The article mentions that Anandi has had more troubles in life than the amount of happiness, which is true.
However, these troubles / pain do not fetch symapthy for Anandi anymore because most of these troubles are a result of Anandi digging her own grave.
So eventually her pains appear pseudo and it becomes torturous to watch.
Since Anandi is not a real human being but a creation of Creatives, it would be nice if Anandi grew with time, so that her pain and her loss would look real. But since they ceased her from growing and rather pushed her back in time, her journey lost its impact.
She is a cry baby because there is always a trouble waiting at her door step, which she embraces with all her heart instead of fighting it practically and bringing an end to it.
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If she wanted, it takes 2 minutes to tell Nimboli what is what and problem solved, but since Anandi likes to shed 100 tears for 1 tear of Nandini (as mentioned by DSa), she will continue to emotionally torture herself as well as Nandini and Shivam, but she will not bring an end to her problem.