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Posted: 9 years ago
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anyway. I think have I've gotten a good view of how people see homosexuality here by now. I guess I'm privilaged, being raised in a country where we look at facts and science first, not religion.

I want to thank all replies, also the negative ones like from qwerty. My boyfriend said that many Indians lack proper knowledge being of their lack of exposure and education on the subject. I didn't not believe him, because I thought romantic values would be understood universally and people would be able to think with their brain rather than blindly listen to what religion and society tells them.
I'm afraid he was right and I was wrong.

I still love India. I'll just take the nice things from there, and leave the bad things as they are. :) Have a good time on the forum people. Bye :)
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lodi

We are overpopulated as it is. Instead of producing even more children in an unequal world, it would be better to, say, adopt a poor indian orphan and give him a better life.

And there's nothing uhygienic about gay sex, lol. Maybe it's a lack of education on the subject, but homosexuality has always been a natural phenomenon throughout the animal kingdom, and therefore also humans can be homosexual. Homophobia however, is not found anywhere in the animal kingdom except for in humanity. Therefore it is unnatural behavior.

At any rate, me and my boyfriend are not a very sexual couple. It's the romance and love that's central. As far as I know, Buddhism and Hinduism value love greatly.


@Bold. As a matter of fact there is and that is medically and philosophically true as well but I wouldn't want to get the gory details on this forum just to prove my point. Also, one thing I dont like is when gays try to bring out the other unrelated maladies of a society to justify their rights.. for eg.. you said about, and totally out of context - adopt a poor indian orphan...etc.. sure but whats that got to do with this thread!!!

People unwilling to accept homosexuality without a scientific reasons to prove beyond a reasonable doubt that its not a perversion don't have to be called homophobic!!! I don't deny the "possibility" of gays based on genetic and hormonal imbalance... but doubt it's prevalence to this extent... Look i feel for my brother.. i kiss him, hug him and care for him.. i am emotionally bonded with him.to a veri great extent. - now that doesn't make me gay! but to your point i could call my self gay.. ... based on this compulsive bonding!!

I am veri accepting of nudism and don't detest them.or call them perverted. - they settle in their nudist colonies and dont go around nude in mainstream society... - we were born nude.. so there is nothing wrong in that!!! religion hasn't to be factored in every time this topic comes up.. All living beings should love each other and nature itself.. that doesn't by itself justify homosexuality! btw nobody hates gays...I have several gay friends but i befriended them based on their personalities not on their orientation.. i didn't hate them for dating guys.. but never got into a debate.. on that.. which is why they are still friends...
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lodi

anyway. I think have I've gotten a good view of how people see homosexuality here by now. I guess I'm privilaged, being raised in a country where we look at facts and science first, not religion.

I want to thank all replies, also the negative ones like from qwerty. My boyfriend said that many Indians lack proper knowledge being of their lack of exposure and education on the subject. I didn't not believe him, because I thought romantic values would be understood universally and people would be able to think with their brain rather than blindly listen to what religion and society tells them.
I'm afraid he was right and I was wrong.

I still love India. I'll just take the nice things from there, and leave the bad things as they are. :)
Have a good time on the forum people. Bye :)


Now here is the funny thing.. Almost every person who replied to you, replied positively and in an encouraging tone but for me(i need a good scientific basis...). yet you generalized based on my reply.you somehow feel the need to be rejected which in a way helps your justify your orientation!!! It's almost like, if montagues and capulets got along pretty well would Romeo and juliet even exist? 😊😆

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