don't like to watch mother's childish behaviour

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Posted: 9 years ago
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she is acting like a child, and very stupid. anybody knows the difference between the cook and a doctor. she was talking like an illiterate woman. how dare she talks about doctor bose, that she is taking care of the kitchen to her friends. very low. she is lucky that she has son like dev who is taking good care of her. and hiring private doctor. so far i think dev and her other 2 sisters are only civilized.i think dev's family is giving him more stress than his own business. niha is acting like a step sister. dev should not agree with her demand whatever she wants. one thing i don't understand why these writers bring bengali character and let them talk in hindi? why not in bengali? when there is a subtitle. we can read.😆 its weird. i think doctor bose should give a break to dev by calling him mr abodrow, because she is not being civilized herself. she should remember she is in his house not on the street. i know he is responsible for losing her job. but she also did not handle well. she was quite rude too. she could have politely explained to him that she has other patients to take care. good doctors should not behave like that. atleast she could have listened to him and decide. your thoughts.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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Nice post...Iswari is being rather irrational...it was Dev who brought Sona home as her personal nutritionist...so if Ishwari has a problem she should speank to Dev...instead she is taunting Sona on her pay and job...not only did she say Sona was a maid but also tried to make her cook...she intentionally sent the servant out so that Sonakshi would cook!! And the reason- Dev is paying her a huge sum and she wants Sona to work according to her pay!! Worse she says that to Sona. She doesnt even bother to think how the girl would feel. Happy that Sona gave her a good answer.

Ishwari always says she values her son's money...she is worried when his wallet is lost or he has to pay her nutritionist but absolutely no problem when she wastes that money by not listening to Sona. If she actually valued the money she would listen to Sona. Instead she creates sucha situation that Sona herself has to eat unhealthy food.

Ishwari's habit of negleacting hef health is rather irritating...she loves food...agreed...but she is sick and even a kid when he has fever and is told to keep away from icecreams or not to play would give in unlike the woman who barely listens to anyone...despite Neha making special food for her she makes the servant prepare parathas for herself...makes her nanand bring her junk food...and now tricking Sona into letting her eat oily food...who does that?

The cvs characterization is wonderful and Supriya Maam is an awesome actress.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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agree ! she is so irritating .. actually characterization of all characters r so poor. 👎🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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well I don't agree completely with your points though some of your points are valid like we all know Dev is dedicated towards his mother since she has sacrificed so much so that Dev can become an archiver and also parents in their old age do behave like a kid and I believe now it's Dev's turn to fulfil his mother's need like she used to do for him when he was growing and also the behaviour of Neha is justified as she was deprived of every happiness in her childhood and she demands that her needs should be acknowledged now, though her way of asking is rude but after all these years she was felt ignored. I think She is taking out her frustration by behaving in such a way.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: chemgirl

Nice post...Iswari is being rather irrational...it was Dev who brought Sona home as her personal nutritionist...so if Ishwari has a problem she should speank to Dev...instead she is taunting Sona on her pay and job...not only did she say Sona was a maid but also tried to make her cook...she intentionally sent the servant out so that Sonakshi would cook!! And the reason- Dev is paying her a huge sum and she wants Sona to work according to her pay!! Worse she says that to Sona. She doesnt even bother to think how the girl would feel. Happy that Sona gave her a good answer.

Ishwari always says she values her son's money...she is worried when his wallet is lost or he has to pay her nutritionist but absolutely no problem when she wastes that money by not listening to Sona. If she actually valued the money she would listen to Sona. Instead she creates sucha situation that Sona herself has to eat unhealthy food.

Ishwari's habit of negleacting hef health is rather irritating...she loves food...agreed...but she is sick and even a kid when he has fever and is told to keep away from icecreams or not to play would give in unlike the woman who barely listens to anyone...despite Neha making special food for her she makes the servant prepare parathas for herself...makes her nanand bring her junk food...and now tricking Sona into letting her eat oily food...who does that?

The cvs characterization is wonderful and Supriya Maam is an awesome actress.



