Mein Darpok Hoon! Really?

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Alina

@I-Luv-Rashi

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

Okay so since last two days here on this forum has been a lots of hullabaloo about Rimi and her behaviour and people (Internet's Hindustan) has been blaming and cursing her for being weak and recessive but I've a big question for all of you. Of course All the people never speak before thinking that they're surrounded by cameras and are under scanner but they should take care of their words but what if they are really weak and scared?

So coming back to my question , how many Indian ordinary women are strong and Can fight men?? Because I personally am really scared of guys even my neighbours and all. I can't go and slap a guy who stares me on streets(like TV serial leads do or mostly reality shows give gyaan of) because I know if I'll do such things then I'll get acid thrown on my face and get r**** because this INDIA!!! Sitting behind computer screen and typing all this sh*t is really easy! But can you seriously fight guys? I'm sorry but reality is no!

and for Rimi she was talking about Rochelle and Mandana and when she generalised things she was spot on! Because guys/men/husbands/fathers have huge ego and when women go on and on about their equality it irks them. Can we really go and pee on roads or can we go shirtless in roads? Equality? Huh??

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niksidfan

@niksidfan

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

excuse me... so if many girls are scared that means u should encourage it more? what stupidity 🤔

govt is working hard so that womn can go hand in hand with man and are not considered weak and unequal in any way and she is giving that staement and that too when many might idolise her or like her

yes i agree generally man is physically stronger than women ,so they should learn to treat women gently and nt take advantage of their strngh on women and supress them physically..every gender should respect each others strength and not think of others as weak in any way ..how simple is this thing to understand..gyaan dena han toh koi achcha gyaan dete rimi yeh kya tha..jinko gyan dena chahiye tha unko toh diya nahi

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khamosshhh

@khamosshhh

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

So true!

Also Rimi clearly said she doens't take panga coz she's scared. It was a naively honest statement to make and she never gave it a thought that she would come across as weak and negative. Said it as she felt.

On the other hand we have housemates taking panga and when they can't face the heat talking to BB camera about feeling scared, playing the 'abla naari' and victim card.

Someone said how can Rimi feel scared when she's in BB house with cams 24*7. So how do others feel scared and say it on cam?

And talking abt what she said, though politically incorrect, but sadly true. When we were kids, my school was walking distance from home and there were a string of roadside shops selling mostly audio tapes oh hindi movies and all the music wld be in full blast. Most of the shop keepers wld put on those double meaning hindi songs and pass lewd comments and remarks to us school girls passing by. So to avoid that, we wld take the longer route back. Yes that made us cowards, but again sadly it's the truth. BTW this wasn't only restricted to my school but a very common trait for all schools in my city and I also come from the same city that Rimi comes for, so can understand where her comments come from.

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The Tilde Girl

@~~~~

Stunner

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Posted: 9 years ago

Either u cry for equality and face the men without crying for BB's help or you accept it that u r weaker n need BB's help in EVERYTHING.. I think that's what rimi was trying to explain Mandy and Roch.. 😆

Why make a mountain out of a molehill and bring in issues like women empowerment etc etc on a discussion forum just to prove why a contestant u hate is hateworthy.. 👎🏼

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Naureen

@naureenfizz

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

Rimi clearly wanted to say that I could not take Panga because I know I can't give it back.. She indirectly said to Roch and Mandy that If you give it like a man you should have to take it like a man..

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Naureen

@naureenfizz

Sparkler

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Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: ~~~~
Either u cry for equality and face the men without crying for BB's help or you accept it that u r weaker n need BB's help in EVERYTHING.. I think that's what rimi was trying to explain Mandy and Roch.. 😆
Why make a mountain out of a molehill and bring in issues like women empowerment etc etc on a discussion forum just to prove why a contestant u hate is hateworthy.. 👎🏼

By the way.. Our favourite Urvashi is not very happy with Roch and Mandana.. she like my tweet 😆

Urvashi Dholakia, liked your Tweet

@BiggBoss gave us woman like @urvashi9 and Kamya and now giving us Rochelle and Mandana that is y this season is getting low TRP #BB9

Edited by -naureen786- - 9 years ago

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AB..

@AB..

Explorer

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Posted: 9 years ago

Not taking panga is fine but saying that women frustrate men is wrong.

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gangnamstyle

@gangnamstyle

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

Originally posted by: -naureen786-
Rimi clearly wanted to say that I could not take Panga because I know I can't give it back.. She indirectly said to Roch and Mandy that If you give it like a man you should have to take it like a man..

this is wat i feel like she ws trying to say too

tht if u r going to play gender card then dont go poke them bcz they r physically strong and u wont be able to cope wth the aggression...

if u r scared and more than ready to take out the gender card then act like girls too

if u r going to act all strong and boorish then be prepared to take it as well...

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Viraj

@Ponga.Pandit2

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

Even britisher's were strong but we fought with them for 150 long years,so many people sacrificed their everything,just to get freedom,agar wo bhi dar jaate toh aaj freedom na milta,mujhe pata hai ghar pe baith ke likhna easy hai,but agar koi samne se zulm kare toh you have to give them back at a certain point...otherwise they will keep dominating,sati,dowry,killing of a girl child,child marriage yeh sabh gradually kam ho rahe hai,kyunki koi na koi fight kar raha hai,agar sab rimi ke jaise bole they are strong,I can't fight them toh progress hoga hi nahi balki woh aur dominate karenge,kyunki yeh toh darti hai...pehle girl's ko education bhi lene nahi dete the,but savitribai phule fought with the system...aur girl education chalu huwa ,wo bhi rimi jaisa sochti aur society se kaun ladega baba main toh darpok hoon,toh fir aaj woh khud bhi educated nahi hoti...yeh sab kehna easy hai,I know it's India,yaha girl's ka jina easy nahi hai,lekin pura surrender karna,it's not done.

Edited by Ponga.Pandit - 9 years ago

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Alina

@I-Luv-Rashi

Dazzler

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Posted: 9 years ago

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Originally posted by: Ponga.Pandit
Even britisher's were strong but we fought with them for 150 long years,so many people sacrificed their everything,just to get freedom,agar wo bhi dar jaate toh aaj freedom na milta,mujhe pata hai ghar pe baith ke likhna easy hai,but agar koi samne se zulm kare toh you have to give them back at a certain point...otherwise they will keep dominating,sati,dowry,killing of a girl child,child marriage yeh sabh gradually kam ho rahe hai,kyunki koi na koi fight kar raha hai,agar sab rimi ke jaise bole they are strong,I can't fight them toh progress hoga hi nahi balki woh aur dominate karenge,kyunki yeh toh darti hai...pehle girl's ko education bhi lene nahi dete the,but savitribai phule fought with the system...aur girl education chalu huwa ,wo bhi rimi jaisa sochti aur society se kaun ladega baba main toh darpok hoon,toh fir aaj woh khud bhi educated nahi hoti...yeh sab kehna easy hai,I know it's India,yaha girl's ka jina easy nahi hai,lekin pura surrender karna,it's not done.

Britishers and stuff Haan? Then there are lots of examples like mother Teressa and Jhansi ki rani but I can't be that! Once a guy whistled at me and my friend when I was waiting at bus stand and I started shivering and we left that bus stand and took a cab just to avoid or in you people's language run away from there! So I think Rimi is same as me! And I'm proud of her to speak her mind. I always find this bhashan of women empowerment fake!

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