Emotive coercion kick's off!!

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IKRS Monday 21st March 2016 ep 194 My Take ~ emotive coercion kick's off !

In life many of the decisions that we take, may not wholly be of our own choice,they can be influenced by people who matter to us.Some support in our decision making is the direct result of well meaning. However, other decisions we undertake maybe the result of times when we are compelled, by someone else s coercion which gives them a way to achieve not what we want but what they prefer.. this demand on us is far from meaning well. Looking at today's episode. We see.. when dealing with a controversial issue many questions raise their ugly heads some for, and some against the issue. The fact that it's not straightforward baffles us and thus either the brave enlightened ones support it, or the ignorant ones vociferously stand against it as it may pose a threat to their mindset . The issue may bring about upheaval in an already established comfortable order.The episode deals with the issue of the pariah widow Dhani , who is guilty of creating major chaos in two powerful households the Awasthi's and the tirpathi's. Dhani is involved with the son of both these families. One is munna Awasthi her ex husband whom she is believed to have murdered. The other is Viplav tirpathi her lawyer and present clandestine husband. Today is D day , Dhani's murder charge hearing..all will be known whether its yea or nay for acquittal or life imprisonment. Will Dhani with stand the strain of cross examination? and uphold the truth? or will she be influenced by family pressures and emotional coercion and do the unexpected. Seen support of some, but unseen betrayal of another.

Dashrant prompts courtroom drama right here in Viplav's room , before the boy even gets to the court. The idea is to exert familial demands on Viplav the lawyer. Dashrant the elderly patriarch of the family, manipulates Viplav by forcing him to go off his professional task of fighting for justice to prevail, over a woman wrongly convicted of murder. Dashrant throws in issues of family loyalties and blood ties to waver Viplav's stance of defending Dhani in court. He puts strain on Viplav against Dhani directly, by pointing out that Dhani not only murdered her husband alone, but that she ruined their Shalu's future too! Dashrant gives his verdict, he warns Viplav he will not allow him to fight Dhani's case! and storms out of the room. Viplav s instant reaction is to rip the news paper and then he kicks it away like a piece of scum. Anti Dhanisim within his near and dear ones is not unknown to Viplav; its in one ear and out the other for Viplav. all the family's militancy makes him more resilient by the second .He will do what he has to do. Defend his wife; fight for both his and his wife's honour.

At the prison Dhani is being loaded on too. Her innocence and upright nature is being ravaged by none other than the dadi ,who implanted the best of qualities in Viplav! What time has come that the matriarch who features as a female figure of steadfast continuity and stable traditional values now.. she argues with Dhani in the prison. There is chaos now, it's because Viplav wants to support her not his family. Worse still dadi condescends , she always support her, and believes she is a great girl. Somewhere, she believes she didn't do it. But sadly for Dhani , dadi also compels Dhani to hear out , there is a reason for all that's happening.. its because she is in Viplav's life! They are not meant to be .. Due to them being together her families lives are at risk! so please go from Viplav's life. For by doing so all will be well. Dhani is bluntly told by the woman whom Viplav thinks the world of.. that her love cannot convert into relationship, if this was to happen a great storm will rage! Dadi begs, she should let them live !save their family from being destroyed. its in her hands . dadi blackmails Dhani , she asks for nothing except that she leaves that's best for all.. Thus cries dadi and leaves. Dadi's strong words, about Dhani causing the tirpathi's duress is not easy for Dhani to ward off.. the time has come to reconsider her truth. the truth that she is meant to speak out in the court. She has to consider, which family will benefit from the truth?and which family punished? which family does she hold close to her heart? Dhani decides she knows what she will do in the court today? Did she consult her deities on this on?

Rearing to go! all set ,outside the court! Viplav waits for Dhani , paces along with Dhani's family. Police van arrives. Dhani steps out Dulari runs and hug her. Tells her, she stands by her so does Viplav they'll save her! Viplav too adds, her mum is right she shouldn't fear! they'll cross examine her, ask her embarrassing questions but she stand strong! stay calm stand by her truth! Dhani are you listening? Viplav checks with her as he primes before going into court room, she seems elsewhere to Dhani, their words were bouncing off why do her eyes look glazed! Police chivvy has to take her in. Viplav as in tough time supports and holds Dulari ..

