I totally get what you mean. Its actually nice to see people in the fandom think with their head, analyse, criticize, appreciate and just basically involve so much of them in the show. Its shows their love for the show, you included. There was a time back then when I used to think a lot too but off late, I'm just like,
'oh whatever, I'll just be happy with whatever little good I get'. The list of
what shouldn't have been done,
what should have been done, what's needed to be explained and what they can do without or could have done without is huge. No energy left to contemplate. 😆
Oh yeah, I get it. I believe real Dean got to see real Bobby as whatever happened in the nest was out of their time and space, such that somehow the two timelines merged together for a second. That was hilarious but poor guys actually laugh off such horrifying visions now. Shows how much of the crap they have been through.
I'm mostly confused about the writers and the team, I don't understand their vision at times. All I hope is they wrap up this season nicely.