The Woman Ishita is...the Iyer behind the Bhalla 18.5.2016 - Page 7

Well said buddy ...I agree completely... just adding some of my views

First of all rkb spewing so much of hatred is really uncalled for ... I understand he is angry for Ishu's deliberate absence ...but this is not the way to show ur anger ... to start with I do not blame Ishu for involving acp in that whole nidhi ruhi fiaso coz thats the thing any sane person will do knowing what kind of women Nidhi is ... also acp came into picture when Nidhi started to run with Ruhi... before that he was hiding so till thn what RKB did to save the babies ??.. he was just standing behind the tree witnessing everything ...if not for Ishu both babies wud hv been taken by Nidhi as thats what she intended to do ... its not that RKB dint knew Nidhi or Ishu ..he was well aware how both of them are so how the hell he can question Ishu's motherhood or her attempt to save ruhi ..only if he wud hv behaved little sane things wud hv been much much better. ..Ruhi's loss was as painful for Ishu as for RKB thn too nt once she blamed RKB...she cud hv easily done that n her accusation wud be justified fr various reasons- coz of whom nidhi came in to their life? .. who was adamant to go with this swapping plan .etc but she chose not to coz thats how a couple deals when some mishap happen ,..they try to deal with it together by supporting each other not by lashing out on one another n barking venomous words ... so no matter what ... Ishu is not answerable to Rkb ...Ishu is at fault in context to her kids n parents ...she had no right to let them suffer the agony of a dead mother and a dead child respectively

7 years passed n rkb is still there with same manhoos ..banjh crap ..n then u claim oh I was so guilt ridden for 7 years for uttering those venomous words..my dear what kind of guilt is this that force u to repeat the same mistake..such a charade .😡. u r angry with her fine accuse her for leaving u ..for leaving kids ,..her own family but again n again questioning her motherhood ..telling her it wud hv been better if she died ..c'mon thats not acceptable ...biggest problem with them is lack of communication ...why cant they sit and talk it out ..what all happened in those 7 years and then can come to an amicable decision whether to live together or not ..but no Rkb wud do all sort of nuisance rather thn just talk ..its like he is a man who distrusted words as though there are a trap rather than a form of communication

on the top of all this now this overwhelming urge to get married to shagun I mean like really ..u want second chance with a woman like her who left no stone unturned to make ur life miserable ... all past n forgotten wow ...and all this for what ..for hurting Ishu ..off course she will be hurt but i guess momentarily coz she already made peace with the fact that Sharam are married when she got this news in Australia ... way cvs are going i hv this premonition of doom that sharam marriage will happen ... i really wonder who will be hurt the most in the long run ..Ishu or Rkb ..i really hope Rkb understand what he is doing before its too late ...coz if he marries shagun no matter whatever the motivation is (hate , agony ,anger) the consequences will be extremely unfortunate coz no matter how much he repent i don't want Ishu to accept him ... or for that matter anyone..Mani (if she don't want too). I just want her to walk off saying nobody owns me but me ..i intend to keep it that way... n she living happily with her family either here, Australia or wherever she choose to ...but alas this is a daily soap n this is not gonna happen

n yes kudos to Ishita for portraying such dignity and grace ...masking her inner turmoil yet variety of emotions are clearly visible across her face ... standing up strong facing it all ..this indeed add an extra dimension to her acting 👏

Originally posted by: gravity23

Hey Sunita...how are you?

Oh I think I did see that olv where Raman objects to her staying in the same apartment...bt what about C and the airport chase and all? Does that have an olv too?

hahahaha...C with current wife on the day of the wedding to the ex-wife😆😆😆 if its true by any measure, then I'm dying to watch it unfold on screen😉

This story and the actors have pulled all of us in so much that in spite of knowing the Cvs won't deliver we are not able to resist coming to this forum. Such intelligent and mature discussions are another attraction/magnet to pull us in even more. When a tragedy like this occurs, it will either make or break a couple who got married (love/arranged/by choice marriages)..here you have a couple whose marriage partner wasn't their choice for either of them but a compromise for the sake of a child. Even though they fell in love, it sometimes gave the feeling that Raman never saw the true Ishita, but fell in love with Ishima, he always praised her mothering abilities/her maturity in loving his family..When there was no Ruhi, it is like the pink glasses were removed and he saw the woman who was a step mother..and with his past baggage could not see the devastated mother in Ishita. He has forgiven all Shagun's mistakes because she is the birth mother..but he is not able to accord the same forgiveness to Ishita..He is destroying her with his crass dialogues..decimating her very existence in every way. He was not this harsh ever with Shagun even after the earthquake..Shagun always could waltz in and see her kids in spite of her many mistakes, why can't Ishita and Adi meet without Raman saying Adi is also dead for him. Why couldn't Adi have Ishita's photo or something in his room..why couldn't he mention and talk about her when Pihu is not there.. Kids are being punished unnecessarily.