Is it just me?

Is it just me or does some one else also feel the way Adarsh is going about to get his love is wrong?

I mean he is still to be engaged to Vanshika and yet wooing Swadheenta.I find it very unfair.Why cant he just tell his parents or Vanshika that he isn't interested.I don't find it a big deal.

I mean he has the guts to go around chasing Swadheenta who her self is not available and is promised to some one else but he doesn't have the guts to tell his parents or vanshika he isn't interested.

It seems like he is just waiting for Swadheenta to say yes so that he can dump her.Vanshika doesn't deserve that kind of treatment .In the meantime she might be thinking of their married life while Adarsh is thinking of another girl.She deserves to know the truth.

I know in these serials only the main protagonists are important and no one cares about charterers in supporting roles but somehow i don't like how this is being done.

I personally dont get involved with other characters especially if its a love story i just hv fun watching the couple falling in love 😉 😛

I thought Adarsh should have stopped the relationship from day1 suhasini proposed about the marriage! He should have spoken up there n then
But I guess they wanna stretch it more.
This can b one possibility: The only thing I feel is vanshika is just another girl his mother would choose for him. If not her then someone else. Right now he is not certain about Swadheenta's feelings and thats what has complicated. He instead has focused on making Swadheenta confess keeping in mind that this would b his last try! If he fails and Swadheenta doesn't have any feeling.. He would put her out of his life and may b start fresh with vanshika. 😉

I think he is just caught between a rock and a hard place.

Originally posted by: Ashutosh.Nidhi

I personally dont get involved with other characters especially if its a love story i just hv fun watching the couple falling in love 😉 😛

LOL ya i know its just a fictional love story so i shouldn't think too much about other character's.But still i am kind of feeling bad for Vanshika.

Originally posted by: Soapoperasrfun

I think he is just caught between a rock and a hard place.

In the simplest of words, he is wrong. He should not be doing this. But things are never simple, are they? To be fair to him, he was in love with Swadheenta, but until his conversation with his brothers, he wasn't willing to act upon it. Now, if he goes and confesses his love, and Swadheenta actually does not love him, then she will lose her job for sure, for which he will be responsible. If he just refuses to marry Vanshika, then his parents will ask him for a reason.

So, I think that his urge to get Swadheenta to agree for this marriage is because that is the first thing that he has to get in place for everything else to fall in place.

@bold Well said 👏

Originally posted by: Garima04

I thought Adarsh should have stopped the relationship from day1 suhasini proposed about the marriage! He should have spoken up there n then
But I guess they wanna stretch it more.
This can b one possibility: The only thing I feel is vanshika is just another girl his mother would choose for him. If not her then someone else. Right now he is not certain about Swadheenta's feelings and thats what has complicated. He instead has focused on making Swadheenta confess keeping in mind that this would b his last try! If he fails and Swadheenta doesn't have any feeling.. He would put her out of his life and may b start fresh with vanshika. 😉

Ya CV's are unnecessarily stretching it for more drama.But they aren't realizing that this is actually showing Adarsh's charcter in a poor light atleast for me.I have lesser respect for him for the way he is going about this whole thing

I mean if he is thinking that if Swadheenta says no i will just marry Vanshika its still not right.He is still thinking about himself keeping both his options open.If Swadheenta says yes then dump Vanshika if she says no then marry her.This is selfish for me.Vanshika deserves better than being some one's second choice.

I mean i don't think i would like to be in Vanshika's place and if my sister or my friend were in her place i would definately not like what Adarsh is doing .

They needed to show atleast one candid conversation between Adarsh & Vanshika.
something where Adarsh explains he is not ready yet for engagement / needs time -- something. Then if still girl goes ahead- it is her problem. Atleast it will justify Adarsh's 12 days adventure.
This way it is unfair for all involved.

I feel even worse for Jeevan.

Just to add mirchi to the discussion (and certainly not to defend Adarsh 😆), Vanshika did assume that he likes her and spoke for the both of them about their being together simply because he accepted her friend's request on some social networking site... she did not think to consult him about his wishes when she told his mom and bhabhi that they know each other since 11 years or something that random when he barely remembered who she was...😛.