The courtroom... Dhani lead in Awasthi's glare at her. The atmosphere becomes volatile! Sulochana commets to mami but loud enough for Dulari sitting next to hear ,the day has arrived when this sinner murderess will get her punishment! so before the verdict they shoot their mouth off bullying the poor widows, accusations are thrown at Dhani! She killed my munna and ran off and thought she will run and hide. Today she stands in the witness box ready to rot in jail! dulari snaps! my daughter did not commit murder, got it! empty vessels bang and make noise! they contain nothing in it! Raj laxmi pulls her back. Dashrant arrives.. . Proceedings begin, prosecution lawyer starts off! its a simple case still he wants to ask Dhani before he presents his evidence and witnesses . he is granted permission.. he begins, will ask you two questions , firstly, did your husband drink ? secondly , Did he beat you when he was drunk? Dhani stands mute. He repeats his questions, but Dhani mute.. recalls dadi's words of begging her to leave Viplav.. Viplav, anxious by her silence, tells her to reply . Prosecution says , stop putting pressure on her. Dhani stands mute, is asked again did he drink? and then hit you? Dhani mute thinks about dadi .. Viplav sits worried. Lawyer says, stop wasting courts time. Viplav stands up and calls out to Dhani why are you quiet?? he's told to be quiet and to sit down by the judge. Dhani recalls dadi's words your love cannot change into a relationship. Lawyer says ,have you killed your husband or not? Dhani says yes! Viplav stands up. Shocked. Yes she has certainly killed her husband Viplav at this point in time! After all his preparation, after all the battles he took up for her, she annihilates him! baffles him with her answer ,her confession!! All are shocked!! Lawyer says that's all my lord!..basically the convicted had confessed nothing more to it.. but Viplav does not think so..

Viplav talks to a mute statue what are you saying Dhani before the judge?? ..has some one coerced you? why are you lying? tell the truth Dhani, he begs her! The prosecution yells what is going on when the defendant has admitted her crime why is she being pressurized by the defence? Viplav yells because she is lying your honour! when the defendant prepared the case with him she said she didn't commit murder. He can speculate that some pressure has been exerted on her. Viplav goes back to her , assures her, Dhani this is the court, there is no need for her to lie here, he is with her. Why do you lie? Dulari pleads state the truth Dhani the truth. You didn't murder any one they both know that. But Dhani stands mute. Prosecution urges the judge , there nothing to argue about everything is clear ,crystal clear! give the sentence! Viplav , pools in his strength , he has to save her , he'll with the reason of her mute, near deathly silence later, and fight back with his arguments, he thinks his client is gripped by fear and is tongue tied , by the flurry of questions. She is confused. By the prosecution lawyer's questions. Thus in confusion she said yes. It was related to the question, yes my husband drank and not to the one that you killed him! Is that right Dhani? Viplav asks, and she nods, yes my husband used to drink? Boldy Viplav , requests the judge for another chance. but prosecutor yells what chance is he asking for? where the convicted has already confessed to her crime!!,defence lawyer, wants to change her questions! One more chance will mean wasting courts time !But Viplav argues, your honour, the defendant was pressured by the prosecution's question , that's why she said what she said. That's why he is requesting for another hearing.. It's a matter of life or death.. dexterously Viplav buys time. Judge agrees, fine the sentence will be passed tomorrow. Court is adjorned for the day!! Dhani is led away. Awasthi's are disappointed. Kanak asks Dashrant , how come she confessed to her crime so easily? Does Dhani score a moral victory over the tirpathi's ?

Viplav follows her as she is taken to police vehicle, asks her has any one said something to her? what did she do inside? If that's how you will behave! he won't be able to save her no one can! Did someone come to the jail to coerce her?? say something she cannot be quiet, Dhani! He yells as she is driven away .dashrant says, has he gone mad? Viplav she has confessed to her crime. He yells she lies!... Dhani watches from the van as she is driven away , forgive me Viplav I had no other option! Did it for his happiness for his family's happiness .. Their happiness comes before her happiness...that's why I lied.

She is led before to the cell.. The warden says to her , she has seen many cases but you are one of a kind, who accepted your crime so easily. dhani weeps...

