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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well, in some way or the other, what mangla is going through right now is not at all very different to what happened in Amol's case. Mangla is acting similar to how anandi had behaved when Amol's real parents had come to take him back. Didn't she also want to keep Amol all to herself. But Anand being the lead, she couldn't be portrayed in a dark shade.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wanting to keep the child you have raised is not the issue.
But wanting to prevent the child from meeting the parents and not telling the child that her/his parents have been found and they want to meet the child is wrong.

Yes Anandi didn't want to but she told her child that his parents have come they have been searching for him all these years and told him he should go.But it is the parents who didn't take him back.But later he went to his parents and Anandi didn't stop him.

Here Nandini was not dumpd but she was told that she has been dumped the so called mother never corrected that lie then she is poisoning the child's mind against her mother and now not letting the child know about her mother and not letting the mother near the child.


Feelings are natural how one behaves under the influence those feelings and emotions is what defines a person.

Every body feels the same hunger. But in the absence of food what one does to get food defines a person.
Hungry person can either steal the food or beg for food ,beat up somebody for food,snatch somebody's food or go get some work and earn their food.
Same hunger for food can make a person or break a person.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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anandi even legaly adopted amol at that time
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Posted: 10 years ago
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mangala wants to be with nimboli is not wrong, no issues. but her attitude is - she doesnt want to share nimboli with anyone.
even anandi is not saying get out mangala. But its mangala who doesnt want to share nimboli love with anandi.

I remember when she was in akheraj house and akheraj use to poison nimboli mind about her real mother , that time mangala use to console nimboli and she only told uski koi majboori rahi hogi, that time she did not strongly said that u r mother was bad . but after knowing anandi is her daughter, she changed her statement, now she is purposely poisoning nimboli mind which is wrong.

she should have told nimboli the true story or she should have simply told her that what akheraj is telling is wrong. after that nimboli would have taken decision.

Here mangala has become possessive, rather she is not willing to stay in badi haveli, she wants to escape from the place, she thought after telling this hate story anandi will go back but anandi was adamant and her plan failed.

Mangala's method to keep nimboli with her is wrong. right now she is not behaving like mother, she is behaving like owner and treating nimboli as her slave and expect that she will do what mangala will say.

yes anandi did a big mistake and because of that nimboli is child bride and she lost 12 years of her life but now what mangala is doing is also not in favour of nimboli.





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Posted: 10 years ago
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Mangala is more poisoning than Akhiraj. Because she claims to be the mother figure for Nimboli whatever she says has greatly influenced Nimboli rather than what Akhiraj said. If Akhiraj says bad comments about her mother then all Mangala could have done was to say not true your mother may not have been that bad a person.

I'm sure when Nandini will learn the truth about how Anandi lost her she will surely grow to love her mother. That's the time when she may start doubting Mangala's intentions as well.


Agreed that Mangala got Nimboli married to Kundan to save her life but she also mentally accepted the fact that Nimboli was Kundans wife and will continue to be lifelong. She was hoping for Kundans wife to be nice with Nimboli.. She probably wouldn't mind Nimboli being an ayah to urmis child.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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What dadisa told mangala has deep meaning in future, as what dadisa says is always right😆
so in future nimboli will accept anandi as mother and that time mangala will be looser rather she should get babaji ka thula . reason is priceless acting of rajeshwari sachdeva.

when dadisa was telling her , her expression was like its your overconfidence , nimboli will not accept anandi as mother or nimboli is under my control. she was having wicked smile, and she was laughing on anandi's helplessness, for that she should get lesson.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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kahin mangala hi na kahe nandini se anandi hi tumhari asli maa hai if mangala c so closenes between anandi and nandini

mangala may tell truth to nandini that anandi is ur bilogical mother not because she want nandini to unite with mother but because she may tell truth so that nandini start hating anandi
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The situation of Anandi-Amol and Nimboli-Mangla is similiar but not same:

When Anandi learnt about Amol's parents wanting him back of course she was hurt. Every human being grows an attachment, Mangala here is no different but the way she is behaving is diffrent from Anandi at that time.
Anandi never brainwashed Amol's brain or talked bad about his parents unlike Mangala. It was Amol himself who didn't want to go back to his parents (at first).

Mangala is poisoning Nandani's mind and trying her best that Nandani never learns the real truth. She is ready to go to any length. Who has seen today's episode it was clear she is starting to manipulate Nimboli: When N told her how she went to her "choki chaudail" and she strechted the curtains for Anandai so her sleep is not disturbed by the sun, M started making N feel quilty that N never did such thing for her.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nandini 's thinking might not be so crooked so as to doubt mangala's intentions , once she knows the 'full truth'. Of course if truth gets revealed to her bit by bit in twisted fashion , she might react accordingly. Knowing nandini so far she's sweet to the ones who love her, goes to any extent to protect them and is very loyal. I hope the directors don't butcher her sweet character.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The truth is her mother did not dump her like she has been told by Akheraj Harki and Mangala.
The truth her mother is not stone hearted like Mangala said she is.
The truth is her mother has been searching for her and has managed to find her after 11 years and the truth is Mangala is not allowing the mother to meet the child

The truth is Anandi went to a place along with her daughter to help a woman there in that confusion she lost her daughter.

The truth is Anandi bowed down to the pressure put by a lady who is in a state of distress and in panic.

The truth is Anandi never handed over her daughter to anyone.

The truth is Mangala's devi avtar is fake

The truth is Mangala had known all along that the girl's mother never dumped her but she hid the truth.

Now it is upto Nandini to decide whether her mother has wronged her intentionally by dumping her or wronged her due to her foolishness while she was helping someone.

Will she find her mother at fault for trying to stop a little girl being married off to Kundan after what she herself as experienced as Balika Vadhu?

She may be angry with her mother for not being there for her but will she fault her mother?

Shiv's fondest wish seems to have come true. He wished for a daughter who is an exact replica of his dear wife and his daughter is very much like his wife in many ways.


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