Who is more responsible for ruhi maturity raman or ishita

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kras

@kras

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Posted: 10 years ago

tell me one thing

Was ruhi mature before ishra wedding

Answer is big no

Was ishita perfect mother and ruhi was innocent at 11 pm

Answer is yes

Is 7:30 so called great mother ishita is responsible for ruhi maturity

My answer is yes

Now reason during accident track raman yelled at ruhi in his frustration

Ishita made her understand raman situation and ruhi apologized to raman

Here ruhi was innocent and ishita was perfect mother

During Mani track when ruhi push Mani son in school she didn't want to take ishita with her and she played a trick

That was innocent ruhi

During pooja delivery when subbu mother accuse ishita

Ruhi didn't know mean of a barren but Mrs bhalla made her understand

That was innocent ruhi first step towards maturity and Mrs bhalla pushed her there

So Mrs bhalla start all this

Then ishita bring shagun at bhalla house

In her greatness she forget about her Darling daughter ruhi

She forget that this will effect ruhi the most

Here ishita was not perfect mother

But she was responsible for ruhi maturity

Then famous lohri scene

Where ruhi shouted at everyone

She raised her voice at her grandparents her papa her biological mother but ishita was not upset with her

In fact she was very happy

I know that situation was very overwhelming for her

But did after all this she talk to ruhi

Did she make her understand whatever she did was wrong

Did she ask her to apologize to everyone

Did ruhi understand her mistake

Answer is big no

Here according to ruhi whenever she will stand for her ishimaa

Her ishimaa become happy

Here ishita didn't behave like a perfect mother

Then a scene where ruhi troubled shagun

She went to shopping with her and troubled her

That was innocent

But after that whatever she did

I mean she raised her voice at shagun

She talked very maturely with her

That was not innocent

And that time also ishita didn't talk to her

Again ishita was not great mother here

Then a scene where raman lost his contract due to ruhi mistake

And his boss scold him

Ishita knew about ruhi mistake but when raman returned from office she became over excited and told him about rudi school project

And he shouted at her and asked her to shut up

Ishita became upset

She cried in ruhi room

Which mother cry in front of her small kids

I think none

And then ruhi reaction did papa say anything to u

I mean ruhi had a picture that whenever her ishimaa cries her father responsible for that

And ishita also didn't correct her

And ruhi she totally forget about her morning mistake

And went to raman not to apologize to him for him but for scold him to make her ishimaa cry

So question is does mother cry in front of her small kids

Answer is no

And here also ishita didn't behave like a perfect mother

Then during Mumbai trip

When ruhi went to take a saree for ishita without informing anyone

That time she was happy but she scold her also

That time ishita was a perfect mother

And ruhi also behave like a innocent child

After that during infertility track

Ruhi went to hospital alone for ishita

And sarika bring her home

That time again I know ishita was happy

But a responsible mother first reaction " r u mad . why did u go alone .if u will do this again I will not talk to u "

But ishita reaction was total different

She didn't behave like a responsible mother

And ruhi was not a 7 year kid there

Then a scene where she made a big chaos in hospital

Again ruhi was not innocent child

And ishita was not responsible mother

For ishita ruhi is her first child then why didn't she scold her there or made her understand the situation

