Woman - Human being ?

I guess majority of forum members are women/girls and ofcourse all of us are human beings.

One can see from the media that the lady was looking for a committed relation and her BF was not ready to provide. The lady seems to have waited and finally let go of it. Any one of us in her state would have been traumatized and I am sure most of us can see it from the interviews.


The woman has reached marriageable age. But she does not have a very good past. She again and again confirmed this by saying she is not in any position to date. She said to 'date'. But ofcourse her friends/parents and near and dear would want her to settle. Come out of the trauma and embrace the new lights in life. They would definitely suggest some eligible persons that come to their vision.

The lady would not have liked to call it as dating. Because she definitely has lost all the confidence in it. After support of near and dear, she must have decided to try it for a marriage possibility. A marriage possibility is very different from dating. Two people are introduced by others with that perspective and they might meet few times to check if it can work out. While dating, I am sure is, very different.

Finally the lady felt confident and decided to go ahead with this new relationship. People who call themselves fans gift her bashing. Left Right Left. I am at loss to see this ..


There is another actor, a male one. Who has openly cheated 2 wives so far. And is now looking for third one. Openly talked very dirty about women's/wife's body etc. But he is still looked upon as a demigod.

While here one women, traumatized by previous 9 year relationship, trying rebuild her life is being targeted ruthlessly.

WE ARE THE FANS...

I agree. The breakup of a long term relationship is a tough one on anyone. Especially a woman who was committed and then found herself single when she thought she was going to get married. Once bitten twice shy, you would not want to put yourself out there just like that! In such a case, the last thing you want it to "Date" another person for years to get the same result. So you are very clear in your mind what you are looking for and most certainly what you are not looking for!

I don't think so that anyone is targeted her or bashed her. fans are disappointed with her lies. I never said that she needed to share every thing about her life but she didn't have rights to bash some souls who only uttered truth about her relationship status. if u didn't recalled then go to her insta acc and check don't know how much things she said to those ppls who said that she and vivek is dating and numerous fans also supported her even I was also one. if u are not willing to share any news you don't have rights give names to some ppls as bashing group and all.

its her life and its not my concern to whom she wanted to marry. but yes she lied so much and lost her respect from me

PS: sorry if I hurt anyone but this is true and again no one is bashing her dear. if this is bashing then wat was that which happened last year during kp wedding?

That was my whole point.

She was not lying. She was saying the truth when she said that she is not dating.

It is not required, to publicly announce that the she is trying for future marriage prospects. More so, she need not announce she is trying so and so person for this prospect. Any one would announce, once they are sure.


I fail to see a lie over there..

Agree about the lady.

Lovely post!!

its really sad to see that instead of being happy for a couple just about to start their new life they are being bashed. And i dont feel she has to disclose every single information about her personal life. Some say.. she must have kept quiet instead of lying. Then dont ask her stupid questions na. If you ask her and she doesn't want to disclose obviously she will lie since saying "no comments" proves the rumors to be true and you see that was her main motive to hide about her personal life. And that is perfectly fine i feel.

i will share something very personal. I am in a serious relationship with a boy who i intend to marry. My parents and only some of my friends know. I purposely dont tell some of my friends because i know no matter what they will question my decision. And the fans who used to ask her these questions were definitely going to bash her after knowing she was considering him for marriage. Her true fans didn't care that is why they defended her.

And the actor you talked about will definitely ditch the third one too. I am pretty sure. Still i see his fans treat him as a Hero.

YES WE ARE FANS!

Very true post; and I know denial would have hurt most of people; but keep yourself at her place.To be frank it's her personal life, we also don't share everything with our closest friends sometimes; and for her we are just fans who are somewhere existing in world but personally she doesn't know any of us. We are like a random person to her personally.