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Pams1234

@Pams1234

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anandi needs to tell the truth now to Nandani and Shivam before it's too late.

Why did she not tell Nimbolli that her and Umni marriages are not valid.

Edited by Pams1234 - 10 years ago

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anulavb

@anulavb

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anandi's reactions to troublesome situations these days are very frustrating. Her acceptance of everything makes me feel she's been through so much that she doesn't have any feelings left now. She can't see that Shivam is resenting Nimboli's presence. She doesn't realize that Naimboli/Nandini should get a normal life. One that belongs to her by birth.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

It's not that she doesn't realise or understand what her children need right now.

It is just that she is too slow .

It doesn't matter if she doesn't realise what Mangala is upto but she needs to be more assertive about her rights where her daughter is concerned and insist on spending time with her and also take Shivam into confidence tell him that she is his sister and she doesn't know that yet.

Make Shivam also involved in the process instead of involving the whole BH family and friends and outsiders and keeping Shivam out of it.

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anulavb

@anulavb

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Posted: 10 years ago

I agree aparnauma. She needs to tell Shivam.As I had written in an earlier post, she needs to take things in her own hands. She's always been so proactive when other people's lives and families were concerned. With her own family, she seems to taken a back seat!

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seraal

@seraal

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Posted: 10 years ago

NOW ANANDI YOU SHOULD NOT KEEP ON RELYING ON MANGLA...YOU MUST TELL THE TRUTH TO SHIVAM AND NANDANI-THEIR ACTUAL RELATIONSHIP BEFORE ITS TOO LATE😕😕

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fast trak

@fast trak

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Posted: 10 years ago

The problem is that as viewers we are shown all the angles and everyone's character. Whereas for BH people Mangala and her true colours are totally hidden. They have been under the impression that she is a genuine well wisher of the child and is also interested in revealing about the truth to her but when right time comes as she keeps saying.

I think Anandi and the rest are relying on this fact but the truth is far from it and she is revealing something very very contrast to the truth. This is actually damaging the child's thinking process. As it is she hasn't been exposed to educational things much.

I appreciate that finally Dr Anant is talking about it. He is a paediatoand he is trying to understand the psychology of the child by trying to spill beans in his way. I can't see what's so disturbing for Mangala to walk,with such big thumps and fight with these people. Why on earth she can't get it that these are her family and they will act in her welfare.. She needs to be kicked out very soon, enough of this fake mask of hers. Number one liar she is. Kamli should also know the truth.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anandi and BH folks may not know what Mangala is up to, but can't they also see that Mangala has not managed to bridge any gap between N and A as yet? Is Anandi indeed so dumb?

And honestly which mother relies on another mother to solve her own problem with her child for such a long period of time?

What is being shown is hopeless. One after another kidnap happens. Anandi's son is feeling at a distance, daughter is being tossed between two mothers and Anandi is just watching it like as if she is watching some melodrama. What is Anandi thinking?

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fast trak

@fast trak

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Posted: 10 years ago

I totally agree with you here. It's enough of acting stupid and silly. She needs to step up and act like the mother now. She has to understand that Mangala is not the mother.

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aparnauma

@GoodDoc_2105

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Posted: 10 years ago

Initially when she found her child she was all out to get her chld and was willing to convince the child that she was not thrown into garbage bin.Because at that time she knew that the child will believe her word over Akheraj and Harki's

But she did not know that the person whom her child trusts most also strengthened that belief in her child's mind.

She even objected to Mangala making the child address her as Maa. But Anandi has been convinced by her well wishers that Mangala loves the child and she should respect Mangala's feelings.

This is what Anandi had been doing from that time onwards respecting Mangala's feelings as well as trying to build trust in her daughter's mind.

She doesn't realise that this balancing act is being done only by her and not the other woman who claims to love the child like a mother does.

Anandi needs to get aggressive and concentrate only on building the trust of her daughter so that the child confesses her fears and anxieties.

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Missesha

@Missesha

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Making decision's on well wishers' ideas? One also have to make their own decisions and also need to question their decisions time and again to see if they are working out or not.

If Initially she thought that Mangala will help in bridging the gap and so gave her a chance, fair enough.But for how long is she willing to carry things that way? Forever?

Three months have passed, has Anandi seen any contribution coming from Mangala? So should she not re-consider her decision?

Morever, can't Anandi see Shivam's turmoil, as well as Nandini's. Does this not influence in Anandi changing her strategy of winning her daughter.

When will Anandi ever introspect? Things change from bad to worse, but Anandi's decision's won't change. Why?

Is there any reason why she can't disclose facts to her children?

Edited by Missesha - 10 years ago