Now raman same scene where she made a chaos

Raman tried to make her understand

But she didn't listen

Here raman was responsible father

But ruhi was not innocent kid

And now recent scene where adiru and shravu went hangman to save their ishimaa

Raman was happy but he scold them also

Here raman behave like a responsible father

And kids were innocent here

Whenever raman shout in front of kids

He doesn't behave like a responsible father

But I think he is like this only

But ishita always lecture raman about parenting

She always said that ruhi is innocent and please let her be like this

But now she herself made her a dadi amma

But now she is not behaving like a responsible mother

PS: I m not anyone hater or lover

This post is for ruhi maturity

Please don't start fan war here

Please don't put blame on cvs

Because here we r talking about characters

Edited by kras - 10 years ago

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kras

@kras

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Posted: 10 years ago

I want to share a incident of my life with u

I was 19

My parents fought in front of me for the first time

That was strange for me

But I didn't say anything

But after sometime I asked about this from my mother

She said Reetika stay in ur limits

I was fighting with my husband

And he was fighting with his wife

I was not fighting with ur father

And he was not fighting with ur mother

This matter belongs to husband wife not to parents

And mistake was ours

We shouldn't have fought in front of u

And after that I never see my parents fight

And I also apologized to my mother for this

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kaa1202

@kaa1202

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Posted: 10 years ago

Its a fiction re... Don't compare real life scenarios to it..

P.S:-Kids who saw their parents go through a horrible divorce r always matured than other kids of same age.. I have seen it in my friend's life..

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heperchaun

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Posted: 10 years ago

Who told mother never cries in front of small kids.
Mother is also a human being. She has emotions.
Life is not a fairytale. And raman her fathers life was nothing but a living hell thsnks to her mother shagun.
In fact in these times it is wrong if you hide your true feelings just because there is a kid in the house. Ruhi's maturity is natural. Even shravan talking about life and giving gyan about ladies to raman is fine.
Now this is kalyug. The world is cruel and kids these days r born with inherent bad traits.
It is sad but Parents can only guide their life and cannot stop them from being mature in these mordern circumstances with divorce, surrogacy, single parents, teen pregnancies, drugs, cocaine made legal, free po*n, over influence of social media , same sex marriages made legal, poor countries becoming areas of riots, no jobs, religious terror groups kidnapping 100's of shool girls and marrying them etc. These r not ordinary times we live in.
Get ready for more mature kids in future.

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Akriti154

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Posted: 10 years ago

Heyy
yr ruhi's maturity is quite natural i believe
she seen so much parents divorce custody fights raman's rudeness
family tension
i think more than ishra it's her life till now which has made her mature

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kras

@kras

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Bentall
Who told mother never cries in front of small kids.
Mother is also a human being. She has emotions.
Life is not a fairytale. And raman her fathers life was nothing but a living hell thsnks to her mother shagun.
In fact in these times it is wrong if you hide your true feelings just because there is a kid in the house. Ruhi's maturity is natural. Even shravan talking about life and giving gyan about ladies to raman is fine.
Now this is kalyug. The world is cruel and kids these days r born with inherent bad traits.
It is sad but Parents can only guide their life and cannot stop them from being mature in these mordern circumstances with divorce, surrogacy, single parents, teen pregnancies, drugs, cocaine made legal, free po*n, over influence of social media , same sex marriages made legal, poor countries becoming areas of riots, no jobs, religious terror groups kidnapping 100's of shool girls and marrying them etc. These r not ordinary times we live in.
Get ready for more mature kids in future.

mothers cry in front of their small kids when they live in nuclear families

Because there they don't have someone to talk their heart out

But in joint family situation is different

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Akriti154

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Posted: 10 years ago

My parents fight quite often
it's like their dose jst lyk ishra
but what's d beauty of their relationship is they can't stay away from each other
dey cannot go a single day without talking to each other
n most of d time i am d one solving their prblms
it's just dat it's their decision whether to involve their children or not.
Don't mind i am just sharing wht i feel

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kras

@kras

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: akriti154
Heyy
yr ruhi's maturity is quite natural i believe
she seen so much parents divorce custody fights raman's rudeness
family tension
i think more than ishra it's her life till now which has made her mature

i agree

But this is parents duty to control this

And specially a mother duty

Because in our culture mother is first teacher of a kid

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kras

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: akriti154
My parents fight quite often
it's like their dose jst lyk ishra
but what's d beauty of their relationship is they can't stay away from each other
dey cannot go a single day without talking to each other
n most of d time i am d one solving their prblms
it's just dat it's their decision whether to involve their children or not.
Don't mind i am just sharing wht i feel

my family atmosphere is little different

When my parents r only my parents in front of me

But when they r in their room

They talk like husband wife

They fight like husband wife