Originally posted by: awida
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Very interesting post. It is beautiful to read such posts which go beyond the happenings in the show..and try to read characters and their motives cleverly.
It is gr8 that by watching only few episodes of IKRS you came up with these so true analysis. Even after 3 months of the show cvs stay true to these characters..they are still the same.
Sushma is the most powerful woman in Tripathy house..I think any woman who can turn her weakness into a power is very powerful. Under those many insults by DT Sushma is still has her say in upbringing Viplav which is outstanding. You know what? Sushma reminds me of my mom, although may dad isn't like DT alhamdulillah.
Thank you! 🤗
I personally love reading analytical posts and love writing them even more. 😆 I simply have so many ideas/opinions in my mind when I'm watching television shows, that I have this great need to share it with others. 😳
And for that I am grateful! It is essential for characters to grow and change as time and the different situations dictate. If they remain the same for over a long period of time, then it becomes a problem. I don't know how the characters are progressing as of now, but I will love to see Sushma and Shalini be a little more frank of what's going on in the house to Viplav. He is just so oblivious to all the domestic drama that is going on right now and it's a shame for he is the one who holds the most power to create a dramatic change.
I agree! There are moments here and there where she speaks up against DP and Kanak but she immediately gets shot down. However, the fact that she knows that her talks with Viplav will set him on the right path, is more than enough for her to gain enough strength to tolerate and bear with her dictators. If it wasn't for Viplav, then she would have been shattered by now.
Sushma reminds me of my grandma. There is tension in my house that falls under emotional abuse, mental torture (caused by the daily bickering, suspicious nature, and so much more) and there is so much other negativity caused by other family members that it is simply too much to delve into right now.
A few years ago, I was in the same oblivious state as Viplav where I didn't see what was truly going on in my face. I sided with the wrong person and created a huge clash. There are still so many fractures in our numerous relationships but we have found a way to work around and tolerate each other at this point. It has come to a point where I have realized that a personality change is impossible and all I can do is ensure that as long as I am living in the house (before my marriage), I can provide the best possible atmosphere for my family. To create a warm and hospital home so that they don't have to undergo any difficulties.
It sucks when such a huge emotional burden falls onto the shoulder of the younger generations. We have our own numerous external problems such as school and work. We shouldn't have to bear the burden of fixing broken familial relationships that have remained broken for decades.
I see that I have gotten quite personal and it may seem a bit tedious to take on from a stranger, but my heart really goes out to Sushma. And the fact that I see so much resemblance of my grandma in her, makes it all the more personal.
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