Dulari at the ashram queries Dhani's swift confession. she loses it raj laxmi restrain her

Viplav comes to see her in prison. asks her to come clean Dhani.. No one is here.. Tell him, does she have any idea what she has done? Does she think she'll say anything before the judge and he'll save her? who came to see here here?She recalls ,dadi , but she is quiet Viplav begs, being silent won't solve anything.. then she speaks, Forgive me Viplav..I lied to you..yes its true I did kill my husband.I was frightened that s why I hid it... viplav growls,she lies Dhani !she lies.look him in the eye and tell and him , he'll believe her .because she can fool all but she can't fool him .By lying she is destroying him and herself to Dhani! He growls as she stands with her back to him..then he calms down and says, sadly, today would have been a happy day for him, he would have taken her home today .. But look at destiny's game. But let him tell her something as her husband.. The oaths they took during marriage , he has not forgotten. He won't let her get punished so easily for something she hasn't done! he'll get her released and with full rites, rituals and fanfare he will have her accepted into his home also.. And Viplav leaves..she turns and cries Viplav ! he stops with an angry face .. But then walks off.. vexed by her about turn..

There are many ways to fight a war.. confront the enemy full, on counter attack , recede, and attack again reinforced.. but what manner of war did Dhani fight today? Passive resistance ?surrender or what? Viplav's is her god! surely his happiness should come first..what of letting off.. the devil walk, off scot free? so he attacks some other innocent soul? Dhani what made you bow to the devil??who was at fault?? Hamlet53 22.3.16

Precap: in the witness box, sulochana says, didn't know an innocent girl will kill my son.. Kanak in witness box says, she used her beauty and snatched my innocent son away from me, she is characterless woman. Lawyer says ,this woman first ensnares rich men, uses them and then kills them ..!Ayeee!!! Viplav comes flying at his throat and says. Enough told you enough!She is my wife did you get that she is my wife! Dashrant , Kanak, Raja ,all shocked!! dhani is stunned.. what style viplav the lion heart!!

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wow wow wow...wat a description hammy...👏👏👏...beautiful analysis of human situation..was waiting for ur update ..loves to c d episode...thru ur eyes...😊😊😊
Have a grt day ahead...😊😊
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hey hammie u r lazy in commenting on the profile pages?
nahin chalega nahin chalega.😕😕😕.please go and drop ur lovely comments there😃😃
see MR's pic gallary..nanha sa Gadha's pic is there..comment on our gadha's pic😆😆😆
ok i will be back here in the evening to read the take and comment..could not stop myself from making this comment here😆😆
and ya the precap was amazing...Dutta's flavour in viplav's roar😳..he roared like a lion😳😊
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Great take for a suspenseful episode, dear Hammie! Loved your expression "anti-dhani-ism!"

The Terrible Trio is again at work. Like hunters, these seekers of fame and fortune try to ensnare the poor animal Shalu through alligator tears and a show of false sympathy. Today we could see the excellent characterization of Shalu come to a full circle. A number of questions, which, at least in my mind, kept swirling around came to rest today. Shalu's weight problem, and her overeating are the result of growing up in the patriarchal Tripathi household. We have already seen how DT treats women, be it Durga, Sushma, or Kanak. Having such a grandfather at the helm would not have helped Shalu's self-esteem.

The reason why she is upset with her brother is because she can clearly sees that there is a difference in the way that she and he are treated. Vip has been raised to be a king in terms of entitlement, a spoiled kid in terms of always getting his way most of the time, and the light and hope of the lineage (ghar ka chirag). Shalu, on the other hand, raised as a girl in an over-protective environment has nothing to show that impresses the elders, who are mostly obsessed with Vip and his life, be it Boston or Dhani. Therefore, when Shalu says that no one thought of her, she is not just indulging in self-pity, but is pointing out an important fact of her upbringing in the Tripathi household, whereby her needs were always neglected, while her brother's were not. The only problem is that she is targeting Viplav who is, ironically, the only sane one caring for her and thinking well of her. Shalu's eyes are also closed to the fact that her near and dear ones are not always her greatest benefactors. Therefore, unable to distinguish between the real and the false, and desperate for acceptance and love, the pseudo-soothing words of Raja and his sick mother sound good to Shalu, who then easily rejects Viplav's sensible words along with Viplav himself. This whole sequence was nicely shown today.

