Originally posted by: a_uma
Thanks for detailed reply Ros.. and I agree with some of your points too ..😃
I totally agree with you that its sanskar's decision in the end..
.. but swara was not totally honest in yesterday's episode.. she did not give kavita the true picture.. when kavita was quizzing her, swara should have made it clear that she does not agree to the divorce and still loves him.. she should have atleast told that the divorce papers were signed by her by mistake ..
...all along she has been telling sanskar that she didn't sign the divorce papers and now she suddenly agreed that she did.. she gave the wrong message to both kavita and sanskar..
Ok.. I agree that for last few days sanskar has been against her and refused to believe her love... and in yest episode he agreed before Kavita that the was the same sanskar..
but.. this is the same swara who refused to believe that sanskar didn't love her and vowed to set everything right between them.. didn't she say just the other day that she could see swara in his eyes.. now just because Kavita turned up from the dead, she thinks Kavita has equal Haq and that sanskar cannot forget his first love ?? .. I think she threw in the towel too easily... she could have stood her ground, the way Kavita is doing..
However, going by the sindoor and mangalsutra segment, it looks like swara has changed her stance and decided to fight back and claim her love... 👍🏼
Hey Uma 😳(Sorry I don't know your name? 😕)
I know Swara didn't reveal everything to Kavita... that's what I was saying... I personally feel it should be Sanskaar's call how much he wants to reveal or not because it's him who's the got the choice here. The ball was lying in his court after Swara confessed and it's still there only because Kavita's association is with Sanskaar only now, not Swara since they're divorced and Sanskaar doesn't want to continue with their marriage-- from Swara's POV. The only person who needs to know about the truth behind the divorce papers is Sanskaar & she's told him and the rest of the family (swearing in front of mandir) that she unknowingly signed the divorce papers. Even Sanskaar has started to trust in her love for him, so I'm sure he's figured out that she was telling the truth. It really doesn't matter about the BG details i.e it was DP's dhoka to Swara or anything. What matters is that Sanskaar knows that Swara didn't mean to sign those papers. Like I said, she reinstated the facts... she actually did sign the papers.. she can't lie about that can she? It all comes down to her making her feelings clear to Sanskaar...not Kavita, because it's not up to Kavita. Swara knows Sanskaar loves her... from the they can see only each other in their eyes dialogue proves it... but there is a difference in loving someone and accepting and trusting that love-- and last time Swara interacted with Sanskaar, it was clear that he didn't trust her love. This is why Swara is not revealing everything to Kavita. It comes down to what Swara doesn't know and Sanskaar knows. It comes down to Swara being the outsider now and Kavita being his first and faultless love.
When did Swara not believe in Sanskaar's love? 😲😲 Did I miss something? 😕 That day she said she's gonna fix everything when she left MM... that day there was no Kavita & she knew his only choice would've been her. It's not all about love here, like I said in my previous post. It'll be difficult for Sanskaar & I'm sure he's feeling guilty, but ultimately he'll have to chose. I only want Swara to take a stand if Sanskaar makes it clear to her that he's accepted her love or when she gets hints from Sanskaar/ Sanskaar's behaviour of whom his choice would be. Or if any of the MMwaasis or Kavita suggests that Swara doesn't love Sanskaar-- then also I want her to declare her love boldly. It should only be Sanskaar or the question of her love for him that initiate her to fight, nothing else IMO.
And hey, thanks for responding back and telling me your views. 😳
EDIT: Sanskaar did say Swara
is his wife to Kavita not
was.. I guess that's one of the reasons Swara got so much courage to just walk away and let Sanskaar take the call.
Edited by -Ros- - 10 years ago