I totally concur with everything you have stated - I couldn't have said it better myself. Ishwari's characterization is definitely layered and although I do feel for her - raising 4 children with no money and practically no support - I'm failing to side with her now.
Here is my gripe with Ishwari regarding the money issue:
Your son hired a nutritionist to look after you - because you are are a stubborn and incorrigible in your ways. He's paying good money to make sure you are well taken care of, if you REALLY cared about his hard earned money and RESPECTED your children - you would heed to everyone's pleas and follow your doctor's orders.
The other thing that I find interesting is - she's always so concerned about Dev's money and spending too much etc - yet it doesn't bother her one bit to give money away to her her Bhabhi. How is that not "wasting" money?

Mom's like Ishwari are in my opinion the most dangerous - they raise their sons to worship them, all mothers care for their children and will usually go to lengths to protect/provide/nurture their kids. We get that but some how and I'm not quite sure how but along the way, Mom's like Ishwari manage to instill a sense of debt where the son's feel a sense of indebtedness towards their mothers which then cloud their judgement. Mom's like that are all sweet talk but they are very shrewd, calculating and manipulative when it comes to their sons. We've already seen shades of that - she doesn't want Dev getting married any time soon, she wasn't happy for Rhea when Rhea asked to work with her brother, she doesn't care 2 cents about Neha - she doesn't even acknowledge the sacrifices she forced out of Neha and what effect that has had on her life. Even now its all about Dev - she doesn't think about ways to help Neha - to get through to her and get her out of her bitterness - whether that be by appreciating her, acknowledging her sacrifice and contribution to the family and making up for lost time by educating her now. They are rich and it's pretty easy for them to hire a tutor to home school Neha - find out what she wants for a change.

Neha is so right in saying - you gave birth to 4 kids but you are only the mother of 1.

I do appreciate the dysfunctional - multi layered characters portrayed here so far - Neha, Dev even Ishwari are all various shades of grey - Ishwari is probably the darkest shade of grey but she's grey none the less. So far she's only gotten manipulative when it comes to anything she feels threatens her equation with Dev or isn't in her opinion right/good for Dev.

Lets see how this continues to unfold!

I know this is a show but if this were real life I wouldn't want Sona to end up with Dev and his mother. She deserves a better mother in law and life partner - people who can appreciate her for who she is, what she does and respect her independence.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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@RoxyC - very well said. Agree with all you said.
Also agreed with most of the posts on this thread.

Lot of irrational behavior on the part of Ishwari, Dev and Neha, which I find hard to justify. But I must admit that I am enjoying the show and the characters. Looking forward to the story unfolding.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I agree with you on most points she's being irrational and sometimes its a lot nagging to see her fuss
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Posted: 9 years ago
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She needs her son's attention all the time.. and that is why she is hesitant to get him married.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i agree. it really is irritating -- shes kinda really annoying.
I feel for Neha... the mom is super immature and its NOT cute seeing her do all this weird childish stuff -.-
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I find her OK.
This is a soap, not really life. They have to make us feel that they are happy family. In every soap there few character over acting, it's impossible to completely connect with a show. I can give example of kareena kapoor in Jab we met, she was too much , none of us can tolerate such namoona in real life but in a film or serial we enjoy them.

This show is not only about Dev and Sona, ishwari has an equal role to play. What she is suppose to do? Say Good morning to dev, say bye when he is going to office, follow every instruction of doctor, take rest, when dev returns from office, serve him food, talk some emotional stuff and go to bed. How boring. None of us would watch it. If she had behaved properly, dev wouldn't have brought Sona to his home which is main puller of their love story.

Coming to Neha, she is the most real character. She feels her part of happiness was given to Dev, that's true, ishwari sacrificed her education to make career of Dev. She is equally upset with Dev and Ishwari, that's her right.

Coming to professional behaviour, even doctors are human, they have right to keep their person equations. Their first meeting was not really great and both of them hold grudges against each other. I would call them unprofessional if sona doesn't pay proper attention into her work or Dev refuse to pay the promised amount.

If everything turns into formal and they started behaving like professionals, there won't be anything worth watching.

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