I hope that it is Shalu who finds some incriminating evidence against the Awasthis that saves Dhani, but perhaps that is too much to hope for. Perhaps a better wish is to hope that Shalu does not marry Raja, and does not elope with/or is kidnapped by him after Dhani's release.

Peace and Cheers, Hammie. Take care.


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Hey Hammie...excellent writeup n did much more justice to the episode...I liked the episode cos ofVIPUs fiery attitude in the jail demanding dhaani to open up n reminding her as ahusband,he will fulfill the vows he had taken to protect n safeguard her...I immensely loved the last shot where she calls him n there isan angry pause n he walks off...The court scene was ok for me as I couldnt tolerate dhaanis silence n stupidity...She should be aware that by doing this,shes not only puttig shalus life in danger again but she is leaving a criminal free in open to harm any other innocent...n then its also VIPLAV his reputation as a lawyer n also as a hubby is at stake. ..
Anyways todays episode will be more dhamkedar,cnt wait for his confessing out loud n clear..Thanks for writing it so well...n doing it everyday for us...!!!
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Hammie hiii,
amazing take as usual.wish I had many more words of praise in my vocabulary.using d same words everyday .
36 hrs totally sleepless , don't have d energy to check goggle but will have to do it later cz I didn't understand d meaning of a few words includidng d title.ughhh me n my English ... both r 🤢
Ur introduction was bang on as usual n d ending too , yes dhani is a stupid character. How can she let her husband lose his case again? It will break his confidence , n that too in exchange of what ???? Shalu getting married to such a disgusting man... she lost her mental balance or what? Yes she acts like a traditional sacrificing heroine but she can't justify what she did.
Wow d precap sounds powerful.hope will b able to watch it.my bro must sacrifice his t20 matches.
U always give us immense pleasure with ur words , d way u describe a simple scene it becomes so special.very well done.

Hiii editing my post again cs I have learned all those word meanings.must tell u its a wonderful title too.loved it. 👏
N yes like u I am also dissapointed with dadi.I thought after shambhu's death she was d only sensible person left in AN to support viplab.but no...she has learnt to blackmail someone emotionally.didn't like d change in character.viplab-dadi was such a cute pair.
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Dear Hammie,
I relived the episode through your post and the part that stood out for me is this
There are many ways to fight a war.. confront the enemy full, on counter attack , recede, and attack again reinforced.. but what manner of war did Dhani fight today? Passive resistance ?surrender or what? Viplav's is her god! surely his happiness should come first..what of letting off.. the devil walk, off scot free? so he attacks some other innocent soul? Dhani what made you bow to the devil??who was at fault??
I agree with you 100% on this even made a post. Dhaani did not reflect on the effect of her action.
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RANT ALERT ON

A new law is required to penalize all show makers who presume that their audience is dumb. The medium of television should be used to increase knowledge and awareness not abuse it with illogic.

Continuity is an important pillar of story telling. Story wise where are we ? Is it explaining why Shallu's wedding was stopped, Clearing Dhani of murder or the countdown to the 20 day monotoruim on Vip-Dhani marriage. If the makers do have the intention of taking a track all the way why drop and pick it up randomly. Dadai ji bars Viplav to fight the case but next joining him at the hearing as if nothing happened. Raja and team are on the back burner ???

Makers please research a few facts like a profession of a lawyer. Its not just a person in a black coat .

Viplav / Mishal - I understand its your wife on the stand but why are you so high strung . Calm down man atleast speak a bit slow.

Dadi - You did not make any sense at all today . Instead of dwelling on facts what was that about - your love cannot turn into a marriage else hell will break loose ?

Dulaari - Yes we know you are with your "buchia" always but can you please stop bawling ALL the time. There is a word Poignant.

Dhani - Do you love this guy or not ? If yes then can you please give him some notification that you are about to let him down publicly ?

And did I clarify that I still have high hopes with this show ? Go Figure.

RANT ALERT OFF

Hello Hammie,

Sorry to use your thread to rant. According to me its a sorry state and since we spend a good time discussing the show I could not help talk of its ugly side. Now that I have this off my chest let me come back to your excellent take.

