She brought this upon herself

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Posted: 9 years ago
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I would say Suman brought this upon herself. Is it me or is she so naive that she couldn't understand how hurt he was? Just because he didn't listen to him when she called after him when he was leaving for London, she did not contact him for 10 years? She did not contact him for so many years because of her huge ego, even after knowing she had hurt him she couldn't say sorry and waited for 10 years to say it. And now she wants him to act normal? That is just not done. A sorry from her side can't heal the hurt and the deep wound he has carried in his heart all these years. Maybe she had not hurt him intentionally, but none the less he was hurt and she knew this very well.

But I personally think Suman never really realised that the way she degraded him for her image had wounded him so bad. She always took him for granted. She did not realise over the years, but now when she got insulted in a similar manner she recalled all the moments when she had done the same with him. I liked the way he said sorry to her in the precap to make her realise that a simple 'sorry' is not enough at times. It was cruel, but it was also important to make her realise what she had done all those years ago cannot be forgiven so easily.

The problem with both of them is that they have serious ego issues. Suman did not contact him for 10 years because of her ego. If I was in Shravan's place I would not have even seen her face. But I also agree that Shravan saying in front of everyone that Suman is running after him because he has become rich and famous was a low blow. But then if I was in Shravan's place maybe I would have thought the same that a girl who was once ashamed to call him her friend now suddenly wants to show everyone that they are friends. We know that Shravan means a lot to Suman and she may have realised his importance after he had left but did she ever show it to him? No...Even after he returned her ego was not letting her talk to him. She wanted him to talk to her first and act like nothing happened.

I agree the way Shravan showed her the mirror was wrong, but in a way it was needed. It was needed to open Suman's eyes. If she wants to be friends with him again she needs to earn that friendship. She needs to make him feel that she is genuinely sorry.

This is just my opinion. You guys are free to disagree.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Mary, thank you for this post. WORD to everything you said.
Too lazy to type out everything, so please read my post & the replies. You've basically written out everything I wanted to say.
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4590974
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Perfect perfect perfect this is exactly what i am trying to understand every one in the forum
Am much neede post thank uuu Marry thank u..👏
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Exactly my thoughts too .. Very well said..
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Shravan's pain is totally justified wished he had dealt with it a little differently but i believe he is still that kid who had his heart broken bad he just wants some sort of penance for his grief...
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Nothing to disagree
...just perfect post
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Could not have said it better
Word to everything u have penned
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Originally posted by: prc_fan1


Mary, thank you for this post. WORD to everything you said.
Too lazy to type out everything, so please read my post & the replies. You've basically written out everything I wanted to say.
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4590974


Hey thanks for sharing this, I checked it out and even commented. 😊
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Hmm... agree with everything but for the last sentence. Both need to earn the others frienship. If I were in Sumo's shoes I might apologize to this person but would never trust him and keep good distance. There would be no future there. ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: memario

Shravan's pain is totally justified wished he had dealt with it a little differently but i believe he is still that kid who had his heart broken bad he just wants some sort of penance for his grief...


I agree. He could have dealt with it differently. But he has been repressing his hurt for 10 long years, he needed an outlet and this is the first outlet he could think of that would not hurt his ego and he could also tell Suman the extent of his hurt. He couldn't just say it to her, he has too much self respect to let her know how much he was hurt in childhood.

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