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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: tejaswiniwenham

idk how i feel about Preet's trust though. i am a believer that love really can happen in one second- its not a calculated decision (from personal experience 😳), its something you can live without but thats not really living. but trust- that grows over time with nurture. and ishaan has nurtured that in their relationship over the years. he's been nothing but committed to her and their child and family for these many years. trust isn't like faith- its something that is very difficult to falter. i think about it this way- if one fine day my husband suddenly said something like that to me out of the blue, i would think its a joke. when you live with someone for 5 years you believe that you know everything about that man- from how many times he showers to how loud he snores at night. she's built up confidence in him over 5 years. sharing their sadness and happiness. and his timing for the confession couldn't have been worse. she had just shared her tragedy and the resulting deep prejudice for the padosi mulq and the next second her husband says- oh FYI I'm from there and I'm not the person you thought you'd married at all. how is that one moment suppose to be bigger than her 5 years spent with him. and sometimes things we know and take as truth make it VERY difficult to spot an alternate. so i don't think Preet not doubting Ishaan despite of him spelling out the truth to her that farfetched. she hasn't really seen any concrete proof of anything against him. its all been situations that could've raised accidentally. you can't just start doubting your husband cos of some situational proof. so i guess i understand her stance. but it will be EXTREMELY painful for her in the long run.


Ditto ...word for word my sentiments exactly...
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: pinkeye

Well put perspective Tejas. I do agree that timing of confession was wrong on Rizwan's part. plus as you said he has helped her to have that trust on him with all his commitment and loyalty towards her, the child and family. I am not saying that she has to have doubts on her husband, but a bit more careful about his words, his gestures, his hesitation and what he wants to convey, will eventually help their not so comfortable relationship. at times she is bit aloof I suppose. 😕


Payel...she can't be a bit more careful about his words as in the years they have been married he never gave her any reason to question his identity...

His gestures and hesitation she thinks is due to his still loving his dead wife ...the reason giving to her by him...

She was alright with that as she had her own reasons for not making this marriage real one...

Her aloofness was due to her traumatic past... She just couldn't let anyone neat or be physical...

She HSS no reason what do ever to doubt or even distrust Ishaan...

She won't until it hits her in the face...not till He says it...does something in front if her...to prove it...

She can't afford to not trust the man who makes her feel safe...after her trauma.
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: kubare


Payel...she can't be a bit more careful about his words as in the years they have been married he never gave her any reason to question his identity...

His gestures and hesitation she thinks is due to his still loving his dead wife ...the reason giving to her by him...

She was alright with that as she had her own reasons for not making this marriage real one...

Her aloofness was due to her traumatic past... She just couldn't let anyone neat or be physical...

She HSS no reason what do ever to doubt or even distrust Ishaan...

She won't until it hits her in the face...not till He says it...does something in front if her...to prove it...

She can't afford to not trust the man who makes her feel safe...after her trauma.


Ditto
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Posted: 9 years ago
Don't know whether negative or positive vibes from her for Ishaan, just hope that he follows her advice and makes the most out of this relationship with Preet and makes it memorable..
And changes his decision to get back to his country and the truth comes out regarding his parent's death..
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Posted: 9 years ago
@hilly...
Loved the points you have made...
Yes he's conflicted soul and not aware of the whole truth regarding his past...When and how the truth comes out will leave him shattered...with that he will even have the burden of immense guilt...

As this a Finite series hoping Ekta maintains the crispness in story telling till the
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Posted: 9 years ago
But she gave really really bad advice today :/
I don;t want Ishaan to be nice to Preet just because Sana says so !
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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ..Steph..

But she gave really really bad advice today :/

I don;t want Ishaan to be nice to Preet just because Sana says so !


Ditto

A really very bad advice ...tst if he follows would ruin what ever they have till now in their relationship forever

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