Emotive Coercion : Emotional blackmail. Wanting others to do what you want them to do by appealing to their vulnerable heart . Dadi, Viplav, dulaari ...all . Please do this and please do not do this . Does Dhani have any free will ? Maybe not because she herself does not think she could . She sees herself thru others as a daughter , wife a DIL and till she does not see herself as Dhani an individual she will continue to be coerced by others. While a lot of us call Dhani dumb I think she looses the battle when it comes to giving herself a priority. Her evolving as that strong women is what I hope to see with her being Viplavs wife.

So basically its the entire Tripathis and the Avaithi family who is anit Dhani sans Viplav. Dadaji made it clear that the water is above the head now and Dhani is the cause of all their miseries. Dadi too thinks that she is the divisive force behind Viplav siding with her rather than the family. For Shallu its Dhani who has broken her alliance. And well the Avasthi's always wanted to get rid of her. For Viplav she and her love is his anchor. He will fight onto death to save her. He is determined.

I have to say women in this show are very regressive . Where is BAdi Amma when you need her . I will wait to see how the marriage declaration turns out. It cannot be good.

An action packed episode where at times the music was louder than the dialogues. Dhani with her back to Viplav was not cool .

Thanks for hearing me out . Will catch you again on your thread.

Love

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Originally posted by: aimf

Great take for a suspenseful episode, dear Hammie! Loved your expression "anti-dhani-ism!"

The Terrible Trio is again at work. Like hunters, these seekers of fame and fortune try to ensnare the poor animal Shalu through alligator tears and a show of false sympathy. Today we could see the excellent characterization of Shalu come to a full circle. A number of questions, which, at least in my mind, kept swirling around came to rest today. Shalu's weight problem, and her overeating are the result of growing up in the patriarchal Tripathi household. We have already seen how DT treats women, be it Durga, Sushma, or Kanak. Having such a grandfather at the helm would not have helped Shalu's self-esteem.

The reason why she is upset with her brother is because she can clearly sees that there is a difference in the way that she and he are treated. Vip has been raised to be a king in terms of entitlement, a spoiled kid in terms of always getting his way most of the time, and the light and hope of the lineage (ghar ka chirag). Shalu, on the other hand, raised as a girl in an over-protective environment has nothing to show that impresses the elders, who are mostly obsessed with Vip and his life, be it Boston or Dhani. Therefore, when Shalu says that no one thought of her, she is not just indulging in self-pity, but is pointing out an important fact of her upbringing in the Tripathi household, whereby her needs were always neglected, while her brother's were not. The only problem is that she is targeting Viplav who is, ironically, the only sane one caring for her and thinking well of her. Shalu's eyes are also closed to the fact that her near and dear ones are not always her greatest benefactors. Therefore, unable to distinguish between the real and the false, and desperate for acceptance and love, the pseudo-soothing words of Raja and his sick mother sound good to Shalu, who then easily rejects Viplav's sensible words along with Viplav himself. This whole sequence was nicely shown today.

I hope that it is Shalu who finds some incriminating evidence against the Awasthis that saves Dhani, but perhaps that is too much to hope for. Perhaps a better wish is to hope that Shalu does not marry Raja, and does not elope with/or is kidnapped by him after Dhani's release.

Peace and Cheers, Hammie. Take care.


@aimf A very correct and insightful assessment of Shallu . She made a very good point to her brother the other day . For you its your Dhani that you care about . And that Raja he did 4 pheras and walked out treating her like an object to be rejected . No one cares about her. And that is True.
The Tripathi family even now is only worried about their izzat and if this wedding breaks who will marry her again. And Shallu somewhere knows that . Since she has never had support for her wishes ever she cannot think or make any decision for herself.
I would very much like Vip-Dhani to expose Raja and for Shallu to stand up and say that she will not marry this creep. Women need to be empowered to do so and her brother is her only redemption. She does not see it like that for now as she is too caught up in her humiliation.
As I said ..women in this show are really regressive requiring emancipation.
Very well said.
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@ Ratna

Thank you, dear Ratna. High praise coming from one as adept as yourself! I too hope that they show Shalu's growth through all this. Perhaps Dhani can be a good influence, once she stops being the sacrificial goat for others' happiness😆!

Cheers and have a great day.

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