is being watched coz of Sidhant & Jasmin as TwiNj ?? Kunj is not some random guy in Twinkle's life who dies & then she falls in love with someone else or Yuvi... Sigh people don't understand this

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