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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Desdemona

Preeti is not right in many issues. But we have to agree that She did not ask Mohit to come and stay in her house. He came on his own. She did not ask him to come and give her ring , roses and propose to her in the middle of the night.

She did not think that Mohit will come to her room and try to marry her by force.
Most important is that before marriage, she went to see Mohit on humanitarian grounds thinking he might be lying in his death bed. She did not plan to elope with him. How could she imagine that Mohit wanted to take revenge on her for what all happened with him.
I agree she cannot blame Riya for whatever happened before the marriage. Riya should assert herself when others blame her for each and everything.


@bold : that last line...whether she was at fault or a victim with regards to Mohit...she can no ways blame Riya for her ruined life...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Give her a break! She is in deep shit as of now.

Riya has done everything half heartedly She knew how much Mohit and Preeti love each other, yet she set a deadline which made matters worse for Preeti.

Riya wants to be in the good books of everyone and so she never takes a good decision and pursue it. She wants to save her own marriage. If she wanted she could have helped them to get married come hell or high waters.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: leavesandwaves

Give her a break! She is in deep shit as of now.

Riya has done everything half heartedly She knew how much Mohit and Preeti love each other, yet she set a deadline which made matters worse for Preeti.

Riya wants to be in the good books of everyone and so she never takes a good decision and pursue it. She wants to save her own marriage. If she wanted she could have helped them to get married come hell or high waters.



no re...whatever Riya did or dint do all aside...it was Preeti's lack of spine that led her to this shitty situation...

IF she loved Mohit, then she shouldve fought for it...else shudve given up long back...

She went to meet Mohit on her wedding day, out of humanity...why...why couldnt she send someone else... she cudve send Nandu himself...as it is he wasnt needed in the marriage at all...

she kept quite when Mohit entered her house as chunnilal...why didnt she tell him to send his parents across with a proposal instead...m sure Raghav wouldve liked if his parents approached them...even if Mohit had come with the proposal, stating that his parents wont agree but he loves Preeti, even then RAghav wouldve relented...so she is mostly to blame...

Anyone in Riya's place wouldve panicked...as it is her Saas and Dadi Saas are waiting to take her case...in that too she is a good hearted woman who doesnt want her in-laws to face the humiliation of what Preeti n Chunnilal are doing... If Preeti panicked more after her warning, then that isnt Riya's fault...its again Preeti at fault that she didnt have a spine n couldnt take a decision to tell her parents that she loves Mohit...instead she goes to the radio station and even when Mohit is trying to stop her saying that the programme is on, she goes on blurting that she loves him blah blah blah...

we cannot blame Riya for all this...

IF a girl has her heart at the right place, then she will accept her own fault no matter what shit she has landed into... but here this woman is like her mother...blames other for her problems...thats why first she spoke rudely to Nimmi...and now insulting Riya...

I wish atleast now Riya will stay away from her n mind fixing her own marriage n life...rather then trying to get Peeti and Nandu close...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Pretty is the epitome of foolishness at present.. useless girl .. she is not willing to work.. no courage and she blames Riya for everything .. the easy job.. Coward
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: anjs


Seriously...when she keeps yapping about how its Riya's fault that her life is spoilt...

Really, Preeti...if I remember who was fawning all over Mohit and his show even before Shivam-Riya got married... Ofcourse it was you... You used to call him every day, during the show...that was the reason a smart rj like him, fell for a behenji like you...

You were the one, who encouraged him to stay in ur house, and u have the gall to blame Riya for not handling the matter properly, when she stumbled upon u cuddling into him... waah...

You were the one who left to meet him, despite Nimmi who is younger then you, explaining to you again and again then its not right to leave like this, especially since YOU happen to be the bride... But still u have the nerve to say to Riya...that its all her fault...

Yes, it is her fault, for thinking so much about you guys...for trying to get a better life for you guys...you guys are better off under Your Shantiya's thumb only, as her pets...and more like her donkeys, who work for her but don't get acknowledged...

Riya shouldve just concentrated on her personal life with her husband and career and shouldve left you guys to rot...that wouldve served you well...


C'mon Riya does interfere in everybody's life. If Priti is in "love" with Mohit what is it to Riya? Why did she have to show dadagiri? or rather bhabhi giri to Priti making her convo broadcast all over moghul sarai. ?

Priti is a nervous person why Riya has to intefere with her "own ideas" when Priti can handle it in her own way?

She did the same thing with Shivam following him and stalking him and interfering in his affairs taking his parcel from the station and nearly made him lose his job.

And then later she mistook Sarla to be his mom and almost got married to Amit. Agreed sarla had a lot to do with that.

But it all started off with Riya's hasty assumptions. and not sharing things with Shivam

She is idiotic. She just fancied Shivam and chased him.interfered in his matters and later he fell in love with her (because she is pretty)

Till now I do not know what she is doing in a place like Shanti sadan. Her mom was a lawyer.

If she needed a boyfriend that badly Anupam would have gotten her married off to a nice lawyer from London . Why mess with Shivam's life?

C'mon her soch and Shanti's soch do not mix.

I had hoped for better things from Riya when she married Shivam

Now she really interfered with everything and everyone there. . To some extent what happened to Priti was because of her.

Where was the necessity to tell Nimmi to pretend to be the bride?

She decides things on her own. Okay she did it may be to save Priti from getting beaten up. But Priti is in a much worse state now . married to Nandu . Can Riya stop it? no she cannot . and then what could she have done for Priti even otherwise? found her a ladka? can she do that?

What is Riya doing in their house? let her get out and get on with her life.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Riya cannot share stuff with Shivam coz of Shivam's short temper. He doesn't think before acting. And that is the reason she doesn't share with him.
Riya had good intentions in her heart , and she did share it with Shivam at first when the first rista had come for preeti and preeti was crying,so Riya had called up Shivam and expressed her concern that maybe Preeti likes someone else,to which Shivam had chided RIya for saying that.
Now if the husband gets annoyed or overreacts on small small stuff, it becomes difficult to share with him.
And Riya was actually trying to impress Shivam and 'patao' him before marriage, and some of her acts were childish, but its also true that Shivam did have soft corner for RIya from beginning, but did not act on it coz of his strict family. I don't think it was only RIya's ''pretty face'' that attracted SHivam to her.

She was trying to better Shivam's family lives and had good intentions for them in her heart which came across like she was being nosy. It was mostly Shanti and Sarla's prapanchs which had made the family a hell.
And Preeti is a spineless character, with no courage no strength of will. The only time she shows courage and opens her mouth is when she has to blame her own mistakes on someone else. The way she treats Riya is damn wrong.
But then again its also a fact that Riya is a nosy character lol, but atleast she tries to better herself and accepts her mistakes.
Riya literally has become the punching bag of the Srivastav family . But I hope the new desi avtaar of Riya does some wonders and exposes Shanti Sarla and makes Preeti realize how wrong her actions have become
Edited by sana21 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#17
Everything was going fine between Preeti and Mohit . Infact Raghav and Kausalya were about to go to Mohit's place with the marriage proposal. I can't understand why Sarla had to go and tell Mohit's parents all bad about Preeti and her parents. Why did she do that? Riya acted according to the circumstances deciding at that moment. Every time the scenario was changing so fast because of Shanti and Sarla that she couldn't think and act. So Preeti is not at fault even in that context.
The only fault of her's that is she should not have crossed her limits by meeting a boy on her own as a middle class girl where elders take decisions.


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: pyaaribehna


C'mon Riya does interfere in everybody's life. If Priti is in "love" with Mohit what is it to Riya? Why did she have to show dadagiri? or rather bhabhi giri to Priti making her convo broadcast all over moghul sarai. ?

Priti is a nervous person why Riya has to intefere with her "own ideas" when Priti can handle it in her own way?

She did the same thing with Shivam following him and stalking him and interfering in his affairs taking his parcel from the station and nearly made him lose his job.

And then later she mistook Sarla to be his mom and almost got married to Amit. Agreed sarla had a lot to do with that.

But it all started off with Riya's hasty assumptions. and not sharing things with Shivam

She is idiotic. She just fancied Shivam and chased him.interfered in his matters and later he fell in love with her (because she is pretty)

Till now I do not know what she is doing in a place like Shanti sadan. Her mom was a lawyer.

If she needed a boyfriend that badly Anupam would have gotten her married off to a nice lawyer from London . Why mess with Shivam's life?

C'mon her soch and Shanti's soch do not mix.

I had hoped for better things from Riya when she married Shivam

Now she really interfered with everything and everyone there. . To some extent what happened to Priti was because of her.

Where was the necessity to tell Nimmi to pretend to be the bride?

She decides things on her own. Okay she did it may be to save Priti from getting beaten up. But Priti is in a much worse state now . married to Nandu . Can Riya stop it? no she cannot . and then what could she have done for Priti even otherwise? found her a ladka? can she do that?

What is Riya doing in their house? let her get out and get on with her life.


She did wrong then...i agree, even i was angry with her for that... but whatever u say, the major blame lies with Preeti...

Agar hazam nahi hota toh pyar kiya kyu...why did she lead Mohit on, if she didnt have the guts to even tell her family that she loves someone, forget fighting for her love.

Riya is too interfering, i agree...but that is how all SP bahu's are...which still is a pathetic thing...i myself hate when these bahu's interfere in other people's life.

But Riya didnt tell Nimmi to pretend to be a bride...It was all PReeti's idea...even before RIya came to know that Preeti wants to go out...they had already changed the clothes too...that is when Riya entered the room...

and yea Post that whatever Riya did...keeping quiet...not telling Shivam or Raghav, is her fault...blame her that...no doubt about it...

but MAJORITY OF BLAME OF PREETI'S RUINED LIFE, lies with Preeti HERSELF
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Riya is the resident punching-bag for the entire family. Whenever something doesn't go their way, Riya is blamed. Everyone forgets their fault (except Raghav) and blames Riya when she doesn't know about the rules of the house or whatever. But it's also kinda Riya's fault because not only does she take the shit behaviour from everyone, she seemingly encourages it by keeping silent and continually trying to handle everything when it's clear she can't.

Regarding Preeti, honestly I can see where she's coming from. Her situation is entirely her fault. But Preeti's beeing this coddled, pushed around lamb. And now the lamb has finally found its voice, through yelling and screaming at others. But she still wants to be the pitied lamb (out of all three sibilings, she was alwyas the most pitied imo) and it's pissing her off that no one sees her like that anymore. So she continues to scream and shout in hopes that some change will happen.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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she deserves worst than this.

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